Reason's Why Women Might Not Like Guys Who Are Shy

Here is 4 reasons why a Women may not like Guys who are Shy.......

Many women actually like the challenge of cracking open the quite, reserved guy standing alone at the bar. But while many women prefer the modest, bashful guy that listens more than he speaks, being overly shy can become downright annoying to them after a while. Here are 4 reasons why women don't like shy guys:


1. They're insecure
Women are attracted to men with self-confidence, period. Insecurity in a man is a major turnoff for women, and shy guys that hesitate and are unsure of themselves appear very weak. Why would a woman want to talk to a guy who doesn't think he is interesting, constantly makes himself the butt of his own jokes and is always ready to point out how other guys are better than him?


2. They never make the first move
Shy guys generally tend to be more passive and display a lack of initiative when it comes to meeting women. A man who doesn't have the confidence to make the first move and initiate conversations with women can become very annoying.


3. They always ask permission
Shy guys always wait for a sign to take some action, which makes them appear passive and timid. They always ask women before doing anything, from touching to kissing, instead of relying on their instincts.


4. They're not spontaneous
Shy guys are always on their best behavior trying to please women rather than letting loose and showing them how lively they can really be. Women are looking for men with spontaneity, assertiveness and a sense of adventure and passion.


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Dealing With A Flirt

So you met a woman who seemed like that "special" lady who constantly flirted with you. You started developing feelings for her and considered that maybe she was "the one". However, when you decided to pursue something further with her, something changed. She suddenly withdrew from you and didn't seem the least bit interested in any kind of romantic relationship with you, saying "Oh, I thought we were just friends." Face it--you fell victim to the Tease.

The Tease is a master of manipulation. Some of the reasons these manipulative women engage in this ‘teasing‘ behavior is because it gives them wanted attention, an ego boost by impressing other women and assurance that they could in fact have certain men if they wanted.

Others use teasing as a means of filling a void of some kind, getting another guy's attention or to even get revenge on a guy who scorned them.Whatever the reason, these devious women are experts at spotting male vulnerabilities and will flaunt their femininity and their sexuality to get what they want from men and have no intention of being with them.

No man wants to play the fool. Here are the top 10 signs that she's just a tease so you can recognize this from the get go and walk-away:

1. She has many male friends who call her frequently. She keeps many unsuspecting men by her side, and they all cater to her every whim.




2. She has generally no or very few female friends as other women are competition to her.





3. She doesn’t talk about her personal life and constantly makes herself unavailable.




4. She never comments on how attractive you are. She’s not sincerely attracted to you, she’s just entertaining herself.




5. She keeps conversations constricted to things going on in the moment and will not give you any clues that she wants to be more (e.g., asking you out to dinner or to the movies.)




6. She takes your number instead of giving you hers – She’s doesn’t want you calling her, and has no intentions on calling you.




7. She is not open to being touched. She pulls away when you make attempts at physical contact.


8. She has a hard time focusing on you and plays lots of mind games. Her eyes usually wonder when another guy passes by.


9 . She craves attention and is usually wrapped in shape-revealing clothing with lots of cleavage showing.


10. She is an extremely high maintenance woman, both financially and emotionally, needs many things to be happy, namely lots of money and material goods.

Keeping It Sexy & Attracting Women

Ever wonder why some guys get all the dates? They effortlessly flirt and attract girls, keeping them wanting more. It's not only their confidence, they seem to have been born with an innate skill. Want to know their secrets to attracting and keeping a girl interested? Read on.



1. Be confident in yourself. No one wants to date a guy who doesn't like who he is as a person. Even the best looking guys who lack self-assurance won't attract a woman. After all, if you are hesitant about the reasons you are attractive, why would anyone be confident in her choice to be with you? Write down 5 things that make you desirable. (Yes, it sounds ultra-geeky, but it works and no one will know you did it.) Next time you approach a prospective date, remember these traits. Believe in yourself so she can too.


2. Resist looking needy. One of the best ways to make a woman second guess her decision to go out with you is to be needy. Calling, e-mailing, or text messaging her repeatedly when you are first dating is a definite sign that you have nothing better to do than to be her personal satellite. We're not suggesting you play games or "hard-to-get", but do keep a realistic perspective on the new relationship. You are just getting to know each other. You are not long-lost soul mates (yet).


3. Keep focussing on your life. Keep scheduling time with friends and family and make time for your interests. (It goes without saying that to be an interesting guy, you have to love life and have a passion for different hobbies, sports, e.t.c.. Being well-rounded is an aphrodisiac all on its own. Don't have any on-going passions? Find some. To receive passion, you have to be passionate.) Being available all the time means you are not doing anything interesting in your life. That means you may be boring. Fix it so you're not.


4. Don't be discouraged by rejection. All guys are rejected from time to time. Expect it. It takes persistence to find the one for you. Dating is a numbers game: the more girls you ask out, the more girls will reject you. But the same holds true for the reverse: the more you ask, the more you will be taken up on your offer. If you give up, you will never find that fun, sexy woman who is destined to be your best friend too.


5. Smile, smile, smile. No matter what is happening, keep smiling. If you are smiling that sends the best flirting signals. It shows you are happy, positive, confident, and friendly -- just the type of guy any girl wants to be around.


6. Wear a great cologne. Yes, I am a bit biased on this point. A great cologne shows you like and take care of yourself. It shows a sense of style and confidence, so it makes you stand out from the crowd. The best thing about a cologne? It charms the stilettos off any girl, because she knows you make that extra effort to be sexy. And what girl doesn't want sexy, confidence, and charm all wrapped up in her guy?

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