Why She Thinks You're Not Into Her

Do girls keep thinking of you as a friend, despite your best efforts to attract them? You may have lots of female friends and talk about being attracted to them; however, you may not realize that women assume you're batting for your own team because you send out the wrong signals. Here are three reasons why women might assume you’re not into them.


1. You show a lack of interest
If you're invited back to her place and you don’t drop any hints of being interested in her or at least try to make a move, she will think that maybe you're just not into women at all. Women want you to be a gentleman and respect their limits; however, failing to initiate physical contact after a few encounters and not looking at intentionally exposed cleavage can also make them feel that your indifference is stemming from your sexual preference.


2. You're the gossip guy
Women love it when the guy they’re interested in is a good conversationalist, but don’t overdo that. Sitting around for hours dishing the dirt about people is pretty much the territory of women, not completely straight men.


3. You're overly interested in fashion and your appearance
All women like men who take care of themselves and dress well, but being ultra fashion savvy, spending more time in front of the mirror than she does and having a more complex hair care routine than the average women can immediately raise some flags and allow them to make unwarranted assumptions about your orientation.

"Just 10 Ways To Make A Woman Smile" by J Rag

There are so many ways to make a Woman Smile...... And making a Woman Happy, Smile, and Laugh is very important..... And should be very easy when it is natural and done effortlessly and genuinely..... They say that if you can get a Woman to Laugh then you can get her to do anything......

One of the easiest ways to win a woman over is by making her smile through thoughtfully spoken words and doing something intentional to show her a little bit of appreciation and love. So, if your relationship is slipping into a funk, or you just want to make it more fun, here are 10 of the best ways to put a smile on your girlfriend's face.......


1. Being chivalrous
Be a gentleman; hold doors open for her, be polite and be helpful. Ask her if she's cold when it's cold out and have a jacket or a sweater handy so you can give it to her.


2. Remembering important dates
Remembering birthdays, anniversaries and other milestones is a big deal with women. These important dates are also opportunities to show her how special she is to you.


3. Leave her romantic notes
Slip some romantic notes into your girlfriend’s handbag. She is sure to smile at the words when she reads it later. Or leave it somewhere simple where she will be sure to see it. Or in the modern age... send a simple text to let her know that you were thinking of her.....


4. Tell her how beautiful she looks
Don’t wait for a special occasion to say the words and it will make her day.... Make it seem effortless, natural, and spontaneous.... another way is to at somepoint throughout the day, send her a quick text, let her know she is sexy, beautiful and you are thinking of her......


5. Introduce her to people that matter to you
Show her that you're proud to be with her by introducing her to people that are important to you when you're out.


6. Appreciate her attempts to look good for you
Make sure you pay attention to details such as hair, nails and new looks that she might try out. If your girlfriend has taken pains to dress up for an evening out, be sure to notice it and tell her she looks amazing. The compliment will surely bring a smile on her lips.


7. Send her flirtatious text messages
Being playful, sexual, and engaging her imagination with text messages will bring a few light moments on a busy working day and surely make her smile.


8. Send her flowers at work
Women LOVE getting flowers, especially at work, and receiving a lovely bouquet from you for no reason at all is certain to bring a smile on your girlfriend’s lips. Having flowers delivered to your wife’s workplace will make the women around her jealous, and what’s more she will be secretly thrilled to get their envious glances......


9. Encourage her ideas and aspirations
What is important to her should be important to you as well. If you show an interest in what's important to her, you'll keep her smiling and feeling good about her dreams.


10. Make her laugh
A sense of humor usually tops a woman's attraction wish list and is one of the best ways to turn her on. A woman who finds herself laughing along with your great sense of humor is a girl who is more likely to fall for your charms......


*** The most important thing to keep a relationship healthy and gooing is you have to give each other time... effort.... and whatever it was that you were doing to get there attention in the beginning, you have to continue doing.... or eventually the relationship will die down.... unfortunatley, this is how it goes...... Do and remember the small things..... they matter.... Communicate.....


~~~ Joe 'J Rag' Rago
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