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Joe "J Rag" Rago. HipHop & R&B Recording Artist, Writer, Producer, Arranger, Actor, Model, & Entertainer. J Rag is also Founder, CEO, & President as well as The Executive Producer of MindScApe Entertainment(R). MindScApe Entertainment is a full entity Entertainment Company in Philadelphia, Pa. It is a Record Label complete with Artists & Talent, Writers, Producers, Engineers, and Recording Studio's and Facilities including J Rag's After Dark Studio's & Productions; Also A&R Team, PR, Artist Development, Management, Agents, Brokers, Party & Event Planning & Promotions, Promoters, Street Teams, Marketing, & Much More.....

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Saturday, March 31, 2012

Why We Get On Each Others Nerves

Men love women. They do. But that doesn’t mean women don’t drive them crazy. Even after oceans of ink have been spilled about how the two sexes can better understand and accept each other, women still find ways to annoy men — and vice versa. Here are the top five ways she’s making you crazy right now. Ladies, are you guilty of any of these irritating behaviors?

1. Game-playing/manufacturing drama. There are lots of ways to create drama and excitement in a relationship, but men aren’t usually fans — unless said excitement involves clothing removal. “Asking too much too soon about his past relationships” is one way women drive men nuts and create drama, says Dr. Linda R. Young, Ph.D., a psychologist and relationship coach who blogs for Psychology Today. Making him late by taking too long to get ready is another. Getting irrationally jealous over platonic friends or running hot, then cold with no explanation are just a few more.

Whether the drama is minor or significant, men would rather skip it. “I think these [behaviors] exist because men and women don’t have the skills to live beyond the ‘game-playing’ they learned as adolescents, which is perpetuated by the media,” explains Marni Battista, expert dating coach and founder of DatingWithDignity.com. “It takes an entire toolkit of advanced skills to create truly win-win situations in relationships. A person who doesn’t have these skills will always go to those old ‘default’ tendencies to fill the void.” And thus, drama is Born......

Ask yourself: Have I recently thrown either an object or a tantrum? If the answer is “yes,” you might be a drama queen. Take it down a notch by talking to your partner about why you’re feeling so angry and exactly what you need to feel calmer in the relationship. If you’re the one dealing with a drama queen, tell her you’re happy to discuss problems like an adult but you’re not interested in entertaining a whole restaurant with her shenanigans. If she doesn’t calm down, tell her to audition for a reality show and leave you alone.

2. Expecting the man to pay for everything. Most men don’t mind picking up the check early on in a courtship, but after a few dates, it’s nice for a woman to offer to contribute financially — especially if exclusivity has been established. Men like to be generous, but they don’t like to be taken for suckers, especially if the woman they’re seeing has a good job. As a corollary to this one, “Men are often put off by women trying to get a sense early on about what he does for a living and how much he earns,” says Dr. Seth Meyers, a Los Angeles-based psychologist and author of Dr. Seth’s Love Prescription. Men are people, too. If they feel they’re being sized up for more shallow, resume-type qualities, they’ll be annoyed.

3. “Wanting to know ‘where the relationship is going’ before he’s ready to say, or before he knows himself,” is a big one, according to Dr. Young. Dating is supposed to be a chance to get to know another person. It’s not a guarantee of finding a certain kind of relationship, and women who treat it this way drive men nuts. It’s almost as if the woman is selling herself short — after all, you can’t help but ask why a lady would want some kind of commitment from someone she doesn’t really know yet. Why is her “audition process” so short? Likewise, “Men often get bothered with women asking or talking about their beliefs about marriage and children early in the dating process,” observes Meyers. It puts too much pressure on what should be the fun part of getting to know someone when the end goal is the only thing a woman wants to focus on.

If the relationship isn’t likely to blossom into something steady and he’s upfront about that, a man wants the woman to hear what he’s saying and take him at face value. “Men are frustrated by women who don’t really believe them when they say, ‘I’m not in a place to have a relationship, but I really like hanging out with you,’” says Battista. “A man will give this ‘disclaimer’ and then be irritated when the woman finds she can’t change him, then begins to get angry that he hasn’t met her expectations.” If a woman wants to know how a man really feels and then gets hysterical after an honest response, it’s enough to — you guessed it — drive him crazy.

4. Being controlling. “Correcting him on little details when he’s got the big picture right,” adds Dr. Young, is another thing that drives men bonkers. It’s often true that women are better at multitasking, but that doesn’t mean they have to run every detail of the show. A man will get frustrated if a woman asks him to do something then won’t give him a chance to do it his way. The real show-stopper is when she then claims she “has to do everything around here!” If this situation sounds familiar, how can you improve it?

“If you want to put a stop to people’s annoying behavior, you first have to make them aware of it,” says Marc Muchnick, Ph.D., author of No More Regrets! 30 Ways to Greater Happiness and Meaning in Your Life. “Often, people don’t realize that what they are doing is bugging you, so when you tell them, it may come as a surprise.” So tell your significant other that she has to trust you if she doesn’t want to plan every meal, vacation and weekend you spend together, guys. Then do a good job with the task — in your own way, of course — and she just might back off.

5. Not getting enough “guy time.” In ancient cultures, men often spent most of their time with other men while the women socialized with each other. That, as we all know, has changed. And it’s hard for some men to accept. They want their guy time, and it’s rough when women don’t respect that. As long as “guys’ night out” isn’t a code for regularly losing thousands of dollars gambling or paying for strippers, men deserve to have time with their male friends. Deciding exactly how much time is appropriate should be left up to each couple. Remind her that time spent away from each other means the time you do have together will be that much richer — especially with funny stories about the ridiculous thing your buddy Paulie did last weekend. The key is, be reasonable. If you want more guy time than gal time, maybe having a wife or a girlfriend isn’t in the cards for you.

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

"Own Your Sexiness"

"Swagger is Sexy"

Don't be self-conscious about your body. Guys don't notice (what you perceive to be) flaws as much as you think they do. They're just happy to be the lucky guy with you. Still not feeling super-confident? Guide his hands and mouth to what you feel are your most sexy areas so you can feel comfortable and really enjoy each other. Another bonus: He'll love your take-charge attitude......

"Hold It Now" by Hezekiah f/ Peedi Crakk & Mike Taylor

Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Reason's Why Women Might Not Like Guys Who Are Shy

Here is 4 reasons why a Women may not like Guys who are Shy.......

Many women actually like the challenge of cracking open the quite, reserved guy standing alone at the bar. But while many women prefer the modest, bashful guy that listens more than he speaks, being overly shy can become downright annoying to them after a while. Here are 4 reasons why women don't like shy guys:


1. They're insecure
Women are attracted to men with self-confidence, period. Insecurity in a man is a major turnoff for women, and shy guys that hesitate and are unsure of themselves appear very weak. Why would a woman want to talk to a guy who doesn't think he is interesting, constantly makes himself the butt of his own jokes and is always ready to point out how other guys are better than him?


2. They never make the first move
Shy guys generally tend to be more passive and display a lack of initiative when it comes to meeting women. A man who doesn't have the confidence to make the first move and initiate conversations with women can become very annoying.


3. They always ask permission
Shy guys always wait for a sign to take some action, which makes them appear passive and timid. They always ask women before doing anything, from touching to kissing, instead of relying on their instincts.


4. They're not spontaneous
Shy guys are always on their best behavior trying to please women rather than letting loose and showing them how lively they can really be. Women are looking for men with spontaneity, assertiveness and a sense of adventure and passion.


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Saturday, March 24, 2012

"Can A ThreeSome Ruin Your Relationship?"

Can a 3Some ruin your Relationship? People would obviously have different opinions on that.....

Can A Threesome Ruin Your Relationship?

If you ask men what their ultimate fantasy is, chances are they will likely respond that it is making love with two women. Almost every man who has the opportunity to have a three-way love-making experience will take it, but what are the chances that taking it to the next level can actually ruin your relationship?

Let's face it--men who make love to two women are revered by their male counterparts. It gives a man a feeling of accomplishment and achievement, making him feel like the ultimate alpha male. But have you ever considered the consequences of three-way lovemaking for both you and your partner?

For any self-respecting woman who is in love, sharing her boyfriend with another woman can be a traumatic experience that can trigger all kinds of negative emotions for her ranging from jealousy and embarrassment to possessiveness.

Think about it--asking your woman to have a three-way means that you are confessing your desire to make love to another woman. Just the thought of that will not only give her a sense of doubt, but mistrust will creep in and she will think you are cheating and are not satisfied by her.

Still not convinced a three-way could ruin your relationship? While you might be excited at the idea of being with two women at the same time, would something switch in your view of your girlfriend if she asked you for a threesome with another man?

Imagine how hard it would be to return to a normal relationship once you've seen your lady in bed with another guy. Even if you're in to that sort of thing now, how willing would you be to make her your wife and have some kids after watching her get it on with some random stranger, or even worse--one of your buddies?

When it comes to threesomes, they're never a good idea unless you have an open relationship with some chick you see no real future with. If you're in a very loving, secure and serious relationship, this type of fantasy should stay just that--a fantasy.......

~~ Joe "J Rag" Rago

Q. Parker of 112 "Cupid" Live on J RagTv

"The Dream" Meet and Greet - Philly's Power99 - J RagTv

The Dream Meet and Greet - Philly's Power99 - Hip Hop and R&B


MindScApe Entertainment(R). - - - The J RagTv NetWork 2012

Diggy's Bday Party! - Philly's Power99 - Hip Hop and R&B [J RagTv]

Diggy's Bday Party! - Philly's Power99 - Hip Hop and R&B


Monday, March 19, 2012

Create Your Experience

Create your experience
You’ve made plenty of mistakes. Now is when you can positively apply the lessons you’ve learned from those mistakes.

You’ve made lots of excuses, and found that those excuses have not brought any value to your life. Now you’re in a position to leave the excuses behind and to take the actions that create real value.

You’ve fantasized about getting something for nothing. Yet now you realize that your own fulfillment must come from your own efforts.

It’s easy to see now that most of the limitations that have held you back have been self-imposed. And with that realization comes genuine freedom from those limitations.

When you understand how much you’ve held yourself back, you can also see how truly powerful you are. Now is your opportunity to direct that power toward a meaningful, positive purpose.

Each day, each moment, you create your own unique experience of life. Now, get busy and create something truly magnificent


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"The Official Birthday Party" for Jazz of DrU Hill




Saturday Night!! April 21st, 2012 [9pm-2am]
@ The VII Luxe Lounge, Center City, {7th & Arch Streets} Philadelphia!!

Hosted by Joe "J Rag" Rago & Nino Breeze of MindScApe Entertainment(R).

Join us for "The Official Birthday Bash Party & Event" for Jazz of the Legendary R&B Group 'DrU Hill'
** With Special Celebrity Guests, Appearances, & Live Performances!! Party All Night VIP with Celebrity Guests & Jazz on His Birthday!!

Also!! Models, Actresses, Dancers, & Artists!! Make sure you come ready to party and ready to control the Room!! Remember to Bring your Portfolios, Pictures, & Contact Information!! During the Party we will be having the Open Casting Call Auditions for the Next Jazz with Dru Hill Music Video & Much More......

So make sure you are there and in the building!! Saturday Night!! April 21st, 2012, A Night you will not want to miss!! It is definatley going down and we are gonna be doing it real big!! It is sure to be a Movie!! The Event of the Year right here in Philly!! Come out and Party with Jazz and Dru Hill......

** For Special Guest List Information and to be added please contact either Nino Breeze, Joe "J Rag" Rago, Sharelle, or Jazz........

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Successfully Being You

Remind yourself how strong you have been. Consider how strong you can be.

The challenges that face you are real, and not to be taken lightly. Yet you have already worked your way through countless challenges, and you have what it takes to keep moving forward.

Let yourself feel sincere, all-encompassing gratitude for where you are and for what you have. Make the commitment to make positive, purposeful use of the goodness with which you are blessed.

There is much to be done and there is even more that you’re capable of doing. In every moment is the opportunity to create new, fulfilling value.

Look forward, and envision the best possibilities. Step confidently ahead, and feel how good and right it feels to make them come to life.

You are, right now, the most experienced and effective you’ve ever been at successfully being you. Use this day to raise your success to ever higher, more fulfilling levels.



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A New Day, New Experience

Today is a new day. Fill it with new experience.

You have the extremely valuable opportunity today to grow. Take full advantage of that opportunity.

There are things you enjoy that you don't yet know you enjoy. Explore the possibilities, and discover some of those things.

There is beauty that will thrill your soul that you have not yet encountered. Get going, get out there, get busy living, and find that new beauty.

If all you ever do is stay right where you are, you'll never know how truly magnificent your life can be. Step enthusiastically out of your comfortable rut, and into the bright, beautiful world of new possibilities.

Just around that corner you've never before turned, there's a whole new path to fulfillment. Get busy living, and fill your life with the richness you don't even know you're missing.

Sunday, March 18, 2012

Let's Get Personal

I don't mind going out of my way for the People that I Love..... I would do any and everything that I could to help and to be there for them. But I don't like the feeling of being taken advantage of......

Why Care so much when the other Person doesn't seem to care at all?

If you know me so well, how can you not look at me and tell that something is wrong? Or something just isn't right. I don't look back at too much that happened and dwell on it. But just don't bring it in to the present and still expect me to look past it or be so ignorant as to think that I dont pay attention or realize what is going on...... Dont do that. I am very aware, very open, very intelligent...... Not much can get past me..... At all...... Do the right thing and make the right decision!! Finally.

Meeting New Women

A great deal of men don't approach women because feel like they're not prepared to talk to them. When it comes to social communication with women, most guys use submissive, apologetic body language and voice tones and they look as if they're pleading with a woman to give them approval, and they come across as weak. Most women will think that you are weak, assume that you will always act like that and will avoid you.

The guys who are great at talking to women never use played out pickup lines and stick with simple language and conversation starters such as "Hi, are you from around here?" They use an appropriate smile, ask open-ended questions and use their body language to communicate that they are comfortable and confident. They pay attention to the situation and approach women when they're not likely to feel rudely interrupted. They approach women and begin conversations like they would with an old friend, showing no signs of insecurity because they are trying to find out if the woman meets their standards!

If your hitting the night clubs or bars, it's also a good idea to use a good"wingman" or good friend to help you get started meeting women. Your wingman can be used for moral support and should be able to read your body language, signs and codes, and act accordingly to help you interact with women. Just make sure that your friend can handle himself when talking to women and is not the type of guy who will make things worse and scare women away from you. Remember, once a woman thinks of you in a particular way, she's likely to think of you in that way for a long time.

There is no perfect formula that will suit or impress every woman. Take time to analyze some possible problems with your current approach with women. Think about common situations where you see women you'd like to meet, come up with some different ways to start a conversation with them. Also, plan how you're going to physically and emotionally respond to a woman who just isn't interested in talking to you. The more you mentally rehearse your conversations and techniques, the more comfortable and confident you'll become around women and you'll notice the difference in how women respond to you

5 Ways to Know You're Ready to Propose

Marriage is one of the biggest steps you'll ever take in your life. So just how do you know when you're ready to plop down on one knee and ask your girlfriend the magical "Will you marry me" question? Well, it's hard to put a time stamp on everything, least of all relationships; however, the following 5 signs should alert you to the fact that you're ready to make an honest woman out of the lady in your life:


1. You have similar values
Marriage isn’t going to succeed on love alone, so if the two of you complement each other's strengths and weaknesses and both of you are actually headed in the same direction on issues such as work, money, raising children, religion and values, you're in line to get hitched.


2. You've made plans for the future with her
If you've initiated or willingly participated in discussions with your girlfriend about things like which house to buy, which investment is better, having children and retirement plans, you're ready to propose.


3. You've discovered your desire to be a father
You're ready for marriage when you actually embrace the idea of being a father, begin suggesting to your girlfriend how great of a dad you will be, and begin thinking of your children's names.


4. You've completely grown out of your bachelor ways
The idea of meeting new women and participating in the singles' scene no longer appeals to a man who is ready to marry. Ask yourself the following questions: Do you feel increasingly out of place in the bars and clubs? Are you are sick of parties and getting involved with one-night stands? Are you ready to burn your little black book and forsake contact with exes and anyone else who may threaten your relationship? If you answered yes to these questions, you are squarely on the path to proposing.


5. You simply can't wait to get home to her
Whenever you go out of town on business, you frequently wish she could be there with you. Conversely, when she's away, you can't wait for her to get back. You feel comfortable talking with her about any and everything. You not only call her daily, but you can't wait to see her and tell her the details of your day and have a strong desire to hear about hers. Don't fight it any longer, you're ready.

Saturday, March 17, 2012

Time 2 Get Personal

It's time again, for me to drop one and get a little more personal with it..... I'm a go off of just how I'm feeling right now at the moment......

I am tired of not knowing where I stand with the Person that I love and wanna be with. Also who is, My Son's Mother. I keep asking her to work with me and see if we can be together..... And she just keeps pushing off the conversation. Her mom and her got in to a fight and she automatically assumes she can move in to my house until she can get in to somewhere else. wich is my own fault. I know. I allow it.... So i enable her. Really, I love her and I know I'm, wrong for accepting it, but I do.... I am getting to the point now, where she has got to decide. My son can always stay here..... But I cant do this anymore. If she is talking to, or with other people, she needs to lean on them..... I have to have this talk with her and it has to be resolved. Cause I am never getting the chance to move on...... And whatever it is considered after or however I am looked at, I am and have always been the one there for her and there to fix everything for her, and she is taking advantage and now is the point where I am at, where I am tired of it and I have had enough!! DONE!! She needs to either be a mother and commit to her son and the person who loves her or move on...... And leave me alone!!

Friday, March 16, 2012

The Official Birthday Bash for Jazz "P.A." by J RagTv

J RagTv presents: "When A Woman Loves"

J RagTv: "One Last Cry"

J RagTv Presents: Q.Parker "We Can't Be Friends"

"LoVe" by Q.Parker

"I Can't Make You Love Me" by Q.Parker on J RagTv

A Life of Playing Games




a relationship without trust is like a phone without service, all you do is play games.....

Remember, life is balance. You'll never know how great it can be, unless you know how bad it can get....

If you are not on the same page, maybe it's time to close the book.....

Isn't it crazy how we ignore those who want us. Want those who ignore us. Love those who hurt us and hurt those who loved us.... It's a shame how we work as people...

Thinks that the greatest gift we can ever receive is forgiveness from ourselves for what we have done in the past, everyone makes mistakes....


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5 Traits of a Good GirlFriend

Traits of a Great Girlfriend
Playing the field and keeping you options open may be a whole lot of fun for some guys. But as maturity sets in, very few things can surpass the joys of being in a serious relationship with a great girlfriend. So how do you know if she really is a "keeper?" If she possesses the following 5 traits, you better hold on to her for dear life before some other guy comes along and steals her away.


1. Intelligence
Let's face it--being with a woman that’s beautiful but dumb gets old pretty fast. On the other hand, a great girlfriend can meet you at an intellectual level, constantly surprise you, keep you on your toes and deepen your attraction past the physical realm. An intelligent woman with a good sense of humor won't let you get bored of her because you'll always find yourself trying to figure out what she's really thinking.


2. Independence
Dealing with a woman that can't seem to function without you will eventually make you feel like you're suffocating in the relationship and have you headed for the nearest exit. A real man should enjoy having a girlfriend who displays confidence, has a real life of her own, can stand on her own both financially and emotionally and is happily going in her own positive direction. An upside of dating this Alpha Female is knowing that she is confident, she won’t rely on you for everything and she certainly isn't looking for men to solve all her problems.


3. Loyalty
A great girlfriend loves her man…flaws and all, and takes the time to show him how much she appreciates him every day. This type of woman is ready to go to war with you and take on whatever obstacle life presents. She's not the type that will be checking out other guys, but will keep her attention focused on you, the man in her life. She's a genuine person who considers you in every situation and will be on your side no matter what.


4. Beauty
Whether or not she's up for first prize in a beauty contest, a great girlfriend is beautiful on the inside and the outside. She will not only want to look good for you, but also for herself. This doesn't mean that she has to look like Halle Berry, but she should be so well put together that you'll be proud to have her on your arm and enjoy the sight of her in any light.


5. She makes you want to be a better man
A great girlfriend inspires you to improve yourself without even saying anything. Just being around her makes you want to better yourself. She'll make you want to do things like getting your finances in order and keeping yourself up on the regular. She will lift you up when you need it and provide constructive criticism to make you a better man.

5 Traits of a Good BoyFriend

For most men, figuring out how to be a great boyfriend and satisfy the women in their lives can be confusing at times. While men and women rarely think along the same lines when it comes to a relationship, it’s rather simple to understand what it takes to keep a woman happy once you learn to see the world through her eyes. With that, here are 5 traits of a great boyfriend.


1. He respects his woman and treats her well
A great boyfriend is a genuine person who considers his woman in every situation, understands that she's an equal part of the relationship and will be on her side no matter what. He's not the type that will be checking out other girls, but will keep his attention focused on the woman in his life. He won't degrade or abuse his woman and if he accidentally says something that hurts her, he won't hesitate to admit his mistake and apologize sincerely.


2. He inspires his woman to be better
A great boyfriend naturally gains a special place in his woman's life by helping her find what she wants in life and makes her understand and believe how important her happiness is to him. He helps change the way she sees the world and helps her stand out and live a happier life.


3. He satisfies his woman's romantic needs
A good boyfriend must satisfy his woman's every romantic need not by making love just for the sake of it, but by being passionate about it. He is spontaneous and knows the many ways to make her feel special. He also shows his partner the emotional intimacy she craves, communicates with her partner on every level and anticipates her desires and needs.


4. He loves his woman for who she is
A great boyfriend doesn't just love his woman physically. He loves his woman...flaws and all. He loves all of the strengths and weaknesses his lady has, but focuses on the good qualities she possesses to make her feel like a beautiful person, inside and out. Simply put, a great boyfriend makes his woman feel good about herself, accepts her as she is and never attempts to change her for his own selfish reasons.


5. He always makes his woman feel beautiful
A great boyfriend makes his lady feel that she is the most beautiful woman in the universe. He picks out something specific such as her pretty brown eyes, pearly smile or gorgeous figure and makes her feel that he's truly paying attention to her and not just sweet talking her.

Thursday, March 15, 2012

Q. Parker - Show You How [NEW SINGLE 2011]

"In The Mirror"

Everyday should create new life, new lessons, and new love. New Visions for the Mind to express!!
~~ J Rag

you need to be with someone that brings out the best in you; and that you're better together as a team, than you would be alone!!

It takes a real man to realize that he made a mistake but an even better one to make things right again.

We lie for 3 reasons: 1. Afraid of losing something 2. To obtain something we desire 3. Fear of judgment/shame/insecurities...... Doesn't make it ok though!!

There is nothing to hold you back except you

In the future you will be more disappointed by the things that you DIDNT do than by the ones you did do...


Have the courage to follow your heart & intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become.....



Every day is a new beginning. Treat it that way. Stay away from what might have been, and look at what can be

Saturday, March 10, 2012

Mad

DJ Got Us Fallin' In Love Again!!

Love In This Club

Caught Up

Usher - Caught Up

U Don't Have To Call

Trading Places

There Goes My Baby

U Got It Bad

J Rag's Sexual Notes

Hugs and kisses guaranteed with sexual sugar daddy. A splash of crystalized grapefruit zest mixes with deliciously tempting cinnamon bark to irresistibly charm. Highly addictive caramelized pralines are packaged in a rich, sexy leather note and the bold masculinity of sweet tobacco accord. Infused with ancient aphrodisiacs, it does the flirting for you. This is not your ordinary fragrance.

Fragrance Type: Chypre Oriental
Top Notes: Crystallized grapefruit zest, Cinnamon bark, Fir balsam
Middle Notes: Caramelized praline, French lavender, Patchouli
Heart Notes: Leather, Sweet tobacco accord, Sandalwood


Aphrodisiac infused. Raw magnetism meets inescapable, seductive charm. Contemporary, stimulating notes of bergamot, mandarin, and neroli blend with wild basil and crushed geranium. This intensely magnetic fragrance dries to a primal, sensual heart of cedarwood, orris, and tonka bean.


Fragrance Type: Fougere Green Fruity
TOP: Bergamot, Neroli, Mandarin, Orange
MIDDLE: Geranium, Wild Basil, Sage, Jasmine
HEART: Cedarwood, Sandalwood, Orris, Tonka Bean


Powerfully seductive, pure masculinity. Infused with inescapable aphrodisiacs, sexual pour homme is the fragrance that attracts and never lets her go. Perfect for seduction anytime, anywhere. sexual pour homme. Powerfully seductive.

Fragrance Type: Fougere Green Fruity
Top Notes: Indian Basil, Italian bergamot, Italian Clementine, French melon
Middle Notes: Asian Sage, African Geranium, French Petigrain, French Lavendar
Heart Notes: Indian Sandalwood, Indian Patchouli, Tonka bean, Madagascar Vanilla


Undeniably clean, masculine, and sexy. Blended with fresh, juicy mandarin, gentleman’s lavendar, and sexual’s signature aphrodisiacs, sexual fresh envelops you in crisp, cool sexiness. sexual fresh. Undeniably clean, masculine, and sexy.

Fragrance Type: Citrus Citrus
Top Notes: Italian bergamot, Cardamon, Cariander, Juicy Mandarin
Middle Notes: refreshing grapefruit, Chinese Ginger, Juniper Berry, Lavendar
Heart Notes: Indian Sandalwood, Asian Sage, Green Oak Moss, Warm Amber


Passion-inducing and masculine to the core, this enticing scent has a blend of aphrodisiacs so complex that it is never to be revealed, but always effective. Includes travel-sized spray.

Fragrance Type: Aromatic Fruity
Top Notes: Italian bergamot, Italian clementine , French casaba melon
Middle Notes: Asian sage, French petigrain, French lavendar
Heart Notes: Indian sandalwood, Madagascar vanilla

Make Your Fragrance For You

Make Your Fragrance Flirt for You

The sense of smell is one of the world's strongest memory-makers. Just think of the smells you know well. Every time you smell popcorn, don't you automatically think of movies? Hot cocoa reminds many people of cold winter nights? What about eggnog? Does that remind you of Christmas?



What if you could harness this memory-making power and use it to your advantage? Wouldn't it be great if every time your guy smelled a certain scent, he would be reminded of how sexy you are or how much he missed you?


Here is a list of ideas to start you on you way to building a scent memory in your guy's mind. Use them as inspiration for more ideas. You will drive him wild.



He'll love smelling your perfume as he dries off after a shower.




1. Spray a little of your fragrance 1 foot above his bathroom towel. The scent will diffuse on the towel. As he uses it to rub his body dry after a shower, he'll be thinking of yours. Sexy.





2. Play a perfume game with him. Spray fragrance on different parts of your body. Be creative. Get him to find where it is. As he gently caresses you with his nose, watch the sparks fly and the memories being created.


3. Leave your scarf in his car. The scent that has rubbed off on it from when you wore it will keep him thinking of you until he has a chance to give it back.


4. Before you leave his place in the morning, scent his bedroom with your fragrance. It will remind him again and again of the great time he had with you.

Flirt Tips For Sexy Nights

Flirt Tips for Sexy Nights

No matter how great things are with your love life, its always fun to take it up a notch. Spicing up the usual bedtime routine with your partner will keep it fresh and interesting, not only for him, but especially for you. Once you get the ball rolling, who knows where he will take it?


Throw self-consciousness and self-doubt out the window. A man really doesn’t notice cellulite or those extra pounds you have been trying to loose. When he has an opportunity to do the bedroom tango with his loved one, his eyes gravitate to what’s turning him on – and that is you.



Buy a pair of sexy stilettos. Pick them just for their wow factor. Reserve them for his eyes only, pairing them with your birthday suit. They don’t have to be vampy. Sexy and classic work even better. Some ideas: peep toe pumps in red, pink, or animal print. Don’t shop for their comfort factor. You won’t be walking too many steps before he sweeps you off your feet to get closer to him.


If your partner says, “Your body is so beautiful” – believe him. When a man compliments his loved one while doing the dance of intimacy, it’s usually a spontaneous observation of something that really arouses him. Enjoy and revel in the fact that you are hot.



Feel great in pretty lingerie
Treat yourself to that pretty lingerie you always wished you had in your wardrobe. Wear it to work, shopping, e.t.c.. When you get ready for bed, make sure he sees you undress in a slow, deliberately sexy manner. He’ll feel flattered and enjoy the thoughtful surprise while all day you’ll be anticipating a great end to your evening.



Massage oil tempts & teases
Give your guy a sexy, intimate rub down with some massage oil … but only on the condition he’ll give you one. He’s guaranteed to say yes. Don’t worry too much about technique. Practically any touch feels good when it’s smoothed with oil. Try long, slow strokes or circular motions. Just remember to warm the oil by rubbing it in your hands first.

The Right Way To Apologize

The Right Way to Apologize to Her

So you've screwed up pretty bad, and whether you think you're right or wrong, you know that you have to apologize to your girlfriend so you can get your relationship back on track. So how do you apologize to your girlfriend the right way? Here's some tips on how to apologize in a way that will bring a peaceful and lasting resolution:




1. Accept responsibility for your actions
Apologizing doesn't just mean saying you're sorry and forgetting it ever happened, so make sure you know what you did wrong, be willing to accept responsibility and remember that saying sorry means acting sorry. There’s no way a woman will believe you’re sorry if you still act like the situation is her fault--even when it’s clearly yours, so say you're sorry with as much sincerity as possible. And keep in mind that it's always better to apologize in person as apologies over the phone, e-mail or text aren't nearly as effective.



2. Reach out to her
In the heat of an argument, you're liable to say things you don't necessarily mean. So after the her that it was just a disagreement and that you're there to listen to her. Even if she criticizes you, try and show understanding, as you would want her to express the same thing while you're speaking. Express to her that although certain things about her bother or irritate you, you still love her and ensure her that your feelings for her could never change just because of a simple disagreement.



3. Make plans for the evening
Most women will be more likely to forgive you if at least some nice flowers are in front of them to soften the mood when you confess your transgression. Once everything has settled down, take the time to plan a quick activity to get your minds off the argument and to reassure your partner that you still care about her and that it's okay to move on.

When She Needs A Break

When She Needs a Break

It's difficult when the woman you love tells you that she isn't sure she wants to continue her relationship with you. Many women say they need to take a break because they just want to break up. She may have been thinking about things for a while now, but hasn't figured out a way to approach you to resolve them. On the other hand, she may not be entirely sure of what she wants to do.

If your girlfriend has asked that the two of you take a break from your relationship, it probably came from out of nowhere. Sometimes when a woman asks for a break it's because she wants to date other guys or she may have already been seeing another man and has been cheating on you behind your back.

There's also the possibility that she's bored, feels neglected or is just unhappy with the way you've been treating her. Getting to the point where she actually tells you what's wrong isn't always easy, which is why you need to be very careful with how you handle the situation when your girlfriend wants a break.

The fact that your girlfriend wants a break and not a complete breakup right off the bat means that she still values your relationship to some degree. Begging, pleading, or invading her space trying to talk her out of her decision is absolutely the wrong thing to do and will drive her away even faster. You can get her back by showing her that you respect what she wants. The key to getting her back is to stay strong. If you love her, give her exactly what she wants and show her that you respect what she wants, no matter how hard it may be for you.

Let her have the time and space she needs and don't give her a reason to completely cut ties with you. As hard as it may be, avoid calling, emailing and texting her completely. By you not initiating any contact for a while, your girlfriend will start to miss you and she'll be the one calling you. Even if your girlfriend has given you the thumbs up to see other people, don’t sleep with any other women until you are sure the relationship is completely over. Making the wrong moves while your relationship is already in jeopardy could cost you any chance of reconciliation.

When she is ready to contact you, let her know that you're willing to listen to her and allow her to open up and reveal to you exactly why she wanted the separation in the first place. If she repeatedly gives you random, unimportant complaints or no answer at all, realize that these are all signs she wants to break up with you altogether and leave the situation with your dignity intact. However, if she gives you an honest, direct answer about the relationship, perhaps you can fix it and save the relationship. Try to agree to make a pact to work through any problems rather than take a break.

By making a genuine effort to fix the problems that drove her away, you can not only stop the break up from happening--you can actually strengthen the future of your relationship together.

Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

The 5 Best Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend

So, when was the last time you communicated with your girlfriend on a deeper level? Sure, many guys find communication intimidating, but have you ever thought what is the level of understanding you share with your girlfriend? To understand a woman, you would need to know her completely, and emotional attachment is as important as being physically involved with a person.

Your comfort level with your girlfriend should reach a level where both of you can talk about anything without any inhibitions, and when both partners understand each other completely, a beautiful relationship can sustain. Here’s a list of the best questions to ask your girlfriend which will reveal many details about her personality and help to strengthen your relationship.


1. What is your favorite activity to do with me?
Asking your girlfriend this question will help you identify whether you share the same interests and hobbies. If you like bowling and she likes cycling, you may have to rethink your plans the next time you are together. Learning her answer to this question will help you find compromise in your relationship when it comes to planning things together.


2. How far do you want our relationship to go?
Both of you need to be aware of how the other feels about where the relationship is headed. If the two of you have different expectations then you are better off knowing now rather than finding out later and getting hurt.


3. Do you trust me on every level?
Trust is absolutely the biggest part of any relationship. If she doesn't trust you, then there is within your relationship that needs to be discussed and worked out immediately. Find out whether or not her mistrust is justified or if it stems from her own insecurities.


4. Do you feel comfortable coming to me about anything?
For women, talking and sharing are bonding experiences which help them build solid relationships, but if she says that she doesn't feel comfortable, you should reflect on whether or not you make yourself open and available to her. Encourage her to open up without offering any solutions or trying to change her feelings. If you have done this technique, it may be a personal problem or emotional baggage that keeps her from opening up.


5. When are you the happiest with our relationship?
This question forces her to think of positives about the relationship, and her answer will also give you some ideas about what you can focus on that will make the relationship even stronger. Be sure that you have thought of an answer yourself, because she is likely to turn the question back on you!

Steps To Better Intimacy

Steps to Better Intimacy

A good sex life takes time and effort to maintain. Although every relationship goes through its sexual ups and downs along with work and bills, it's easy to see how intimacy can slip off your relationship radar. Whatever your situation, you must remember that physical intimacy is an important part of maintaining a healthy relationship because it unites partners physically, emotionally and spiritually. So if you feel like you and your partner may be in a sexual rut, here are some key components needed to spark that awesome sex life you have always desired.


1. Create Passion
Men and women alike need to feel the passion and raw emotion that comes with incredible sexual experiences. But to keep the passion, you must be willing to put out the effort. Sex isn't a race, so take time to explore your partner and make sure that you are connecting on a more intimate level. Use anticipation as an aphrodisiac. Tell her what you want to do with each section of her exposed skin. Instead of tearing her clothes off, take your time, explore her body and use different types of foreplay. Take the time to explore and play with her body to find out what kind of touch sends her down the road into incredible sex.


2. Be Spontaneous
There is no limit to the number of ways to have sex, so use your imagination and come up with as many new positions as you desire. Don't be afraid to mix things up in bed. Furthermore, there is no rule that says that you have to have sex at 8:00pm every Wednesday--so, change up your normal routine. There is nothing that can turn a woman on more than taking sex out of the bedroom and into other areas, and simply changing locations can dramatically improve your love life.

The same old place leads to the same old patterns, so explore some new erogenous areas like the kitchen, living room, etc... Also, don't be afraid of new positions or trying out a new toy. To spice things up further, stepping out of the role of being "yourself" and role playing can be a fun way to give each other permission to behave differently. This may be awkward at first, but give it an honest try. You might just like it.


3. Be Open About Your Needs
After being in a relationship for a while you may think you know how to please your partner in every way, but this is rarely true. If you or your partner's needs aren't being met between the sheets, it's time to have a conversation about it. There is always something you haven't tried, and there is bound to be something one of you always does that could be done differently. Being open and honest with each other about your fantasies and desires can bring the passion to a whole new level. If you don't communicate, you'll never know or be able to get her "there."


4. Be Responsible
Practicing safe and responsible sex is also a key to happy sex life. Letting your partner know that you are prepared for the occasion, wherever it should arise, can also create the element of excitement and evoke thoughts of desire. This also shows that you love and respect your partner enough to make sure she stays healthy.

"Climax"

Your worth consists in what you are and not in what you have....

Work like you don’t need money, love like you’ve never been hurt, and dance like no one’s watching.


"HollyWood Tonight!!"



Learn to respect yourself. If you won't respect yourself, others won't respect you either...

Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it.

Work like you don’t need money, love like you’ve never been hurt, and dance like no one’s watching.....

~~ Joe "J Rag" Rago, MindScApe Entertainment(R).

"Don't Walk Away"

I know between alot of pressures in the relationship overall between my son's mother and myself. And with the issues that we had early on and being that we were both so young and immature when it came to being ready for this kind of committment and parenting. Maybe this really is what we needed was a little time in beteen and seperation. Even though throughout the entire time, I stood right by her side and really didn't wanna be with anyone else. And knowing that she had met someone and had a relationship build and over a period of time, it didnt work out. But to this day still it effects me.... It is something that I never wanted to happen. I love this woman with all of my heart, so it may be something that i can never forget and never truly completely get over and/or forget.... I do forgive her. I would never hold it against her and jeapordize my son's feelings, heart, and well-being.... Or put the wall up that would block us from ever really getting the chance to ever be together again.....

Sometimes you have to really evaluate the terms, emotions, feelings, situations and do what is really the best for everyone. Including yourself.... I want to spend the rest of my life with her and have a home for my son and where e can be a family. Together. Where he can feel safe, comfort and know that this is his rock and right here is the foundation that holds us all together..... I promised him and her both.... That nothing in this world is more important to me and I would never walk away!!

Friday, March 9, 2012

Sexual



Show up to His place wearing Stilettos, A Fur Full Length Coat or Trench Coat & Sexual Perfume or his favorite fragrance and nothing else.....

Spray a little bit of your Sexual Perfume or favorite scent on to his bath towel and in his bathroom and after he takes a shower and dries himself off, he will think of you!!

Send him an email that sais only.... "Misbehave with Me"

Tell him he has something on his lip and go slowly to lick it off for him....

Mail him your Lingerie scented with your favorite perfume and tell him you will be by to pick it up later......

Put on your lip gloss in front of him. He will love your lips and watching your mouth slightly open while stroking them with the lip gloss... A turn on major...

Nibble on his lips slowly and slightly but only one at a time. Each part has its own nerve endings and its a major turn on....

take a day..... to both call in sick and spend the entire day in bed with each other... taking the time to please each other over and over throughout the entire day.... Treat each other...

Take Over With A Kiss

Want to really electrify him (her) with your kisses? Here's how.

Want to really electrify him with your kisses? Bring it to the next level. Once you amp up your kissing skills, he'll never want to let you go. 5 Reasons Kissing Is Good For You

(These tips work equally well for both men and women!)

1.Pay Attention to the Kiss. That means consciously focus and concentrate on each aspect of the kiss. Tune into the softness and warmth of his lips; feel your partner's body against yours; listen to the almost inaudible moans. Once you allow yourself to relax and immerse yourself in the waves of signals your partner is sending, you will naturally and automatically be more sensual and inviting with your kiss.

2.Mix it Up. Gently break away from the kiss to steal little moments of passion-infusers. Stare deeply into his eyes before returning to your kiss. Nibble your partner's lip or bite his neck with different levels of intensity. (Always make it gentle enough for pleasure.) Let your own moan of pleasure escape before you give him more. 10 Surprising Facts About Kissing

3.Touch with sensuality. Nothing makes a kiss more sultry than playfully exploring where he'll feel the most pleasure. The obviously sexy areas are good, but it's even more passion-inducing if you are creative and unexpected.
Some suggestions: Gently run your fingers through his hair. Hold onto it with a soft tug before letting go. Run your fingers over his scalp in a circular motion. (Practice in your own hair. You will find out how sexy this feels and why it will make you a better kisser.) Rub his back. Lightly let your hands travel up and down his spine. Caress your partner's cheek, chin, and neck as you kiss.


Make your kiss a passionate, sultry trademark and you will leave him yearning for more of the irresistible, sexy you.

Is She or He That InTo You?



Is (s)he into you? Listen to the sound of her/his voice. If it's lower than usual when speaking to you, (s)he's likely giving you the signal that you turn her/him on. Sexy you......

There is alot of ways to read into the expressions, movements, and things that another can and will do that will give you clues to wether or not that person is into you or not. There's also alot of things to look for to be able to tell if that person is just not that in to you!!

A Date Tip

Date Tip:

Get rid of your fear of approaching that person you find attractive. Don’t wait for a magical way to reduce your fear. There isn’t one. Feel the fear & approach him or her anyways. What’s the worse that can happen? Rejection? We've all been there. You can handle it. The point is, you will eventually find that hottie you click with & THEN you will have the fun you could have missed out on. Go on! Go for it!

Thursday, March 8, 2012

In This Life

If someone truly wants you. Nothing will keep them away, they will do everything they can to be with you

Dream what you want, and live in your dream.....If you can Dream it, You Can Do It....

You are the only who gives a meaning to situations. Words are just words but you give a power to them to affect you.

Laugh your way to success. It is through your joy that good things come.

What you get out of life and what you put into it are precisely one and the same

Here's a simple formula for success when dealing with other people. Give more value than you request in return. TRUE !

Tuesday, March 6, 2012

With Open Eyes

Don't let the fear of your past affect the presence of ur future, live life for what tomorrow has to bring not what yesterday has taken away

Love is not to forget but to forgive. Not to see but to understand. Not to hear but to listen. Not to let go but to hold on....

You are always learning and always teaching. Everyone is an equal teacher, and equal learner. It makes you an equal sharer

The happiness of your life,depends on the quality of your thoughts....

A true relationship is when you can tell each other about anything and everything. No secrets, no lies and no excuses.....

Don't look back and ask why. Look ahead and say why not.....

The definition of abundance is the ability to do. What you need to do. When you need to do it. Did I talk about money?


No matter how 'busy' a persons day might be. If they 'really care', they'll always find time for you....

Don't let the fear of your past affect the presence of ur future, live life for what tomorrow has to bring not what yesterday has taken away

Being happy doesnt mean everythings perfect, just means your willing to look through lifes imperfections....


This is your life..... And if your life is the remote. Then you have got to own the control......

~~ Joe "J Rag" Rago
MindScApe Entertainment(R). All Rights Reserved. (c)J Rag Publishing(ASCAP).

Saturday, March 3, 2012

A Flirt Tip

Flirt Tip:

Many people stop flirting once they're in a long term relationship. Not a great strategy. It's actually time to amp up your flirting skills because the couple that plays together, stays together.

Is She Interested? Is He?

Flirt Tip:

Is (s)he interested in you? If his/her feet are pointed towards you while either sitting or standing, it means they want to stick around and find out more about delectable you. If they are pointing away from you? (S)he may be looking for a quick get away.

Friday, March 2, 2012

Dealing With A Flirt

So you met a woman who seemed like that "special" lady who constantly flirted with you. You started developing feelings for her and considered that maybe she was "the one". However, when you decided to pursue something further with her, something changed. She suddenly withdrew from you and didn't seem the least bit interested in any kind of romantic relationship with you, saying "Oh, I thought we were just friends." Face it--you fell victim to the Tease.

The Tease is a master of manipulation. Some of the reasons these manipulative women engage in this ‘teasing‘ behavior is because it gives them wanted attention, an ego boost by impressing other women and assurance that they could in fact have certain men if they wanted.

Others use teasing as a means of filling a void of some kind, getting another guy's attention or to even get revenge on a guy who scorned them.Whatever the reason, these devious women are experts at spotting male vulnerabilities and will flaunt their femininity and their sexuality to get what they want from men and have no intention of being with them.

No man wants to play the fool. Here are the top 10 signs that she's just a tease so you can recognize this from the get go and walk-away:

1. She has many male friends who call her frequently. She keeps many unsuspecting men by her side, and they all cater to her every whim.




2. She has generally no or very few female friends as other women are competition to her.





3. She doesn’t talk about her personal life and constantly makes herself unavailable.




4. She never comments on how attractive you are. She’s not sincerely attracted to you, she’s just entertaining herself.




5. She keeps conversations constricted to things going on in the moment and will not give you any clues that she wants to be more (e.g., asking you out to dinner or to the movies.)




6. She takes your number instead of giving you hers – She’s doesn’t want you calling her, and has no intentions on calling you.




7. She is not open to being touched. She pulls away when you make attempts at physical contact.


8. She has a hard time focusing on you and plays lots of mind games. Her eyes usually wonder when another guy passes by.


9 . She craves attention and is usually wrapped in shape-revealing clothing with lots of cleavage showing.


10. She is an extremely high maintenance woman, both financially and emotionally, needs many things to be happy, namely lots of money and material goods.

Making The First Move

Making The First Move

Although there are aggressive women out there, most women women shy away from being the initiators in dating. Most women like to put men up to the challenge of how they'll go about approaching them, by not making the first move and allowing the man to step up to the plate. Women want to be pursued and desired by men, so ultimately you must have enough courage to make the first move.



Over the years, society has taught women to play hard to get for fear of being considered easy. When it comes to dating, there's no doubt that making the first move is nerve-wracking, but you must realize that women want their guys to take chances i.e., asking them out, planning the evening, kissing them when they least expect it, etc... Although going out on a limb and risking rejection is frustrating, you'll get nowhere fast if you refuse to take the initiative and make something happen. What women want is to get physical with you, and they expect that you know when to make your move.

The key to making the first move on a girl is getting in the mindset first. You want the first move to appear comfortable yet spontaneous, and with the right preparation you can! You cannot make a move on a girl from five feet away, so get your confidence up, move closer and wait for a comfortable break in the conversation with her. How do you know she’s ready? You can’t be 100 percent sure, but you can get pretty close if you just pay attention. A woman will let you know she is open to being pursued, and if she doesn't say it out loud, she might just say it by simply using body language. She will be flirting more with you and will do things like moving closer to you and leaning toward you as you speak, showing some skin, playing with her hair or touching you both accidentally and on purpose.

If she likes you, she’ll ultimately create the moment. When you are reasonably sure she’s ready, put on the moves by wrapping your arm around her shoulders. Talk about nice thoughts with her while you do this and keep her calm. If she is talking to you intimately for a while and the two of you cuddle, take her hands in yours, draw her close to you and gently kiss her on the lips.

Some women will let you take charge when they're ready. You can start by kissing her neck and gently nibbling on her lower lip. Explore her neck and face with yours and note her reactions. Let things move along slowly and build at their own pace and don't go for the goods until you've spent some time earning them! Remember, the confident man who has a proper build-up and uses good form will probably sweep her off her feet; however, the guy who is rude during conversation and immediately pulls out a condom will probably go home alone. Women control the speed of the relationship, and in most cases they decide after meeting a guy how far they are willing to go with him. So if she asks you to go some place more private (like your place) make sure you're ready.

Each woman is different, so I recommend that you carefully observe your date's actions and body language to make sure she'll be receptive to your advances. Even though you may feel sure she is sending all the signals, the last thing you want to do is scare her away by coming on too aggressively (e.g., shoving your tongue down her throat.)

If she tells you that she has an early-morning meeting, or has some relatives staying at her place, she is probably telling you that this isn’t the right time. If she is not ready and backs away, don’t get upset and let the night turn to waste. Just continue to have fun and try to make that first move again at another time.

Thursday, March 1, 2012

Half Crazy

Mastersuite



Come in to my master suite. Girl I'll give you the key. step into my world, where anything is possible. you can just let your imagination run free......

J RagTv: Keith Sweat Interview

Sexiest Men's Cologne For 2012

A must have Cologne for any time, any situation and any and every Occasion and one of my favorites is "Sexual" by Michel Germain.... The entire Collection is Unique and is Sexy in its own right. But "Night" & The Original are Great!!

"This one actually smells damn good because this one is pure Sex!!"

A Few other of my personal favorites are:

"Unforgivable" by Sean John

"Blvgari" The Original

"Cartier" Eu De Cartier

"Artisan" By John Varvatos

"Marc Jacobs" The Original

"Chanel" Allure Sport & "Hana Mori"

These are a List of My Personal Favorites & The Fragrances that are always in My Collection.... These are to me the Sexiest and most elegant fragrances for Man...


What you have is an exceedingly fresh lineup of complex blends that reestablish cologne as an essential grooming accessory for men. From the office to date night, here are the right men's colognes for 2012, no matter the occasion.

at the office
F by Ferragamo
$55, buy it here
Ignore the company shtick about this being an evening scent, because the pepper and lavender are better suited for the office. The Tonka bean is not so much a full-time ingredient but a session player that brings the right amount of Italian sprezzatura.


Kenzo Homme Woody
$55, buy it here
Beginning at just $55, this men's cologne for 2012 is a steal for what you get from the complex wood tones and vetiver. The upper notes of mint and basil may seem conflicting, but they counterbalance the lasting wood tones over longer days. This blend is evocative of other Kenzo colognes, which create a natural harmony, but is a modern take on bridging the urban and the natural.

Jack Black ‘JB’
$70, buy it here
Finally, Jack Black gets into the cologne game with a real contender, and at $70 'JB' is not messing around. This men's cologne gives you a fresh London barbershop aroma without the cheap afterglow. JB is the right scent if you work in a traditional office with double-vented suits, wingtips and catered lunches of Dover sole but has the right amount of individuality that you won’t blend in all together.



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Gucci Guilty Intense
$62, buy it here
After we spoke to Chris Evans, the face of Gucci Guilty Intense, we learned a lot more about this new fragrance. Lemon and lavender quickly give way to the stronger and, yup, we'll say it, “intense” balance of coriander, neroli, patchouli, and cedar. She won’t know what hit her. The bottle alone is worth leaving out especially if your bedroom has that Dante’s Inferno carnal sin motif. Best of all is the out-front honesty Gucci Guilty Intense embodies. It doesn’t pretend to be any other type of cologne than a date-night scent.

Narciso Rodriguez Limited Edition
$60, buy it here
Musk forms the top, middle and bottom notes of this cologne. Your intentions will be clear when you splash this on, yet there is really no other reason to wear a cologne consisting of musk alone. Thank goodness this one actually smells damn good because this one is pure sex.



Ferragamo / Bond NYC / Ben Sherman / Jo Malone / AskMen

"It'll do for you what Pippa's dress did for her ass."
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Bond No. 9 New York Andy Warhol
$180, buy it here
It might be commercial and kitsch, but it packs a punch. The bottom notes of musk, vanilla bean and sandalwood create an unbreakable platform for the white patchouli, jasmine and citrus to hold up the final top notes of bergamot and cypress leaves. How this is evocative of Andy Warhol is not clear, but it is one of the more complex and mercurial colognes this year.

Formal Event
Cartier Declaration
$135, buy it here
Sophisticated French elegance in a bottle is your first thought when you open Declaration. Cardamom and warm cedar highlight this modern scent that harkens back to the Belle Epoque era. Like a well-cut tuxedo, Cartier Declaration is sure to make you better-looking. Apply this one sparingly.

Jo Malone Oud & Bergamot
$135, buy it here
The name alone tells you that you’ll get plenty of bergamot along with cedar and woodsy floral tones that are surprisingly masculine. If your pal asks you to stand with him as his best man, then wear this cologne. It’ll do for you what Pippa’s dress did for her ass, and you’ll go home with a stack of phone numbers and a few stories to tell.

Casual Sport
Ben Sherman
$55, buy it here
Unbelievably crisp and downright zesty is the only way to describe this sport scent. OK, so maybe you don’t wear cologne to the gym, but you should. Coffee, hay (yes, hay), vetiver, and musk prop up the middle notes of nutmeg and patchouli while lemon, tangerine and bergamot glide over the top.

Victorinox Swiss Army Unlimited
$78, buy it here
OK, so it also makes pocket knives, watches and apparel, but this is not the typical cologne to accompany a lifestyle company. Someone actually thought about how a Swiss Army knife cologne should smell. Alpine fir trees provide the requisite wood notes while absinthe and genepi liquor add the necessary machismo we all think is part of the Swiss Army prerogative.

It Is Never OK To Date Your Friends' Ex....

I give the different outlooks, opinions, and circumstances.... But I must note that I personally believe, there's so many other people in the world. It is better to not go that route and avoid what could become a friend ending situation or very uncomfortable.....

"We don't own people; we just share our time with them."

One of the eternal questions that plague men all over the world is, what are the rules about dating your friend’s ex? Is there some kind of man code that says that once a woman has been claimed by a member of your pack there is no way another can ever date her down the road? Is there a time frame from when they dated that makes her totally off limits to you? Let’s say they dated for six months. Does that mean you need to wait around another six until you can do anything? Until he has another girlfriend? And what happens if this is your best friend’s girlfriend? What are the rules then?

Let’s set the scenario: Your friend is dating an amazing girl. (And I’m talking about a real friend here, not a friend of a friend, a work friend or someone you see around who goes to all the same events as you.) The whole time your friend was dating this great woman, you always made sure to tell your buddy how lucky he was to have a woman like her. Every time you hung out with them in a group you guys really got along with each other. She was so cool. And all you kept thinking was, “Why can’t I meet somebody like her?”

Can You Date Your Friend's Ex?
But now you’re in a predicament -- they’ve broken up. To make things worse, she was the one who broke things off with your friend. Maybe he called you and told you; maybe you saw her out and, in the middle of another great conversation, she brought it up. So what do you do at this point? Is is OK to call her? Or maybe she’s started calling you.

Now that she’s single, you’re really thinking about this woman a lot. You start to develop feelings for her. You guys talk with each other and she tells you she’s starting to have feelings for you, too. At the same time, your friend still talks about her and wonders if he did something wrong to ruin the relationship.

Now you’re in one of the biggest predicaments of your entire social life. You really want to start dating your friend's ex, and she wants to go out with you. You want to start seeing her, and you have a very strong feeling that you two are really going to hit it off. What do you do in this situation?



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There are a lot of guys out there who truly feel that once they've dated a woman she is off limits to all of his friends -- no matter how long it’s been since they broke up. This is ridiculous thinking. We don’t own people; we just share our time with them. It’s your job to make the relationship that you have with her a great experience, and when that relationship comes to an end, you need to let her go. You had your time together and hopefully you created some great memories, but now it’s not your place to try to change and control anyone’s future or the way they want to live their lives.

I am somebody who truly believes that people are not possessions. I don’t care if it’s a casual acquaintance, I don’t care if it’s your best friend in the whole world, and I don’t care who broke up with whom. If I break up with someone -- and I have broken up and been broken up with a lot -- I have no problem with any of my friends dating my ex, falling in love with her and even marrying her. A great relationship, and great chemistry between two people, can be rare to come by.

If you’re feeling a connection with someone, I firmly believe that you need to take every potential opportunity for finding a great person to be with. And if you’re the bystander, if you’re fuming because your friend is dating your ex who broke up with you, you need to realize that people are not your possessions. You may have shared something special with her in the past -- and that’s something to cherish -- but now it’s time to give your friend and your ex the freedom to do what they want without you in the picture......


What To Do
So, if you have feelings for your best friend’s ex, here is what you need to do. First you need to confirm your feelings with her. Sit down with her, clear the air and tell her exactly how you feel. You know she feels the same way about you as you do about her. Make sure you are both on the same page with each other. Then you need to make sure you are both on the same page about your friend. Tell her, “We need to talk about how to approach this situation with my friend. I don’t want to lose his friendship, but I certainly don’t want it to stop me from acting on my feelings for you.”

You need to talk this out with her. Both of you know your friend well, from different points of view, and together you will be able to come up with an honest way of telling him so that he will not be angry or hurt. Once you’ve had that conversation with your friend’s ex, you’ll need to sit down with him. Depending on how close you are, this can be one of the toughest things in the world -- you need to have “the talk.”

Breaking The News To Your Friend
When you sit down with him, be truthful and tell him what your friendship with him means to you. For most men, really communicating that to another guy is the hardest part, but you need to get that out there and let him know that you respect him. Then you’ll need to ask him how he would feel if you started dating his ex. You really need to be honest and tell him everything. You need to tell him how you feel and whether you’re serious about her. He may be fine with it. He may have to sit and think about it. He may be upset and say, “F*ck you. Absolutely not.” He may not want to see you for a while. In time, though, he is going to understand.

He’s not with her anymore, so give him his space if he needs it. He is out there dating, having fun and sleeping with other women. Eventually, he is going to get over it. Amazing women with whom you have incredible chemistry don't come around that often. You have every right and you owe it to yourself to pursue a relationship with her.

Depending on how close your friendship is, this may be one of the toughest situations of your life. You’ll need to display complete and total honesty with yourself and ask yourself how serious you are about it (it’s OK if you don’t know yet, but you need to be honest). You need to be honest with this new woman in your life and with your friend. This is going to be a tough lesson, but a valuable one. Your ability to have difficult conversations with two people you care about, knowing that those conversations won’t be safe or easy, will demonstrate what sort of a man you are........

Be Ready For Round Two

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Become More Social




"You need to start taking the necessary steps to become a more social person."

You need to go out and meet women every single day. So what if your lifestyle isn't conducive to meeting women every day? Or maybe you can meet them, but talking to them is not your strong point? You need to find something -- a book, find a coach or a mentor -- who can guide you in the right direction.

You need to start taking the necessary steps to become a more social person. If you have a fear or an anxiety when you talk to women, you need to find ways to overcome those anxieties. Resolutions are great, but you've got to break them down and take all the necessary steps to make the resolution happens for you. Sure, most guys want to make a lot more money, most guys want to lose a little weight, and I know a ton of you guys want to get laid more and meet more women. But the only way to do any of that stuff is to take the small steps toward your goal.

In my 15 years of coaching men, I've always emphasized the small steps. If a guy is painfully shy, of course he's going to always ask (or his resolution is always going to be) how to meet more women or get more dates. But in order to stop being shy, you've got to start opening up and talking to everybody. You've got to start saying hello to people on the street. You've got to start engaging women in conversation. You've got to go up and approach women. You've got to start asking them out. And, yes, you've got to start getting rejected and being OK with it, because all of this is what gets you more dates. So, look at your dating resolutions and ask yourself this question: What small steps do I need to take in order to get that big resolution accomplished?

You've got a clean slate this year. The problem is, all your past problems are also coming into the new year with you. Those didn't stay behind. Your attitude, your learned behaviors, your past experiences -- everything about you is coming into the new year with you. It's time to take the small steps in order to get your resolutions handled......

A Resolution




"Most resolutions, especially dating resolutions, are unrealistic because you're not looking at the core of what you need to work on."

Well, the clock has finally turned. It's 2012. Can you believe it? We're now in the teens of the new millennium, the roaring tens, whatever you want to call it.

And at the beginning of every year, you're resolution-based. That's what we do. You utter a ton of drunken resolutions on New Year's Eve to your buddies, saying, "This year is going to be the best year! This year I'm going to get laid more! This year I'm going to work harder! This year I'm going to make more money! This year I'm going to meet more women! This is the year I'm going to meet somebody special!"

You play the game of "this year": "This year it's going to happen," and This year I can finally become the man I've always wanted to be!"

Here's the question: When it comes down to dating, are these resolutions realistic? Let's look at the reality of your life. Let's take a look back to last year, when the clock struck 2011.

What were your resolutions like? Did you play a lot of "this year"? Did you promise yourself that you would pursue more women? Did you promise yourself that you would be more outgoing? Did you promise yourself you would approach women and ask them out more often? Did you promise yourself all of these things, including working out, making more money and eating healthier?

Were you able to make good on any of your resolutions? Forget about just the dating resolution -- were you able to make good on any resolutions at all? Most people get overwhelmed because theirs are just unrealistic.

For instance, you're a guy who doesn't get a lot of dates. So all of a sudden on New Year's, your resolution is to have one date per week. Last year you went on three dates. Are you realistically going to increase from 3 to 52? You don't even look at the percentages. Most resolutions, especially dating resolutions, are unrealistic because you're not looking at the core of what you need to work on. You're not looking at the reasons behind why you're not meeting women and getting the dates. And all you're doing is trying to fill yourself up with hot air and hoopla.

Look, positive self-talk is fantastic. It's empowering. But, unfortunately, a lot of times it's just not realistic. Most people don't understand the small steps that are necessary to get these goals accomplished. If you want to go out there and date 40 new women this year, or you want to get a girlfriend this year, you've got to find a way to go out there and actually meet women every single day. They just won't magically appear. If you're not great at conversation, if you're not great at talking to women, nothing is magically going to change for you.

So, if you're serious about making these resolutions come to life, you need to take a look at what your dating resolution is, and then you need to figure out what steps you are going to take in order to get there........