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Tuesday, May 29, 2012
Made To Make A Difference
Doing only what is easy and convenient, comfortable and free of challenge, doesn’t get you very far. Chasing after something for nothing ends up getting you nothing of real value.
In order to experience true fulfillment in any undertaking, you must invest yourself in it. It is your active participation and contribution to life that makes it so good to live.
If you continually take the easy way out, avoiding effort, challenge and commitment, you’ll end up being very disappointed. You are made to make a difference, so embrace every opportunity to do so.
You are here to participate, not just to observe. The true joy you feel will come not from meaningless possessions or empty pleasures, but from creating and expressing and experiencing the goodness of life in your own unique way.
Don’t waste your precious time in a fruitless attempt to get something for nothing. In every moment there are plenty of opportunities to create real value that flows from the authentic beauty of who you are.
Your deepest desires and your most difficult problems are challenging you to make a positive difference. Do yourself a big favor, accept the challenge, make the effort, and create the true fulfillment that is your destiny.
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Push YourSelf Forward
There are plenty of obstacles that can stand in your way. Don’t be one of them.
Your own thoughts, assumptions and fears can hold you back just as surely as a solid brick wall. And yet, just as you created those self-imposed obstacles, you can let them go.
Instead of fighting against yourself, use the amazing power of your thoughts to more fully enable yourself. Instead of constructing elaborate excuses for avoiding your dreams, just go ahead and let yourself live those dreams.
Yes, life is difficult and challenging, and requires great effort and commitment on your part. Instead of adding to the difficulty with your own negativity, you can choose to enthusiastically transform that difficulty into profound fulfillment.
Remind yourself what a privilege it is to be alive, and to be able to make a difference. Then, focus your awareness on the positive possibilities and do what you do best.
Use your thoughts not to hold yourself back, but to push yourself positively and lovingly forward. Aim the power of your thoughts in a positive, fulfilling direction and your whole life will go in that direction too......
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Confidently Moving Forward
The difficulties can get you down, but only if you let them. The setbacks can make you discouraged, but only if you allow them to do so.
You always have another choice. You can choose to focus on the good places you intend to go to, instead of on the painful places you’ve had to go through.
Sure, life is tough and the journey is difficult. Yet at the same time life can be exquisitely beautiful and immensely rewarding.
It doesn’t really accomplish anything to complain about, or to dwell on, life’s unfairness. What will make a positive difference is to put your energy and enthusiasm into following a meaningful purpose.
Decide that you will put the difficulties to work for you. Let them inspire you and make you more and more determined.
Each time you experience a setback, use it as an opportunity to remind you of the good and desirable places you intend to go. Then step confidently forward, leave that negative incident behind, and move ahead with more energy and passion than ever before.
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You always have another choice. You can choose to focus on the good places you intend to go to, instead of on the painful places you’ve had to go through.
Sure, life is tough and the journey is difficult. Yet at the same time life can be exquisitely beautiful and immensely rewarding.
It doesn’t really accomplish anything to complain about, or to dwell on, life’s unfairness. What will make a positive difference is to put your energy and enthusiasm into following a meaningful purpose.
Decide that you will put the difficulties to work for you. Let them inspire you and make you more and more determined.
Each time you experience a setback, use it as an opportunity to remind you of the good and desirable places you intend to go. Then step confidently forward, leave that negative incident behind, and move ahead with more energy and passion than ever before.
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Monday, May 28, 2012
Persistence
If you did it once, you can do it again. When you’ve taken one step, you can take another.
Prove to yourself and to all of life that you really do wish to reach the destination. Prove it with persistence.
Your wishes and your words might be believed, or they might not. Your persistence, though, is not only an indisputable statement of your intention, but also a bona fide fulfillment of that intention.
Say it with conviction and passion. Then prove it with persistence.
Persistence is not complicated and you never have to do it all at once. Simply persist for a moment, and then for another and another.
With enough persistence, the biggest obstacles will eventually fall and the most ambitious achievements are well within your reach. When you truly want it, prove it with persistence and it will be yours.
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Prove to yourself and to all of life that you really do wish to reach the destination. Prove it with persistence.
Your wishes and your words might be believed, or they might not. Your persistence, though, is not only an indisputable statement of your intention, but also a bona fide fulfillment of that intention.
Say it with conviction and passion. Then prove it with persistence.
Persistence is not complicated and you never have to do it all at once. Simply persist for a moment, and then for another and another.
With enough persistence, the biggest obstacles will eventually fall and the most ambitious achievements are well within your reach. When you truly want it, prove it with persistence and it will be yours.
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A Greater Success
You don’t have to be famous to be important. You don’t have to be a celebrity to be successful.
You don’t have to live in opulent luxury to be rich. You don’t have to be irresponsible to be free.
You don’t have to be outrageous to be creative. You don’t have to be abusive to be impressive.
You can be quietly humble and still be amazingly effective. You can be kind and considerate and still have great influence.
Just because people don’t fall at your feet and worship you, doesn’t mean you are a failure. Quiet success is just as sweet as loud, flamboyant success, and usually much more real.
Success is what you choose for it to be, not what everyone else says it must be. Live your life in each moment in a way that truly fulfills you and brings value to your world, for that is the greatest success.
You don’t have to live in opulent luxury to be rich. You don’t have to be irresponsible to be free.
You don’t have to be outrageous to be creative. You don’t have to be abusive to be impressive.
You can be quietly humble and still be amazingly effective. You can be kind and considerate and still have great influence.
Just because people don’t fall at your feet and worship you, doesn’t mean you are a failure. Quiet success is just as sweet as loud, flamboyant success, and usually much more real.
Success is what you choose for it to be, not what everyone else says it must be. Live your life in each moment in a way that truly fulfills you and brings value to your world, for that is the greatest success.
Know & Go
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Know that you can, and you can. Decide that you will, and you will.
The most essential ingredient in your success is you. Your authentic intention and solid commitment will bring into your life whatever you choose.
Just because achievement is not easy or instantaneous, doesn’t mean it’s impossible or out of your reach. Know that you can, go make it happen, and what you truly desire you will most certainly achieve.
The problems and challenges give you the opportunity to prove you really want the achievement. Your effectiveness in reaching it comes directly from the authentic passion you have for doing so.
In every moment, you make a choice, and those choices add up to the life you experience. You can choose to follow your purpose, and to achieve what you know deep inside you can, or you can choose to avoid your greatest possibilities.
In this moment, and the next and the next, choose to go forward to a life that grows ever richer and more fulfilling. You know you can, so get going, keep going, and bring your dreams magnificently to life
Know that you can, and you can. Decide that you will, and you will.
The most essential ingredient in your success is you. Your authentic intention and solid commitment will bring into your life whatever you choose.
Just because achievement is not easy or instantaneous, doesn’t mean it’s impossible or out of your reach. Know that you can, go make it happen, and what you truly desire you will most certainly achieve.
The problems and challenges give you the opportunity to prove you really want the achievement. Your effectiveness in reaching it comes directly from the authentic passion you have for doing so.
In every moment, you make a choice, and those choices add up to the life you experience. You can choose to follow your purpose, and to achieve what you know deep inside you can, or you can choose to avoid your greatest possibilities.
In this moment, and the next and the next, choose to go forward to a life that grows ever richer and more fulfilling. You know you can, so get going, keep going, and bring your dreams magnificently to life
Sunday, May 27, 2012
Saturday, May 26, 2012
Be Real & Be Effective
The way to be passionate is to be honest. True passion comes from true purpose.
If you only pretend to be passionate, what have you really accomplished? You’ve merely managed to be ineffective at something you didn’t want to do anyway.
You have the power and the ability to do great things. It just makes sense to direct that power into what really matters.
Why waste your time faking it just so you can look good? You can use your time to follow a sincere and authentic path that will bring you the life you truly desire.
The best way to be is to be real. Anything else is certain to eventually bring frustration and disappointment.
Be real, be honest, and be willing to admit with your words and your actions what is truly important to you. Be real, and live at your most effective and fulfilled level
If you only pretend to be passionate, what have you really accomplished? You’ve merely managed to be ineffective at something you didn’t want to do anyway.
You have the power and the ability to do great things. It just makes sense to direct that power into what really matters.
Why waste your time faking it just so you can look good? You can use your time to follow a sincere and authentic path that will bring you the life you truly desire.
The best way to be is to be real. Anything else is certain to eventually bring frustration and disappointment.
Be real, be honest, and be willing to admit with your words and your actions what is truly important to you. Be real, and live at your most effective and fulfilled level
Figure It Out
Life can be complicated, frustrating, unfair and highly arbitrary, and that can make it extremely difficult to know what’s best to do. Yet you have the ability, and the opportunity, to figure it out.
Plenty of people will be happy to give you advice, and much of that advice can be quite valuable. No one, however, can consider that advice from your unique perspective and apply it to your life as well as you can.
If you always depend on someone else to tell you what to do, your life will be long on resentment and frustration, and short on fulfillment. To enjoy real success and achievement, you must spend the time and effort to figure it out for yourself.
It is a serious, essential responsibility, and if you choose to see it as a burden, it will be. Yet you can just as realistically choose to see it as an opportunity, for it is truly a powerful and amazing one.
The fact is, you are fully capable of taking the initiative and figuring out the strategic direction for your work and your life. Though you never have to go it alone, you must have your very own clear and unambiguous sense of direction to which you’re fully committed.
This is your life to live and your chance to create outstanding, meaningful and delightful value. Figure out what will move your own world forward, and find real joy and fulfillment in making it happen.
Plenty of people will be happy to give you advice, and much of that advice can be quite valuable. No one, however, can consider that advice from your unique perspective and apply it to your life as well as you can.
If you always depend on someone else to tell you what to do, your life will be long on resentment and frustration, and short on fulfillment. To enjoy real success and achievement, you must spend the time and effort to figure it out for yourself.
It is a serious, essential responsibility, and if you choose to see it as a burden, it will be. Yet you can just as realistically choose to see it as an opportunity, for it is truly a powerful and amazing one.
The fact is, you are fully capable of taking the initiative and figuring out the strategic direction for your work and your life. Though you never have to go it alone, you must have your very own clear and unambiguous sense of direction to which you’re fully committed.
This is your life to live and your chance to create outstanding, meaningful and delightful value. Figure out what will move your own world forward, and find real joy and fulfillment in making it happen.
Go With What You Have
This moment is here, the situation is as it is, so go with it. Your best option is to adopt a positive, enthusiastic attitude, and to move forward with what you have.
Wishing, complaining, blaming and harboring resentment won’t do much other than waste your time. Instead, use that time to use what’s available to you and make things better.
Your goals and dreams are too important to put off until conditions are perfect. Go with the conditions as they are, and get busy right now with making those dreams come true.
There’s much to distract you, and it’s easy to make perfectly reasonable excuses out of those distractions. Yet you can choose instead to focus on the task at hand, using your diligent efforts to create what you desire from what you have.
Go with what you have, from where you are, with the powerful passion of authentic purpose. And you can end up anywhere you choose.
Wishing, complaining, blaming and harboring resentment won’t do much other than waste your time. Instead, use that time to use what’s available to you and make things better.
Your goals and dreams are too important to put off until conditions are perfect. Go with the conditions as they are, and get busy right now with making those dreams come true.
There’s much to distract you, and it’s easy to make perfectly reasonable excuses out of those distractions. Yet you can choose instead to focus on the task at hand, using your diligent efforts to create what you desire from what you have.
Go with what you have, from where you are, with the powerful passion of authentic purpose. And you can end up anywhere you choose.
Thursday, May 24, 2012
5 Things That Drive Men Crazy
Men love women. They do. But that doesn’t mean women don’t drive them crazy. Even after oceans of ink have been spilled about how the two sexes can better understand and accept each other, women still find ways to annoy men — and vice versa. Here are the top five ways she’s making you crazy right now. Ladies, are you guilty of any of these irritating behaviors?
1. Game-playing/manufacturing drama. There are lots of ways to create drama and excitement in a relationship, but men aren’t usually fans — unless said excitement involves clothing removal. “Asking too much too soon about his past relationships” is one way women drive men nuts and create drama, says Dr. Linda R. Young, Ph.D., a psychologist and relationship coach who blogs for Psychology Today. Making him late by taking too long to get ready is another. Getting irrationally jealous over platonic friends or running hot, then cold with no explanation are just a few more.
Whether the drama is minor or significant, men would rather skip it. “I think these [behaviors] exist because men and women don’t have the skills to live beyond the ‘game-playing’ they learned as adolescents, which is perpetuated by the media,” explains Marni Battista, expert dating coach and founder of DatingWithDignity.com. “It takes an entire toolkit of advanced skills to create truly win-win situations in relationships. A person who doesn’t have these skills will always go to those old ‘default’ tendencies to fill the void.” And thus, drama is born.
Ask yourself: Have I recently thrown either an object or a tantrum? If the answer is “yes,” you might be a drama queen. Take it down a notch by talking to your partner about why you’re feeling so angry and exactly what you need to feel calmer in the relationship. If you’re the one dealing with a drama queen, tell her you’re happy to discuss problems like an adult but you’re not interested in entertaining a whole restaurant with her shenanigans. If she doesn’t calm down, tell her to audition for a reality show and leave you alone.
2. Expecting the man to pay for everything. Most men don’t mind picking up the check early on in a courtship, but after a few dates, it’s nice for a woman to offer to contribute financially — especially if exclusivity has been established. Men like to be generous, but they don’t like to be taken for suckers, especially if the woman they’re seeing has a good job. As a corollary to this one, “Men are often put off by women trying to get a sense early on about what he does for a living and how much he earns,” says Dr. Seth Meyers, a Los Angeles-based psychologist and author of Dr. Seth’s Love Prescription. Men are people, too. If they feel they’re being sized up for more shallow, resume-type qualities, they’ll be annoyed.
3. “Wanting to know ‘where the relationship is going’ before he’s ready to say, or before he knows himself,” is a big one, according to Dr. Young. Dating is supposed to be a chance to get to know another person. It’s not a guarantee of finding a certain kind of relationship, and women who treat it this way drive men nuts. It’s almost as if the woman is selling herself short — after all, you can’t help but ask why a lady would want some kind of commitment from someone she doesn’t really know yet. Why is her “audition process” so short? Likewise, “Men often get bothered with women asking or talking about their beliefs about marriage and children early in the dating process,” observes Meyers. It puts too much pressure on what should be the fun part of getting to know someone when the end goal is the only thing a woman wants to focus on.
If the relationship isn’t likely to blossom into something steady and he’s upfront about that, a man wants the woman to hear what he’s saying and take him at face value. “Men are frustrated by women who don’t really believe them when they say, ‘I’m not in a place to have a relationship, but I really like hanging out with you,’” says Battista. “A man will give this ‘disclaimer’ and then be irritated when the woman finds she can’t change him, then begins to get angry that he hasn’t met her expectations.” If a woman wants to know how a man really feels and then gets hysterical after an honest response, it’s enough to — you guessed it — drive him crazy.
4. Being controlling. “Correcting him on little details when he’s got the big picture right,” adds Dr. Young, is another thing that drives men bonkers. It’s often true that women are better at multitasking, but that doesn’t mean they have to run every detail of the show. A man will get frustrated if a woman asks him to do something then won’t give him a chance to do it his way. The real show-stopper is when she then claims she “has to do everything around here!” If this situation sounds familiar, how can you improve it?
“If you want to put a stop to people’s annoying behavior, you first have to make them aware of it,” says Marc Muchnick, Ph.D., author of No More Regrets! 30 Ways to Greater Happiness and Meaning in Your Life. “Often, people don’t realize that what they are doing is bugging you, so when you tell them, it may come as a surprise.” So tell your significant other that she has to trust you if she doesn’t want to plan every meal, vacation and weekend you spend together, guys. Then do a good job with the task — in your own way, of course — and she just might back off.
5. Not getting enough “guy time.” In ancient cultures, men often spent most of their time with other men while the women socialized with each other. That, as we all know, has changed. And it’s hard for some men to accept. They want their guy time, and it’s rough when women don’t respect that. As long as “guys’ night out” isn’t a code for regularly losing thousands of dollars gambling or paying for strippers, men deserve to have time with their male friends. Deciding exactly how much time is appropriate should be left up to each couple. Remind her that time spent away from each other means the time you do have together will be that much richer — especially with funny stories about the ridiculous thing your buddy Paulie did last weekend. The key is, be reasonable. If you want more guy time than gal time, maybe having a wife or a girlfriend isn’t in the cards for you.
1. Game-playing/manufacturing drama. There are lots of ways to create drama and excitement in a relationship, but men aren’t usually fans — unless said excitement involves clothing removal. “Asking too much too soon about his past relationships” is one way women drive men nuts and create drama, says Dr. Linda R. Young, Ph.D., a psychologist and relationship coach who blogs for Psychology Today. Making him late by taking too long to get ready is another. Getting irrationally jealous over platonic friends or running hot, then cold with no explanation are just a few more.
Whether the drama is minor or significant, men would rather skip it. “I think these [behaviors] exist because men and women don’t have the skills to live beyond the ‘game-playing’ they learned as adolescents, which is perpetuated by the media,” explains Marni Battista, expert dating coach and founder of DatingWithDignity.com. “It takes an entire toolkit of advanced skills to create truly win-win situations in relationships. A person who doesn’t have these skills will always go to those old ‘default’ tendencies to fill the void.” And thus, drama is born.
Ask yourself: Have I recently thrown either an object or a tantrum? If the answer is “yes,” you might be a drama queen. Take it down a notch by talking to your partner about why you’re feeling so angry and exactly what you need to feel calmer in the relationship. If you’re the one dealing with a drama queen, tell her you’re happy to discuss problems like an adult but you’re not interested in entertaining a whole restaurant with her shenanigans. If she doesn’t calm down, tell her to audition for a reality show and leave you alone.
2. Expecting the man to pay for everything. Most men don’t mind picking up the check early on in a courtship, but after a few dates, it’s nice for a woman to offer to contribute financially — especially if exclusivity has been established. Men like to be generous, but they don’t like to be taken for suckers, especially if the woman they’re seeing has a good job. As a corollary to this one, “Men are often put off by women trying to get a sense early on about what he does for a living and how much he earns,” says Dr. Seth Meyers, a Los Angeles-based psychologist and author of Dr. Seth’s Love Prescription. Men are people, too. If they feel they’re being sized up for more shallow, resume-type qualities, they’ll be annoyed.
3. “Wanting to know ‘where the relationship is going’ before he’s ready to say, or before he knows himself,” is a big one, according to Dr. Young. Dating is supposed to be a chance to get to know another person. It’s not a guarantee of finding a certain kind of relationship, and women who treat it this way drive men nuts. It’s almost as if the woman is selling herself short — after all, you can’t help but ask why a lady would want some kind of commitment from someone she doesn’t really know yet. Why is her “audition process” so short? Likewise, “Men often get bothered with women asking or talking about their beliefs about marriage and children early in the dating process,” observes Meyers. It puts too much pressure on what should be the fun part of getting to know someone when the end goal is the only thing a woman wants to focus on.
If the relationship isn’t likely to blossom into something steady and he’s upfront about that, a man wants the woman to hear what he’s saying and take him at face value. “Men are frustrated by women who don’t really believe them when they say, ‘I’m not in a place to have a relationship, but I really like hanging out with you,’” says Battista. “A man will give this ‘disclaimer’ and then be irritated when the woman finds she can’t change him, then begins to get angry that he hasn’t met her expectations.” If a woman wants to know how a man really feels and then gets hysterical after an honest response, it’s enough to — you guessed it — drive him crazy.
4. Being controlling. “Correcting him on little details when he’s got the big picture right,” adds Dr. Young, is another thing that drives men bonkers. It’s often true that women are better at multitasking, but that doesn’t mean they have to run every detail of the show. A man will get frustrated if a woman asks him to do something then won’t give him a chance to do it his way. The real show-stopper is when she then claims she “has to do everything around here!” If this situation sounds familiar, how can you improve it?
“If you want to put a stop to people’s annoying behavior, you first have to make them aware of it,” says Marc Muchnick, Ph.D., author of No More Regrets! 30 Ways to Greater Happiness and Meaning in Your Life. “Often, people don’t realize that what they are doing is bugging you, so when you tell them, it may come as a surprise.” So tell your significant other that she has to trust you if she doesn’t want to plan every meal, vacation and weekend you spend together, guys. Then do a good job with the task — in your own way, of course — and she just might back off.
5. Not getting enough “guy time.” In ancient cultures, men often spent most of their time with other men while the women socialized with each other. That, as we all know, has changed. And it’s hard for some men to accept. They want their guy time, and it’s rough when women don’t respect that. As long as “guys’ night out” isn’t a code for regularly losing thousands of dollars gambling or paying for strippers, men deserve to have time with their male friends. Deciding exactly how much time is appropriate should be left up to each couple. Remind her that time spent away from each other means the time you do have together will be that much richer — especially with funny stories about the ridiculous thing your buddy Paulie did last weekend. The key is, be reasonable. If you want more guy time than gal time, maybe having a wife or a girlfriend isn’t in the cards for you.
The Moves Women LoVe
It is true, that women do tend to fall for the Bad-Boy. And it can be possible to be too nice. So here are a few of the Moves that Women Love......
Sorry to break this to you, single men, but it is possible to be too nice. And if you’re reading this article, you’ve probably fallen into the trap of following all the rules — you wined and dined her, asked her questions, called the next day — but still didn’t win her heart. What gives? “Women like a nice guy at first,” says Dr. Robert Glover, author of No More Mr. Nice Guy. But niceness can also be seen as weakness — and that’s a major turn-off for most women. So how do you show a date that you’re genuinely interested in her without going overboard? We asked Dr. Glover and single men and women for some pointers that should help even the meekest man make a stronger statement during dates.
DO take charge
“Dating is like a dance: If you don’t take the lead, she has to,” Dr. Glover says. “Most women don’t want to be in charge.” Asking her out is a big step, but it’s not enough. Dr. Glover suggests having a particular day and plan already picked out in advance: “Asking her to go out sometime leaves too many details to be determined. Instead, ask her to meet you for drinks on Tuesday.” That way, all she has to decide is whether or not she’s free that night.
DO disagree with her
“Nothing irritates me more than someone who agrees with everything I say, even when I can tell he has another opinion,” says Theresa M. from Washington, D.C. “If I wanted to hear my thoughts on a subject, I would just talk to myself. I want a guy who will challenge me.” By avoiding conflict with your date, you may as well be wearing a big sign that says, I’m a pushover! If you don’t see eye-to-eye with her, say so.
DO tease her a little
You won’t ever find a woman who doesn’t like a man who’s funny. So go ahead and let your sarcasm streak or dry sense of humor shine — just make sure to do it playfully. Sean, 35, from New York City, attests to the power of this move: “I used some playful teasing on my last date — I told her, ‘Your head isn’t nearly as large as it looks on your profile’ — and we were able to use all that built-in first-date tension to our advantage.” By carrying yourself this way, you’ll look confident — which, by the way, is a turn-on for everyone.
DO talk about yourself
Don’t ramble on about your own life constantly, but mentioning things here and there is a good way to make sure your date doesn’t feel like she’s interrogating you. Instead, ask her where she was born; then, when she’s done answering you, drop a few relevant details about your life. “Everything was always about me with this one guy I dated. It was so annoying,” says Alina from Chicago. “There’s no way I’m that interesting! I kept waiting for him to tell me something.”
DON’T plan elaborate dates
“The first two or three dates should be simple, casual coffee-type meetings. You should pay for them, but they should be cheap,” says Dr. Glover. Do the opposite, and you just look like you’re trying too hard, says Marissa from Johnson City, TN. “A guy bought concert tickets for a band I had mentioned in passing,” she explains. “He spent way too much money. It was shocking, and I felt like I owed him something afterward.” Clearly, these are not good feelings to build a relationship on.
DON’T compliment your date too much
“An ex-boyfriend gave me compliments all the time,” says Rachel from Harrisonburg, VA. “It got to the point that I didn’t believe him anymore, and I figured he said those things to every woman he dated.” Seeming insincere is bad, but it can get even worse: “She’ll like it at first, but persistent flattery will start to spook her in some way,” says Dr. Glover. Forget the usual flood of flattery, then, and show her you care by the occasional compliment from the heart — and by being reliable.
DON’T try to speed up the relationship
After a great date, you may feel compelled to ask her out again — right then and there — for the next night… and the weekend after, too. Go slowly — don’t overwhelm a woman with attention. Dr. Glover suggests you only see each other once a week (at most) at the start of a new relationship. If you seem too eager, you’ll look needy and available for most women. “After a second date, this guy wanted to spend all of his time with me,” says Caroline, 28, from Los Angeles. “I started to wonder if he had his own life, but I didn’t want to stick around to find out.” So to avoid that fate, pace yourself, enjoy the anticipation — and let things unfold slowly and steadily.
Sorry to break this to you, single men, but it is possible to be too nice. And if you’re reading this article, you’ve probably fallen into the trap of following all the rules — you wined and dined her, asked her questions, called the next day — but still didn’t win her heart. What gives? “Women like a nice guy at first,” says Dr. Robert Glover, author of No More Mr. Nice Guy. But niceness can also be seen as weakness — and that’s a major turn-off for most women. So how do you show a date that you’re genuinely interested in her without going overboard? We asked Dr. Glover and single men and women for some pointers that should help even the meekest man make a stronger statement during dates.
DO take charge
“Dating is like a dance: If you don’t take the lead, she has to,” Dr. Glover says. “Most women don’t want to be in charge.” Asking her out is a big step, but it’s not enough. Dr. Glover suggests having a particular day and plan already picked out in advance: “Asking her to go out sometime leaves too many details to be determined. Instead, ask her to meet you for drinks on Tuesday.” That way, all she has to decide is whether or not she’s free that night.
DO disagree with her
“Nothing irritates me more than someone who agrees with everything I say, even when I can tell he has another opinion,” says Theresa M. from Washington, D.C. “If I wanted to hear my thoughts on a subject, I would just talk to myself. I want a guy who will challenge me.” By avoiding conflict with your date, you may as well be wearing a big sign that says, I’m a pushover! If you don’t see eye-to-eye with her, say so.
DO tease her a little
You won’t ever find a woman who doesn’t like a man who’s funny. So go ahead and let your sarcasm streak or dry sense of humor shine — just make sure to do it playfully. Sean, 35, from New York City, attests to the power of this move: “I used some playful teasing on my last date — I told her, ‘Your head isn’t nearly as large as it looks on your profile’ — and we were able to use all that built-in first-date tension to our advantage.” By carrying yourself this way, you’ll look confident — which, by the way, is a turn-on for everyone.
DO talk about yourself
Don’t ramble on about your own life constantly, but mentioning things here and there is a good way to make sure your date doesn’t feel like she’s interrogating you. Instead, ask her where she was born; then, when she’s done answering you, drop a few relevant details about your life. “Everything was always about me with this one guy I dated. It was so annoying,” says Alina from Chicago. “There’s no way I’m that interesting! I kept waiting for him to tell me something.”
DON’T plan elaborate dates
“The first two or three dates should be simple, casual coffee-type meetings. You should pay for them, but they should be cheap,” says Dr. Glover. Do the opposite, and you just look like you’re trying too hard, says Marissa from Johnson City, TN. “A guy bought concert tickets for a band I had mentioned in passing,” she explains. “He spent way too much money. It was shocking, and I felt like I owed him something afterward.” Clearly, these are not good feelings to build a relationship on.
DON’T compliment your date too much
“An ex-boyfriend gave me compliments all the time,” says Rachel from Harrisonburg, VA. “It got to the point that I didn’t believe him anymore, and I figured he said those things to every woman he dated.” Seeming insincere is bad, but it can get even worse: “She’ll like it at first, but persistent flattery will start to spook her in some way,” says Dr. Glover. Forget the usual flood of flattery, then, and show her you care by the occasional compliment from the heart — and by being reliable.
DON’T try to speed up the relationship
After a great date, you may feel compelled to ask her out again — right then and there — for the next night… and the weekend after, too. Go slowly — don’t overwhelm a woman with attention. Dr. Glover suggests you only see each other once a week (at most) at the start of a new relationship. If you seem too eager, you’ll look needy and available for most women. “After a second date, this guy wanted to spend all of his time with me,” says Caroline, 28, from Los Angeles. “I started to wonder if he had his own life, but I didn’t want to stick around to find out.” So to avoid that fate, pace yourself, enjoy the anticipation — and let things unfold slowly and steadily.
Work Towards Your Dreams
Your most treasured dreams are far too valuable to be hidden away. Instead, put them into action so that they become real and vibrant contributions to your world.
Every moment will be filled with some activity or another. So fill as many of those moments as you can today with positive action.
You’re always moving in some direction or another. So move steadily in the direction of those things you value and treasure most.
It can be all too easy to get caught up in the empty distractions that continually come your way. But do you really want to waste your time and energy on them when there is so much more you can be doing?
Pick the most positive, valuable, magnificent thing you can imagine and put it into action. Let it fill your thoughts and fill your moments.
When each action, no matter what it may be, is taken as a step toward what you treasure most, the power of joy and purpose will fill your efforts. Put your dreams into action, and put your own special value into life.
"What You Give"
It is by making a difference that you make a life. It is by giving of your authentic self that you gain access to life’s great richness.
When things are going well, you have many opportunities to make a difference. When difficult problems arise, you have even more opportunities to move the world positively forward.
Today will present you with plenty of meaningful opportunities to make a positive difference. Each of these opportunities is also an opportunity to greatly enrich your life.
If it is self-esteem you seek, here is a way to guarantee it. Observe yourself as you work through the challenges and act to create real value in your world.
All of life longs to hear your unique voice. Be yourself, and do it with passion, effectiveness, creativity and love.
Make the choices that will make a real difference. What you give is what determines how well you truly live.
A Greater Success
You don’t have to be famous to be important. You don’t have to be a celebrity to be successful.
You don’t have to live in opulent luxury to be rich. You don’t have to be irresponsible to be free.
You don’t have to be outrageous to be creative. You don’t have to be abusive to be impressive.
You can be quietly humble and still be amazingly effective. You can be kind and considerate and still have great influence.
Just because people don’t fall at your feet and worship you, doesn’t mean you are a failure. Quiet success is just as sweet as loud, flamboyant success, and usually much more real.
Success is what you choose for it to be, not what everyone else says it must be. Live your life in each moment in a way that truly fulfills you and brings value to your world, for that is the greatest success.
You don’t have to live in opulent luxury to be rich. You don’t have to be irresponsible to be free.
You don’t have to be outrageous to be creative. You don’t have to be abusive to be impressive.
You can be quietly humble and still be amazingly effective. You can be kind and considerate and still have great influence.
Just because people don’t fall at your feet and worship you, doesn’t mean you are a failure. Quiet success is just as sweet as loud, flamboyant success, and usually much more real.
Success is what you choose for it to be, not what everyone else says it must be. Live your life in each moment in a way that truly fulfills you and brings value to your world, for that is the greatest success.
Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Tuesday, May 22, 2012
Mike Taylor - Otis pt. 2 (Watch the Throne) Official Video
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"In This Life" [Open Eyes] by J Rag
"In This Life" [Open Eyes] by J Rag
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"In This Life{Open Eyes}" by J Rag [Produced by J Rag & Lf Daze]
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"In This Life" [Open Eyes] by J Rag
"In This Life" [Open Eyes] by J Rag
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"In This Life{Open Eyes}" by J Rag [Produced by J Rag & Lf Daze]
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Monday, May 21, 2012
Sunday, May 20, 2012
A Positive Reality
If you choose to cause harm, then you will be harmed by it as well. If you choose to create value, then you will benefit from that value.
If you direct your efforts against the interests of others, those efforts will also work to oppose your own true interests. When you work to support others, you also end up supporting and advancing your own life.
Negativity is universally destructive, regardless of the direction in which it is focused. Genuine love is universally creative and beneficial, and goes far beyond its intended object.
Don’t bring your whole world down by obsessing over who or what you are against. Lift your world higher by supporting and advancing the values and visions you are for.
Let go of the fears that hold you back. Grab hold of your most treasured dreams, for they will bring out your highest levels of effectiveness and creativity.
Put your energy and efforts into what you favor. The way to experience a positive reality is to constantly keep your focus on a positive vision.
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If you direct your efforts against the interests of others, those efforts will also work to oppose your own true interests. When you work to support others, you also end up supporting and advancing your own life.
Negativity is universally destructive, regardless of the direction in which it is focused. Genuine love is universally creative and beneficial, and goes far beyond its intended object.
Don’t bring your whole world down by obsessing over who or what you are against. Lift your world higher by supporting and advancing the values and visions you are for.
Let go of the fears that hold you back. Grab hold of your most treasured dreams, for they will bring out your highest levels of effectiveness and creativity.
Put your energy and efforts into what you favor. The way to experience a positive reality is to constantly keep your focus on a positive vision.
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Your Own Special Excellence
There’s nothing positive to be gained by worrying about what might go wrong. Put your energy into arranging for things to go the way you intend.......
Life is filled with frustration, pain, inconvenience, disappointment and all sorts of other troubles. And in every frustration, in every inconvenience, in every difficulty is an opportunity to make life better.
You don’t have to accept anything less than a life of excellence. Because you can make a difference, and you can continually make improvements.
Instead of complaining about whatever may be bothering you, simply acknowledge it and then get busy doing something to improve the situation. Instead of settling for anything less than the best you can imagine, keep making improvements until your reality is in line with your highest vision.
There’s nothing positive to be gained by worrying about what might go wrong. Put your energy into arranging for things to go the way you intend.
Of course you cannot control every influence upon your life. However, you can prepare and position yourself to intelligently, purposefully and positively respond to whatever comes your way.
If your life is not living up to your very highest expectations, there are countless ways to make improvements. Choose to act, choose to improve, and bring your own special excellence to life.
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Life is filled with frustration, pain, inconvenience, disappointment and all sorts of other troubles. And in every frustration, in every inconvenience, in every difficulty is an opportunity to make life better.
You don’t have to accept anything less than a life of excellence. Because you can make a difference, and you can continually make improvements.
Instead of complaining about whatever may be bothering you, simply acknowledge it and then get busy doing something to improve the situation. Instead of settling for anything less than the best you can imagine, keep making improvements until your reality is in line with your highest vision.
There’s nothing positive to be gained by worrying about what might go wrong. Put your energy into arranging for things to go the way you intend.
Of course you cannot control every influence upon your life. However, you can prepare and position yourself to intelligently, purposefully and positively respond to whatever comes your way.
If your life is not living up to your very highest expectations, there are countless ways to make improvements. Choose to act, choose to improve, and bring your own special excellence to life.
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Saturday, May 19, 2012
"Let's Get It" by J Rag f/CK
"Let's Get It" by J Rag f/CK
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"Be Easy {Back Up}" by J Rag
"Be Easy {Back Up}" by J Rag
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2012 MindScApe Entertainment(R). All Rights Reserved. (c)J Rag Publishing(ASCAP).
Friday, May 18, 2012
"LoVe Letter" by Nino Breeze
Love Letter
"Love Letter" by Nino Breeze
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"Love Letter" by Nino Breeze
Get The Single NOW on iTunes..... [The Hit Single by Nino Breeze]
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"There You Go[Telling Me No Again..]" by Keith Sweat {LiVe}
Presented by J RagTv. 2012 MindScApe Entertainment(R). Live in Atlantic City. "Mother's Day"
Thursday, May 17, 2012
Wednesday, May 16, 2012
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Tuesday, May 15, 2012
Monday, May 14, 2012
"She's A Bad Girl"
LOL... Hey to eaches Own.... But Really.... You claim that you're a Bad Bitch.... Yet You Have No House, No Car, No Job...... You're Not A Bad Bitch..... You're Doing Bad Bitch..... There's A Difference......
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"Secret Knowledge"
Look, When A Woman asks You for Your Opinion.... They Don't want to hear Your Opinion, They want to Hear Their Opinion, Just in a Deeper Voice.....
You have to start to really pay attention. Pay attention when you are talking to a woman. You cant just expect to hear what she's saying, and think that that is gonna be good enough. You have to really Listen.... 'Cause sometimes what is being said, isn't really what is being said...... With Time, You have got to learn to Decode that shit.......
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You have to start to really pay attention. Pay attention when you are talking to a woman. You cant just expect to hear what she's saying, and think that that is gonna be good enough. You have to really Listen.... 'Cause sometimes what is being said, isn't really what is being said...... With Time, You have got to learn to Decode that shit.......
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Saturday, May 12, 2012
Friday, May 11, 2012
"Continue To Be Persistant"
One thing I really push and make a major factor in any and everything I do and will ever do, and my advice to anyone would always be to Continue to be Persistant. Stay Driven and Hungry. Determination is the Greatest Quality in anyone...... If you don't lose that along the way during your Journey to success or towards your Goals, you have such a Greater chance to become successful or reach that goal.....
One thing that I can always look back at and be proud of is the fact that I never gave up, never surrendered, and never turned back. I remained persistant in every outlet that I Approached. I can say with conviction, that anyone that has met me along the way, will say, That I am Persistant......
When you’re weary, it means you’ve been making a difference. Keep going and see it through.
When each obstacle is more difficult than the one before, it means you’re making real progress. Persist, and make it all count for something great.
The exhaustion you feel is preparing you for the sweet taste of accomplishment that is surely to come. Every effort you make serves to give that accomplishment more value and meaning.
Sure, the way is difficult, and by moving through each difficulty you’re creating something that can never be taken away. Keep going, and enjoy the priceless reward of knowing you did it.
As the path become steeper, it means you’re nearing the summit. Now is when it’s especially important to keep climbing.
Your efforts have already brought you a long, long way. Persist, and enjoy the full rewards of your labor.........
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"Real Confidence"
Real confidence comes not from boasting, but from listening and understanding. Real confidence comes not from taking all you can, but from giving the best you have.
Real confidence comes not from ignoring your fears. Rather, it comes from learning what those fears have to teach, and then moving ahead more fully prepared.
Real confidence brings with it a level of effectiveness that cannot be imitated. Real confidence has a momentum that is nearly impossible to deny.
Real confidence comes not from trying to appear impressive. Real confidence comes from taking the actions that lead to truly impressive results.
A small achievement brings with it the confidence to take your efforts to the next level. And when that next level is reached, you’ll gain the confidence to go even higher.
In this way, real confidence is built, one step at a time. Build some for yourself, and see how very far it can take you.....
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Real confidence comes not from ignoring your fears. Rather, it comes from learning what those fears have to teach, and then moving ahead more fully prepared.
Real confidence brings with it a level of effectiveness that cannot be imitated. Real confidence has a momentum that is nearly impossible to deny.
Real confidence comes not from trying to appear impressive. Real confidence comes from taking the actions that lead to truly impressive results.
A small achievement brings with it the confidence to take your efforts to the next level. And when that next level is reached, you’ll gain the confidence to go even higher.
In this way, real confidence is built, one step at a time. Build some for yourself, and see how very far it can take you.....
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"Real Richness"
You are rich beyond all measure. Yet the only wealth you experience is the wealth you accept and acknowledge and make purposeful use of.
If you feel you are impoverished it is not because you are impoverished. It is because you refuse to see and to participate in your great fortune.
The way the world defines wealth is trivial and inconsequential compared to the immense richness of your life. Wake up to this priceless moment and to the true and boundless value in which you are immersed.
There is no limit to the number of possibilities. There is no end to the beauty.
As big as the biggest problems may seem, they are nothing when compared to the positive possibilities. Those possibilities connect you to every good thing you could ever imagine.
Focus your awareness on what is good, on what is right, and on the great fortune that is your existence. Live the real richness that is now.
If you feel you are impoverished it is not because you are impoverished. It is because you refuse to see and to participate in your great fortune.
The way the world defines wealth is trivial and inconsequential compared to the immense richness of your life. Wake up to this priceless moment and to the true and boundless value in which you are immersed.
There is no limit to the number of possibilities. There is no end to the beauty.
As big as the biggest problems may seem, they are nothing when compared to the positive possibilities. Those possibilities connect you to every good thing you could ever imagine.
Focus your awareness on what is good, on what is right, and on the great fortune that is your existence. Live the real richness that is now.
"The Long Haul"
Instant results are not always the best results. Have a little patience, and you can greatly expand your possibilities.
If your desires were always fulfilled immediately, you would have nothing to look forward to. You would miss out on the joy of anticipation.
There are some good things you can have instantly. There are many, many more good and valuable things that will take time.
You deserve more than mere instant gratification. Be willing to take the time, and to put in the effort, and give yourself access to life’s greatest rewards.
Value that arrives in an instant is probably going to be gone in an instant. Value that takes time and commitment to create will enrich your life far into the future.
Dream, plan, prepare and persist in your efforts for the long haul. The more time and effort you give, the more richness you can achieve.
If your desires were always fulfilled immediately, you would have nothing to look forward to. You would miss out on the joy of anticipation.
There are some good things you can have instantly. There are many, many more good and valuable things that will take time.
You deserve more than mere instant gratification. Be willing to take the time, and to put in the effort, and give yourself access to life’s greatest rewards.
Value that arrives in an instant is probably going to be gone in an instant. Value that takes time and commitment to create will enrich your life far into the future.
Dream, plan, prepare and persist in your efforts for the long haul. The more time and effort you give, the more richness you can achieve.
Thursday, May 10, 2012
Wednesday, May 9, 2012
Live Your Own Life
You are special, so act like it. You are unique, so make the most of that uniqueness.
There’s something you can contribute to this moment that no one else has to offer. There is a perspective from which you can experience this day that is unlike any other.
Don’t settle for merely doing the same thing as anyone else, or mimicking the opinions, desires and dreams of others. Live your own life, and explore the unique beauty of your very own dreams, thoughts, opinions and interests.
Your greatest value comes from being who you truly are. Let your beautiful, unique, fascinating and authentic self come fully to life.
Instead of spinning your wheels and striving to be someone you’re not, enjoy the sweet fulfillment of being who you really want to be. Instead of trying in vain to please others with who you think they think you should be, impress them with who you really are.
Know the true joy of being your true self. Honor and appreciate all of life by fully and authentically living the one very special life that is yours.
Tuesday, May 8, 2012
"The Best Successful You"
The challenge of successful living is not in gaining access to life’s abundance, for there is always plenty of it. The challenge is in recognizing that abundance and making it into things that are meaningful and fulfilling.
Just as a tiny seed has within it all the information necessary to grow a massive tree, so do you have within you the kernel of your own fulfillment. That fulfillment comes about when you are most authentically you.
You cannot deny your purpose in the name of success. For if there is no purpose behind the result, there is no success.
Feel the truth of who you are. Put that truth into action in each moment of your life.
You are highly skilled and experienced at taking action and making things happen. So choose to make those things happen that create and support what you value most.
Pay great and loving attention to who you are. Continually give your own unique treasure to life, and you’ll experience life at its absolute best.
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Just as a tiny seed has within it all the information necessary to grow a massive tree, so do you have within you the kernel of your own fulfillment. That fulfillment comes about when you are most authentically you.
You cannot deny your purpose in the name of success. For if there is no purpose behind the result, there is no success.
Feel the truth of who you are. Put that truth into action in each moment of your life.
You are highly skilled and experienced at taking action and making things happen. So choose to make those things happen that create and support what you value most.
Pay great and loving attention to who you are. Continually give your own unique treasure to life, and you’ll experience life at its absolute best.
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Monday, May 7, 2012
"Body Turn-Offs"
The Body Turn-Offs
Lots of women let themselves go once they're in a relationship, but men are just as bad. Keeping yourself up and maintaining sexual attractiveness is very important, and as a relationship wears on, laziness and complacency can begin. If you think she will love you 'til the day you die no matter what you look like, think again........As Shallow and unconventional as it may be or appear and it may sound. The Reality is, Both Men & Women can be Shallow, Critical, HypoCritical, Judgemental, and can put standards in Places where they may not have seemed that they were before....
Although a woman are usually far more tolerant, she still appreciates a guy who takes care of himself to ensure he looks good not only for himself, but also for her...... Here are 5 male body blunders women find most offensive and if you have them, you'd better get to work to get rid of them!!
1. "Man boobs"
This is the area she most looks at when she looks at you're naked Body.. A man's chest is one of a woman's favorite places to rest her head, along with nibbling on your nipples and caressing you. A man’s chest is a treasured place for women, so having a posh pair of man boobs is a major turn-off. Invest in some weights and learn to use them properly. With some focused attention, you can easily transform your man boobs into pecs she'll love.....
2. "Excessive pubic hair"
Pubic hair needs to be trimmed no matter what..... If you consider that having less hair in other places makes foreplay much easier for her, you may realize you have been missing out..... A great way to spoil perfectly good foreplay is for her to get a hair stuck in her mouth..... And I have to Keep it all the way real as you know.... So, Ladies!! Yes, Ladies!! Do Not in any way, shape, or form, what-so-ever!! Do Not think that this does not apply to you all as well!! I don't care what a Man will tell you.... Less Hair is always for the better.... The 70's was a Trial Error and if you ask me, a bit of Laziness.... Plus with the Drugs of Choice, People were too damn High to Notice and/or to give a Damn.... But, that shit is more than gone and more than past and over!! Trim thAT shit, clean it up, shape it up.... Prefferably, Shave It Up!! Smooth it Out!! We Like It Gone, and we really like it all gone!!
3. "Hairy back"
A nice, smooth back will get you places a good personality and a nice hair won’t. If you have a hairy back, it’s not your fault that you have hairy genes, but you would probably get more attention without the hair. There are some women out there that do love hairy backs, but on a whole, hairy backs are a big reason why lots of men don’t get laid. Laser hair-removal clinics are the number one choice to try. Waxing is a suitable alternative, but you must maintain it. Don’t shave it, as it will grow back quickly.
4. "Beer belly"
Your stomach is predominantly what a woman sees when she looks at you. The stomach is also the main source of the excess weight on a man, so if you have a saggy, protruding pot belly, get rid of it! You don’t need abs of steel, but you do need to start doing sets of crunches and of course, cut back on the beer..... And if you're not that Big Drinker, and maybe over a Period of Time, you fell to being more likely to fall back on the couch and became a little less active, Eat junk food, or just food in General that just may not be all that good for you and you have put on a little wait in the Stomach area. Try to do what you can to tighten it up and flatten it out. If She notices it slimming down, or even the effort to slim it down. That too will make a difference. It shows Her that you still care about Her and how she looks at you. And that you take Pride in you and how you still look and look to Her..... You will notice her delight and her increased interest in touching the new and improved you when she sees the results of your effort...... Gotta Keep It Grown & Sexy!!
5. "Bad teeth"
Broken and stained teeth drastically change your appearance and will cause you to lose you more women than you’ll ever know. Get your teeth cleaned regularly by a dentist and invest in home whitening kits. If you have missing or broken teeth, get them fixed. Consider it an investment in your sex life..... I know and you know.... Again, This is something that without being said, Has got to Apply to both Parties and both Sexes!! A Woman has got to take care of her mouth and Teeth as well.... Very Important!!
Being attractive can be hard work for some people, but on the whole a little bit of effort goes a long way for most of us..... While your lover might insist she loves you just the way you are, it doesn’t mean you can’t improve yourself a little..... Whatever you do, do it just as much for yourself as for her. It won’t go unnoticed...... It will make both of you more Happy and Confident with you and yourself as well as with your Partners......
Lots of women let themselves go once they're in a relationship, but men are just as bad. Keeping yourself up and maintaining sexual attractiveness is very important, and as a relationship wears on, laziness and complacency can begin. If you think she will love you 'til the day you die no matter what you look like, think again........As Shallow and unconventional as it may be or appear and it may sound. The Reality is, Both Men & Women can be Shallow, Critical, HypoCritical, Judgemental, and can put standards in Places where they may not have seemed that they were before....
Although a woman are usually far more tolerant, she still appreciates a guy who takes care of himself to ensure he looks good not only for himself, but also for her...... Here are 5 male body blunders women find most offensive and if you have them, you'd better get to work to get rid of them!!
1. "Man boobs"
This is the area she most looks at when she looks at you're naked Body.. A man's chest is one of a woman's favorite places to rest her head, along with nibbling on your nipples and caressing you. A man’s chest is a treasured place for women, so having a posh pair of man boobs is a major turn-off. Invest in some weights and learn to use them properly. With some focused attention, you can easily transform your man boobs into pecs she'll love.....
2. "Excessive pubic hair"
Pubic hair needs to be trimmed no matter what..... If you consider that having less hair in other places makes foreplay much easier for her, you may realize you have been missing out..... A great way to spoil perfectly good foreplay is for her to get a hair stuck in her mouth..... And I have to Keep it all the way real as you know.... So, Ladies!! Yes, Ladies!! Do Not in any way, shape, or form, what-so-ever!! Do Not think that this does not apply to you all as well!! I don't care what a Man will tell you.... Less Hair is always for the better.... The 70's was a Trial Error and if you ask me, a bit of Laziness.... Plus with the Drugs of Choice, People were too damn High to Notice and/or to give a Damn.... But, that shit is more than gone and more than past and over!! Trim thAT shit, clean it up, shape it up.... Prefferably, Shave It Up!! Smooth it Out!! We Like It Gone, and we really like it all gone!!
3. "Hairy back"
A nice, smooth back will get you places a good personality and a nice hair won’t. If you have a hairy back, it’s not your fault that you have hairy genes, but you would probably get more attention without the hair. There are some women out there that do love hairy backs, but on a whole, hairy backs are a big reason why lots of men don’t get laid. Laser hair-removal clinics are the number one choice to try. Waxing is a suitable alternative, but you must maintain it. Don’t shave it, as it will grow back quickly.
4. "Beer belly"
Your stomach is predominantly what a woman sees when she looks at you. The stomach is also the main source of the excess weight on a man, so if you have a saggy, protruding pot belly, get rid of it! You don’t need abs of steel, but you do need to start doing sets of crunches and of course, cut back on the beer..... And if you're not that Big Drinker, and maybe over a Period of Time, you fell to being more likely to fall back on the couch and became a little less active, Eat junk food, or just food in General that just may not be all that good for you and you have put on a little wait in the Stomach area. Try to do what you can to tighten it up and flatten it out. If She notices it slimming down, or even the effort to slim it down. That too will make a difference. It shows Her that you still care about Her and how she looks at you. And that you take Pride in you and how you still look and look to Her..... You will notice her delight and her increased interest in touching the new and improved you when she sees the results of your effort...... Gotta Keep It Grown & Sexy!!
5. "Bad teeth"
Broken and stained teeth drastically change your appearance and will cause you to lose you more women than you’ll ever know. Get your teeth cleaned regularly by a dentist and invest in home whitening kits. If you have missing or broken teeth, get them fixed. Consider it an investment in your sex life..... I know and you know.... Again, This is something that without being said, Has got to Apply to both Parties and both Sexes!! A Woman has got to take care of her mouth and Teeth as well.... Very Important!!
Being attractive can be hard work for some people, but on the whole a little bit of effort goes a long way for most of us..... While your lover might insist she loves you just the way you are, it doesn’t mean you can’t improve yourself a little..... Whatever you do, do it just as much for yourself as for her. It won’t go unnoticed...... It will make both of you more Happy and Confident with you and yourself as well as with your Partners......
Signs Of Negative Body Language
So you finally landed a date with a hot girl you thought you'd never have a chance with; however, you didn't notice that by her backing away from you, using her hand as a subtle barrier to keep you at bay, and fanning the air with her "goodbye" message, her body contradicted every kind word her lips said to you.
Still, you were excited about all the "possibilities" -- until two days later, when you made the promised phone call to her and you heard, "You know, I don't think we really have enough in common to see each other again." Where did that come from? Didn't she say it would be great if you called?
When it comes to understanding a woman, what she's doing is just as important as what she's saying -- sometimes more so. Maybe she didn't consciously know she had reservations about seeing you until much later, but her body knew from the get-go and was letting you know with key rejection signals. And since you weren't reading her completely, you wound up getting blindsided.
Understanding a woman's body language will give you a better idea of what she's really thinking and feeling along with saving you a lot of unnecessary heartache. So, the next time you meet a woman you're interested in, watch for the following 3 physical signs that she's not into you so you'll know when you need to change your approach and move on to someone else.
1. Disinterest
If your date smiles with her mouth but not her eyes and keeps looking away while you speak to her, she's probably not interested and is just trying to be polite and not lead you on. Other signs of disinterest may include her tapping or drumming her fingers, slapping a fake smile on her face without laughing, leaning away from you and just flat out making excuses to leave as soon as possible.
2. She avoids physical proximity
If a woman is attracted to you, she will naturally want to be close to you. However, if a woman keeps you at arm's length at all times, she's defensive, guarded and may also be protecting her personal space, so make sure you don't get too close.
3. Anger
If she flays her hands instantaneously when demonstrating a point or makes sudden motions when emphasizing some matters, your presence is agitating her--in a bad way. If her hands are placed on her hips or she's swinging her foot in your direction, consider that she's actually making a kicking motion towards you--which are both very, very bad signs.
If a woman is displaying these 3 signs, she's just not feeling it and there's really little point in pursuing this cold fish..... But, There is always a way to avoid that from the beginning, before this ever happens and ever gets to be at this point.... Now, if you have gotten to this point, and you have taken the time to not only notice it..... But, Before it gets to that point where it really becomes too far gone and too late, You have to make sure you address it and make it better..... Before she completely moves on or loses all interest......
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Still, you were excited about all the "possibilities" -- until two days later, when you made the promised phone call to her and you heard, "You know, I don't think we really have enough in common to see each other again." Where did that come from? Didn't she say it would be great if you called?
When it comes to understanding a woman, what she's doing is just as important as what she's saying -- sometimes more so. Maybe she didn't consciously know she had reservations about seeing you until much later, but her body knew from the get-go and was letting you know with key rejection signals. And since you weren't reading her completely, you wound up getting blindsided.
Understanding a woman's body language will give you a better idea of what she's really thinking and feeling along with saving you a lot of unnecessary heartache. So, the next time you meet a woman you're interested in, watch for the following 3 physical signs that she's not into you so you'll know when you need to change your approach and move on to someone else.
1. Disinterest
If your date smiles with her mouth but not her eyes and keeps looking away while you speak to her, she's probably not interested and is just trying to be polite and not lead you on. Other signs of disinterest may include her tapping or drumming her fingers, slapping a fake smile on her face without laughing, leaning away from you and just flat out making excuses to leave as soon as possible.
2. She avoids physical proximity
If a woman is attracted to you, she will naturally want to be close to you. However, if a woman keeps you at arm's length at all times, she's defensive, guarded and may also be protecting her personal space, so make sure you don't get too close.
3. Anger
If she flays her hands instantaneously when demonstrating a point or makes sudden motions when emphasizing some matters, your presence is agitating her--in a bad way. If her hands are placed on her hips or she's swinging her foot in your direction, consider that she's actually making a kicking motion towards you--which are both very, very bad signs.
If a woman is displaying these 3 signs, she's just not feeling it and there's really little point in pursuing this cold fish..... But, There is always a way to avoid that from the beginning, before this ever happens and ever gets to be at this point.... Now, if you have gotten to this point, and you have taken the time to not only notice it..... But, Before it gets to that point where it really becomes too far gone and too late, You have to make sure you address it and make it better..... Before she completely moves on or loses all interest......
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"8 Signs She Has Lost Interest"
Has your girlfriend suddenly started acting differently around you? Have you been trying to understand her actions but just can't seem to figure them out? Well, the reason she's been acting differently may be because she is losing interest in you.
There's the Look, that He or She is just not that into you.... And there are signs of a woman's low interest level in the early dating stages. But what about when you've been together for a while? If you see that your girlfriend exhibits any of the following warning signs, you have reason to be concerned...... What do you do? How do you handle it?
1. She puts her girlfriends ahead of you
All women are entitled to a girl's night out here and there with their girlfriends, but if spending time with their girlfriends has begun to take priority over you and she consistently leaves you at home to gallivant in nightclubs, she is definitely losing interest in you.
2. She avoids public affection with you
If your girlfriend has allowed you to kiss her or hold her hand in public in the past and suddenly begins rejecting your advances or moves away from you without an obvious reason, you have reason to worry about her interest level in the relationship.
3. She's lost interest in sex (with you)
If she has suddenly become bored by your performance in bed and you're rarely hitting the sheets anymore, she may be wishing for someone else to rub her the right way.
4. She starts fights with you
If she has all of a sudden noticeably lowered her tolerance level for your little mistakes, constantly picks fights and turns every little thing into an argument or a disagreement, chances are her interest level has lowered and she is probably unhappy about the way your relationship is going.
5. She shows interest in other guys
If you notice your girlfriend openly checking out other guys and flirting with other men while you're right there beside her, it could be her way of sending you a subtle message that she's shopping around for another man.
6. She's put distance between you
A woman who is in a happy relationship always makes time for her partner. So if all of a sudden you don't see your girlfriend for a week or more and when she does answer your calls, she is busy and is always in a rush to get off the phone with you, something is definitely wrong.Take this as hint that she wants time apart to explore what it feels like to be away from you.
7. She's no longer affectionate toward you
If she just sits there and does nothing when you attempt to touch her and caress her or you're always the one who initiates the hand holding or hugs first, a breakup may be impending.
8. She begins saying “I” instead of “we”
If you feel like your girlfriend hardly talks, doesn’t contribute much to the conversations you have your and she starts to use “I” instead of “we” when talking about the future, this means that she does not see a future with you in it anymore.....
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There's the Look, that He or She is just not that into you.... And there are signs of a woman's low interest level in the early dating stages. But what about when you've been together for a while? If you see that your girlfriend exhibits any of the following warning signs, you have reason to be concerned...... What do you do? How do you handle it?
1. She puts her girlfriends ahead of you
All women are entitled to a girl's night out here and there with their girlfriends, but if spending time with their girlfriends has begun to take priority over you and she consistently leaves you at home to gallivant in nightclubs, she is definitely losing interest in you.
2. She avoids public affection with you
If your girlfriend has allowed you to kiss her or hold her hand in public in the past and suddenly begins rejecting your advances or moves away from you without an obvious reason, you have reason to worry about her interest level in the relationship.
3. She's lost interest in sex (with you)
If she has suddenly become bored by your performance in bed and you're rarely hitting the sheets anymore, she may be wishing for someone else to rub her the right way.
4. She starts fights with you
If she has all of a sudden noticeably lowered her tolerance level for your little mistakes, constantly picks fights and turns every little thing into an argument or a disagreement, chances are her interest level has lowered and she is probably unhappy about the way your relationship is going.
5. She shows interest in other guys
If you notice your girlfriend openly checking out other guys and flirting with other men while you're right there beside her, it could be her way of sending you a subtle message that she's shopping around for another man.
6. She's put distance between you
A woman who is in a happy relationship always makes time for her partner. So if all of a sudden you don't see your girlfriend for a week or more and when she does answer your calls, she is busy and is always in a rush to get off the phone with you, something is definitely wrong.Take this as hint that she wants time apart to explore what it feels like to be away from you.
7. She's no longer affectionate toward you
If she just sits there and does nothing when you attempt to touch her and caress her or you're always the one who initiates the hand holding or hugs first, a breakup may be impending.
8. She begins saying “I” instead of “we”
If you feel like your girlfriend hardly talks, doesn’t contribute much to the conversations you have your and she starts to use “I” instead of “we” when talking about the future, this means that she does not see a future with you in it anymore.....
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"Bachelor Pad Essentials"
Your bachelor pad is the place where you stay and as you're dating, eventually the woman in your life will want to come by and check it out. Before she does, here are some things to keep in mind.... A first Impression as you know, Pretty much will Determine the Long-Gevity and fate of the Relationship. Also, it tells the Story without Words of Your Depth and what kind of Man You are..... So, keep it clean, classy, eligant, Stylish, Intimate, and Make it you. You know You got Swagger.... Keep it Grown & Sexy!!
A woman should feel comfortable in your place, so keep it clean and make sure it is entertaining. you don't want her to be offended by odors, so make sure you at least vacuum your floors. At a minimum, have a decent stereo, TV, and DVD/VCR. Avoid small love seats and invest in large, soft and comfortable couch, which is the focal point of your living room, and is the main place where you both will get to know each other.
Make sure your pad is clean and keep an interesting book or magazine around that can display your personality. Live plants can add color to your place also. Keep a good variety of non-alcoholic and alcoholic beverages, at least one good bottle of wine and some good ice cream available also.
Framed art and photos will give her clues as to what your values are, who you are and where you've been. Pictures of family are good to have; however, avoid cheap posters and swimsuit model pics. When trying to attract high quality women, the right type of artwork , especially in the living room, bedroom, dining room and even the bathroom can create the right mood and let her know you're a suave gentleman, not an immature boy.
She WILL check out your bathroom, so keep you toilet, shower bathtub and sink absolutely spotless. Keep large and fluffy towels and avoid those small, thin torn up ones. Keep your stuff in cabinets out of sight and not cluttered all over you sink area. Avoid cheap personal products will make her think you don't care about or respect yourself. Keep only a few select items in sight like a couple of nice cologne fragrances, aftershave, toothbrush holder, etc..
Finally, when she walks by your bedroom door, she WILL check out the bed. Your bed should be at least be a queen size on a nice frame. A sexy single woman doesn't want to sleep with a man who is plain and boring, so keep attractive and comfortable looking sheets and comforter sets. Dark colors give off the manly impression you want to make.
Keep an extra new toothbrush just in case she decides to spend the night and lastly, be prepared and always keep a variety of condoms in your nightstand or dresser near the bed. After following these tips, you might actually manage to get lucky.......
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A woman should feel comfortable in your place, so keep it clean and make sure it is entertaining. you don't want her to be offended by odors, so make sure you at least vacuum your floors. At a minimum, have a decent stereo, TV, and DVD/VCR. Avoid small love seats and invest in large, soft and comfortable couch, which is the focal point of your living room, and is the main place where you both will get to know each other.
Make sure your pad is clean and keep an interesting book or magazine around that can display your personality. Live plants can add color to your place also. Keep a good variety of non-alcoholic and alcoholic beverages, at least one good bottle of wine and some good ice cream available also.
Framed art and photos will give her clues as to what your values are, who you are and where you've been. Pictures of family are good to have; however, avoid cheap posters and swimsuit model pics. When trying to attract high quality women, the right type of artwork , especially in the living room, bedroom, dining room and even the bathroom can create the right mood and let her know you're a suave gentleman, not an immature boy.
She WILL check out your bathroom, so keep you toilet, shower bathtub and sink absolutely spotless. Keep large and fluffy towels and avoid those small, thin torn up ones. Keep your stuff in cabinets out of sight and not cluttered all over you sink area. Avoid cheap personal products will make her think you don't care about or respect yourself. Keep only a few select items in sight like a couple of nice cologne fragrances, aftershave, toothbrush holder, etc..
Finally, when she walks by your bedroom door, she WILL check out the bed. Your bed should be at least be a queen size on a nice frame. A sexy single woman doesn't want to sleep with a man who is plain and boring, so keep attractive and comfortable looking sheets and comforter sets. Dark colors give off the manly impression you want to make.
Keep an extra new toothbrush just in case she decides to spend the night and lastly, be prepared and always keep a variety of condoms in your nightstand or dresser near the bed. After following these tips, you might actually manage to get lucky.......
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"5 Ways To Kill The Mood"
So you had a good date with a hot girl and the two of you headed back to your place. Things heated up and you were into what you thought was a good make-out session when suddenly she remembered that she had to "get up early" and headed home. What happened? Truth is, you may have killed the mood without even realizing it...... Now, Come on You know you gotta play it cool and be smoother than that..... You know what to do and what to say and how you gotta say it....... Or You gotta know what Not to Say! And when Not to Say it........
While there are a lot of “do's” and “dont's” in the bedroom that most guys have little trouble following, some guys always do something that screws up the whole encounter........ Here are 5 ways guys kill the mood with women.......
1. "Saying the wrong name in bed"
Calling out the wrong name in bed can definitely kill the mood and almost guarantee that you won't be getting laid by that woman again. Saying the wrong name in bed will blow a woman's mind out of control and bring up certain questions, like, “Do you think about this other woman while you are having sex with me?” and “Do you wish you were with her?”
2. "Answering the phone"
One of the worst ways to put a damper on things in the bedroom and insult a woman is to halt action between the sheets in order to grab your phone. Stopping a make-out session to answer your phone not only kills the mood; it tells your partner that you don't think she's all that important in the first place.... And this really goes for both of You!!
3. "Verbal slip-ups"
Appropriate sexual language can get a woman's mind venturing into a myriad of fantasies; however, using phrases like "Who's your daddy?" or asking can your roommate join in are surefire ways to make her put her pants back on--fast!
4. "Being a bad kisser"
It doesn’t matter how hot you are, if you're a bad kisser, you won't get past first base. When you start approaching to embrace her, remember to control your tongue and avoid kissing her forcefully. Learn the art of kissing and refrain from fumbling around in her mouth, shoving your tongue down her throat or licking her chin, teeth, forehead, etc..
5. "Poor hygiene"
Mistakes such as not being clean in the appropriate places and having bad breath are highly inconsiderate and can make things come to a screeching halt. If sex happens spontaneously, as it often does, it doesn’t hurt to excuse yourself, go to the bathroom and quickly wash up before getting down to business....
"Now, Really; These rules all apply to both sexes and both Parties...... So both can take something from this..... Don't be rude or ignorant and forget about the other person that is right there in the room with you. It isn't always just about you....."
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While there are a lot of “do's” and “dont's” in the bedroom that most guys have little trouble following, some guys always do something that screws up the whole encounter........ Here are 5 ways guys kill the mood with women.......
1. "Saying the wrong name in bed"
Calling out the wrong name in bed can definitely kill the mood and almost guarantee that you won't be getting laid by that woman again. Saying the wrong name in bed will blow a woman's mind out of control and bring up certain questions, like, “Do you think about this other woman while you are having sex with me?” and “Do you wish you were with her?”
2. "Answering the phone"
One of the worst ways to put a damper on things in the bedroom and insult a woman is to halt action between the sheets in order to grab your phone. Stopping a make-out session to answer your phone not only kills the mood; it tells your partner that you don't think she's all that important in the first place.... And this really goes for both of You!!
3. "Verbal slip-ups"
Appropriate sexual language can get a woman's mind venturing into a myriad of fantasies; however, using phrases like "Who's your daddy?" or asking can your roommate join in are surefire ways to make her put her pants back on--fast!
4. "Being a bad kisser"
It doesn’t matter how hot you are, if you're a bad kisser, you won't get past first base. When you start approaching to embrace her, remember to control your tongue and avoid kissing her forcefully. Learn the art of kissing and refrain from fumbling around in her mouth, shoving your tongue down her throat or licking her chin, teeth, forehead, etc..
5. "Poor hygiene"
Mistakes such as not being clean in the appropriate places and having bad breath are highly inconsiderate and can make things come to a screeching halt. If sex happens spontaneously, as it often does, it doesn’t hurt to excuse yourself, go to the bathroom and quickly wash up before getting down to business....
"Now, Really; These rules all apply to both sexes and both Parties...... So both can take something from this..... Don't be rude or ignorant and forget about the other person that is right there in the room with you. It isn't always just about you....."
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Top 10: Red Flags To Look For In Women
Figuring out that your girlfriend isn’t the one sounds like it should be a no-brainer, but plenty of guys get it wrong all the time. When you're in love, oftentimes it’s difficult to recognize the underlying signs that you're dealing with a toxic person. Next time around, if you aren’t sure if you should listen to that nagging feeling inside of you, maybe this list of red flags to look for in women will come in handy.
1. She doesn't get along with others
If she doesn't have many friends and is constantly fighting with family and other people, it might be a sign that your relationship won't last long.
2. She has poor hygiene
As a man seeking out the right woman, you don't have the time or the psychology degree to figure out why she lets her finger nails get and stay dirty, avoids shaving anywhere, displays unkempt hair, has bad breath and foul odor from her intimate areas. Think about it: if she neglects herself during the dating phase--the phase when you're trying to impress at all costs--imagine how bad it will get if you settle down with her.
3. She 's emotionally unstable
This type of woman has the emotional age of a young child and her emotions ricochet from wild, joyous passion to utmost sorrow. If she does things that are completely crazy, lacking rational thought and she takes actions with no thought about consequences, it's time to cut ties as soon as possible.
4. You catch her in lies
Lying is a big red flag. If your girlfriend lies about her whereabouts, background, age, health situation, the identity of the mysterious caller on her cell phone and is always receiving texts from other guys, consider the prospect that she is playing you big time.
5. She has "Daddy Issues"
This is often a sad result of a woman's poor relationship with her father and modern-day divorce statistics. These women grow up expecting the worst from men and blow up over minor screw-ups because your mistake reminds her of her father’s poor parenting. They also crave attention and enjoy the rush of developing sexual tension from any and every male figure and have tons of emotional baggage.
6. She loves to party (without you)
This type of woman can’t figure out why you would be upset at the idea of waiting up for her while she is out partying all night with women at bars, drinking herself into a stupor. A woman like this maybe carefree and wild at first; however, once you take a closer look, you'll realize that her entire life is a party and most nights will end with her puking in your car.
7. She has no goals or ambition
When a woman doesn't have her own direction in life, it's more likely that she will be over-dependent on the relationship to keep her afloat. Once you realize that she has no goals whatsoever, no income and cannot or will not hold a job, it's time for you to run for the hills.
8. She's extremely jealous and obsessive
If she feels threatened when you discuss your previous relationships, gets upset every time you try to be cordial with another female, and refuses to accept that you have female friends, get away from her and don't look back.
9. She is overly flirtatious with other men
It is perfectly normal for your girlfriend to like the way other guys look; however, if she is ogling every man that passes by, constantly touches other guys arms or laughs suggestively, something is wrong, and it’s not you.
10. She lacks intelligence
Looks can take you a long way and she might look amazing in everything that she wears, but once a conversation gets going and you realize she's intellectually challenged, you've got serious problems, my friend.
1. She doesn't get along with others
If she doesn't have many friends and is constantly fighting with family and other people, it might be a sign that your relationship won't last long.
2. She has poor hygiene
As a man seeking out the right woman, you don't have the time or the psychology degree to figure out why she lets her finger nails get and stay dirty, avoids shaving anywhere, displays unkempt hair, has bad breath and foul odor from her intimate areas. Think about it: if she neglects herself during the dating phase--the phase when you're trying to impress at all costs--imagine how bad it will get if you settle down with her.
3. She 's emotionally unstable
This type of woman has the emotional age of a young child and her emotions ricochet from wild, joyous passion to utmost sorrow. If she does things that are completely crazy, lacking rational thought and she takes actions with no thought about consequences, it's time to cut ties as soon as possible.
4. You catch her in lies
Lying is a big red flag. If your girlfriend lies about her whereabouts, background, age, health situation, the identity of the mysterious caller on her cell phone and is always receiving texts from other guys, consider the prospect that she is playing you big time.
5. She has "Daddy Issues"
This is often a sad result of a woman's poor relationship with her father and modern-day divorce statistics. These women grow up expecting the worst from men and blow up over minor screw-ups because your mistake reminds her of her father’s poor parenting. They also crave attention and enjoy the rush of developing sexual tension from any and every male figure and have tons of emotional baggage.
6. She loves to party (without you)
This type of woman can’t figure out why you would be upset at the idea of waiting up for her while she is out partying all night with women at bars, drinking herself into a stupor. A woman like this maybe carefree and wild at first; however, once you take a closer look, you'll realize that her entire life is a party and most nights will end with her puking in your car.
7. She has no goals or ambition
When a woman doesn't have her own direction in life, it's more likely that she will be over-dependent on the relationship to keep her afloat. Once you realize that she has no goals whatsoever, no income and cannot or will not hold a job, it's time for you to run for the hills.
8. She's extremely jealous and obsessive
If she feels threatened when you discuss your previous relationships, gets upset every time you try to be cordial with another female, and refuses to accept that you have female friends, get away from her and don't look back.
9. She is overly flirtatious with other men
It is perfectly normal for your girlfriend to like the way other guys look; however, if she is ogling every man that passes by, constantly touches other guys arms or laughs suggestively, something is wrong, and it’s not you.
10. She lacks intelligence
Looks can take you a long way and she might look amazing in everything that she wears, but once a conversation gets going and you realize she's intellectually challenged, you've got serious problems, my friend.
Sunday, May 6, 2012
Friday, May 4, 2012
"Behind The Scenes" Joe Rago & Terrance Howard
Joe 'J Rag' Rago with Terrance Howard [On Set] in Philadelphia for the Filming of "Dead Man Down": Joe 'J Rag' Rago with Terrance Howard [On Set] in Philadelphia for the Filming of "Dead Man Down"
Thursday, May 3, 2012
5 Lies That All Women Tell
Sometimes we all may think we have it all together or we got it all figured out...... But, there's a time when believe it or not..... The other Person is gonna be able to slip one past you..... Or, atleast try, and think that they'll be able to.......
Here is 5 Things That All Women Lie About.... 5 Lies that all Women Tell......
Make no mistake about it, gentlemen; all women lie in certain situations and your girlfriend is no exception. Sometimes she's only telling half-truths to keep the peace. Sometimes her motives are to protect her own feelings or to cover her tracks. Whatever the case, certain lies occur much more frequently than others. Here are five lies women commonly tell men.
1. "It doesn't matter how much you make."
It does matter how much you make. People do have to make a living, and they need to have some sort of means of support. Women love the feeling of being taken care of, and they want a guy who is financially stable and independent.
2. "I'm not mad at you."
This lie is one of the most frequently used in relationships, and even if she pretends that she doesn't care, her eye rolling and passive-aggressive behavior are dead giveaways that she's angry with you. A woman expects you to magically predict when she doesn’t like something you've done, even if she’s hiding it. So, unless you’re a mind reader, you’ll have to listen to your woman and get her to actually talk about what’s bothering her.
3. "I wouldn't change anything about you."
Do you really think there is nothing about you that she wouldn't change? Soon enough the truth will come out and she'll be constantly re-sketching better versions of you.
4. “I’ve slept with X number of guys.”
The reason a woman will omit a few escapades from her history is because she is ever fearful of being seen as “easy.” She wants you to make her feel confident that your opinion of her doesn’t lie with her sexual history—and that no matter how many guys she has been with in the past, she's still pure in your eyes.
5. "I love sports too."
Granted, some women do actually enjoy sports, but more than likely, she's making a desperate attempt to gain your attention and connect on with you on a “guy level. Chances are if you ask her any details about stats or players, she'll come up short.
*** Simple.....
Here is 5 Things That All Women Lie About.... 5 Lies that all Women Tell......
Make no mistake about it, gentlemen; all women lie in certain situations and your girlfriend is no exception. Sometimes she's only telling half-truths to keep the peace. Sometimes her motives are to protect her own feelings or to cover her tracks. Whatever the case, certain lies occur much more frequently than others. Here are five lies women commonly tell men.
1. "It doesn't matter how much you make."
It does matter how much you make. People do have to make a living, and they need to have some sort of means of support. Women love the feeling of being taken care of, and they want a guy who is financially stable and independent.
2. "I'm not mad at you."
This lie is one of the most frequently used in relationships, and even if she pretends that she doesn't care, her eye rolling and passive-aggressive behavior are dead giveaways that she's angry with you. A woman expects you to magically predict when she doesn’t like something you've done, even if she’s hiding it. So, unless you’re a mind reader, you’ll have to listen to your woman and get her to actually talk about what’s bothering her.
3. "I wouldn't change anything about you."
Do you really think there is nothing about you that she wouldn't change? Soon enough the truth will come out and she'll be constantly re-sketching better versions of you.
4. “I’ve slept with X number of guys.”
The reason a woman will omit a few escapades from her history is because she is ever fearful of being seen as “easy.” She wants you to make her feel confident that your opinion of her doesn’t lie with her sexual history—and that no matter how many guys she has been with in the past, she's still pure in your eyes.
5. "I love sports too."
Granted, some women do actually enjoy sports, but more than likely, she's making a desperate attempt to gain your attention and connect on with you on a “guy level. Chances are if you ask her any details about stats or players, she'll come up short.
*** Simple.....
Why A Woman Wouldn't Date A Single Dad
We all know the dating world can be very complicated; however, it can be even worse for a guy who has little ones at home. While it is very honorable to take over the responsibility of raising your children full time, many women try to stay clear of single dads who are on the dating scene. Whether you feel the following reasons are understandable or ridiculous, here are the top 5 reasons why a woman would be hesitant to get involved with a man who has children:
1. She wants her partner's kids to be her first
Women want their first child to be their partners first child and they might avoid having a relationship with a single dad because she wants all those milestones of growing up to be shared mutually between her and her children's father.
2. She doesn't want your kids
A woman may not want a ready-made family. Bearing her own children may be an important part of her life plan and she doesn’t want to start out as a stepmother when she could have her own biological children.
3. She wants you all to herself
When it comes to dating, a woman wants to feel that she is the number one person in your life and that her needs come first. With a single dad, this isn’t the case. With little ones around the house, you can’t completely let go and do wild, spontaneous things like you might at the beginning of a relationship without kids. Your commitments to your kids will seriously cut in to your couple time and she doesn’t want to compete with your kids for your time, affection and attention.
4. She doesn't want to deal with baggage
The end of a relationship is always hard and the situation with his kids’ mom probably left plenty of issues behind. Because of this, a woman may think that a single dad will have lots of emotional baggage because of his loss — whether he’s single because of divorce or death. If the mother of your children is still in the picture, the fact that there will always be another woman in your life who will be hanging around may bother her.
5. She doesn't want kids at all
The most obvious reason that a woman would not date a single dad is that she just doesn’t like kids. Contrary to popular belief, there are plenty of women out there who don’t care for children for various reasons. Think about if--if she has never pictured herself as a mom, becoming a step-mom probably isn’t in the cards either.
The better you understand these reasons, the easier it’ll be for you to put a woman's fears to rest and to have a chance at a real relationship. On the other hand, you might find that she’s too immature to handle your situation. In that case, you should move on and find someone that will embrace a guy with a big enough heart to include many people in his care.
And for the Record..... Let's just keep it real..... Women just don't wanna have to worry about being the other Woman. Or that there is another Woman that will always be around, and be in your Life.... That can pose a threat..... They don't wanna deal with the Baby's Momma!!
1. She wants her partner's kids to be her first
Women want their first child to be their partners first child and they might avoid having a relationship with a single dad because she wants all those milestones of growing up to be shared mutually between her and her children's father.
2. She doesn't want your kids
A woman may not want a ready-made family. Bearing her own children may be an important part of her life plan and she doesn’t want to start out as a stepmother when she could have her own biological children.
3. She wants you all to herself
When it comes to dating, a woman wants to feel that she is the number one person in your life and that her needs come first. With a single dad, this isn’t the case. With little ones around the house, you can’t completely let go and do wild, spontaneous things like you might at the beginning of a relationship without kids. Your commitments to your kids will seriously cut in to your couple time and she doesn’t want to compete with your kids for your time, affection and attention.
4. She doesn't want to deal with baggage
The end of a relationship is always hard and the situation with his kids’ mom probably left plenty of issues behind. Because of this, a woman may think that a single dad will have lots of emotional baggage because of his loss — whether he’s single because of divorce or death. If the mother of your children is still in the picture, the fact that there will always be another woman in your life who will be hanging around may bother her.
5. She doesn't want kids at all
The most obvious reason that a woman would not date a single dad is that she just doesn’t like kids. Contrary to popular belief, there are plenty of women out there who don’t care for children for various reasons. Think about if--if she has never pictured herself as a mom, becoming a step-mom probably isn’t in the cards either.
The better you understand these reasons, the easier it’ll be for you to put a woman's fears to rest and to have a chance at a real relationship. On the other hand, you might find that she’s too immature to handle your situation. In that case, you should move on and find someone that will embrace a guy with a big enough heart to include many people in his care.
And for the Record..... Let's just keep it real..... Women just don't wanna have to worry about being the other Woman. Or that there is another Woman that will always be around, and be in your Life.... That can pose a threat..... They don't wanna deal with the Baby's Momma!!
8 Ways To Become Irresistable To Women
Everybody believes that the answers are written somewhere and there is this specific guideline to attracting Women. But, maybe there is a chance I may be the one that just might have those answers...... No, Really!! I do have 8 Ways to Become Irresistable to Women.....
It's no secret that certain guys have been proven over and over to be completely irresistible to women -- and it's not simply because of their good looks or six-pack abs or the type of car they drive. The truth is that women tend to be attracted to certain personality traits and so, naturally, they flock to the men who possess them. Here are some tips that you need to know to become irresistible to women.
1. Smell great
The scent of a man is really important to women, and they are very repelled by men who smell not so good. Wear cologne that smells really good--just make sure that you do not use too much. A little bit is good but over-applying it will make a girl want to run away holding her nose.
2. Be unpredictable
Women are drawn to men they can’t control or predict. In fact, they absolutely obsess over guys who tease and mess with them in ways they didn't expect or haven't seen before. Avoid predictable routines and above all, never act like every other guy.
3. Be funny
Humor is the fastest, most powerful way to become irresistible to women--even the ones you might consider "out of your league." Make a woman laugh with a clever sense of humor, and I don't care how hot or unattainable she seems, you'll trigger positive feelings in her that she just can't ignore.
4. Be romantic
A woman loves to feel appreciated, and the romantic guy makes this happen. Using romantic gestures to show her that you're thinking about her will allow her to feel free to reciprocate and act on her own romantic tendencies.
5. Be confident
Nobody wants a guy who acts unsure of himself. A confident man is totally secure and sure of himself and doesn't seek approval from women--and this makes them want him even more. Women find adventurous, exciting, and spontaneous men irresistible. Having male confidence is great--just don't become so full of yourself that you come across as cocky or arrogant.
6. Be attentive to her
A very powerful way to become irresistible to women is to show genuine interest in her likes, hobbies or interest. Doing this will allow you to create a connection with her.
7. Maintain eye contact
The importance of eye contact cannot be underestimated as this is one of the most effective ways to get a connection with a woman. Men can become irresistible to women just on the way he looks at her. Establishing eye contact with her gives a signal that you're interested in her.
8. Unleash your smile
Women are irresistibly drawn to smiling guys because smiling says that you’re a positive, optimistic person who has fun and enjoys life. Most importantly, smiling makes you more physically attractive to women and reveals your positive personality....
For More with J Rag Visit His Official FaceBook Page and get the chance to really Connect with Him....... @ http://www.facebook.com/jragmusic
It's no secret that certain guys have been proven over and over to be completely irresistible to women -- and it's not simply because of their good looks or six-pack abs or the type of car they drive. The truth is that women tend to be attracted to certain personality traits and so, naturally, they flock to the men who possess them. Here are some tips that you need to know to become irresistible to women.
1. Smell great
The scent of a man is really important to women, and they are very repelled by men who smell not so good. Wear cologne that smells really good--just make sure that you do not use too much. A little bit is good but over-applying it will make a girl want to run away holding her nose.
2. Be unpredictable
Women are drawn to men they can’t control or predict. In fact, they absolutely obsess over guys who tease and mess with them in ways they didn't expect or haven't seen before. Avoid predictable routines and above all, never act like every other guy.
3. Be funny
Humor is the fastest, most powerful way to become irresistible to women--even the ones you might consider "out of your league." Make a woman laugh with a clever sense of humor, and I don't care how hot or unattainable she seems, you'll trigger positive feelings in her that she just can't ignore.
4. Be romantic
A woman loves to feel appreciated, and the romantic guy makes this happen. Using romantic gestures to show her that you're thinking about her will allow her to feel free to reciprocate and act on her own romantic tendencies.
5. Be confident
Nobody wants a guy who acts unsure of himself. A confident man is totally secure and sure of himself and doesn't seek approval from women--and this makes them want him even more. Women find adventurous, exciting, and spontaneous men irresistible. Having male confidence is great--just don't become so full of yourself that you come across as cocky or arrogant.
6. Be attentive to her
A very powerful way to become irresistible to women is to show genuine interest in her likes, hobbies or interest. Doing this will allow you to create a connection with her.
7. Maintain eye contact
The importance of eye contact cannot be underestimated as this is one of the most effective ways to get a connection with a woman. Men can become irresistible to women just on the way he looks at her. Establishing eye contact with her gives a signal that you're interested in her.
8. Unleash your smile
Women are irresistibly drawn to smiling guys because smiling says that you’re a positive, optimistic person who has fun and enjoys life. Most importantly, smiling makes you more physically attractive to women and reveals your positive personality....
For More with J Rag Visit His Official FaceBook Page and get the chance to really Connect with Him....... @ http://www.facebook.com/jragmusic
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