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Sunday, April 26, 2015

"Capricorns In The BedRoom"

Capricorns are always after newness and novelty in the bedroom and detests sameness. You do not particularly like being submissive in the bedroom, but you find that sex is something they want done right, and wants a lover who can take them to great sexual heights...

Friday, April 17, 2015

"Feel For You"

I can't believe
That I am admitting this to you
'Coz if you know me
Then you know how hard
It is for me to say what I mean

Now I've seen this on TV
Twice in the movies
Never thought that
It could happen to your homie

Now I'm a believer
In all the things I do with you 'coz
I've never felt that

Our love could be perfect
And that's what I feel for you
And don't you forget that
That you're more than worth it
And that's what I feel for you

I feel like Ali when he shook up the world
And like Prince felt when he wrote 'The Most Beautiful Girl'
Your love is like a song I love to sing
And that's what I feel for you

Said I've never been hooked like this but I tell ya
Girl I'm all for it, you I adore it
Anything you tell me that you need, girl, I'll get it
I'm in it for the long run
Swear you've got me on one

I'm down right till the end of time
I'm with you, with you my baby
You gotta understand
I need
All I do is think of you
And I swear that I've never felt

Our love can be perfect
And that's what I feel for you
Don't you forget that
That you're more than worth it
And that's what I feel for you

I feel like Ali when he shook up the world
And like Prince felt when he wrote 'The Most Beautiful Girl'
Your love is like a song I love to sing
And that's what I feel for you

I need everybody who needs somebody
To grab 'em by the hand
And tell 'em just like this

That when I'm with you
I don't want no one else
You gotta me feeling better
Than I've ever felt

I'm talking about everyday
And every night
And when I hold you in my arms
It's just like heaven

Nothing feels better
I can't believe
It took me so long
But I ain't ever felt

Our love can be perfect
And that's what I feel for you
And don't you forget that
That you're more than worth it
And that's what I feel for you

I feel like Ali when he shook up the world
And like Prince felt when he wrote 'The Most Beautiful Girl'
Your love is like a song I love to sing
And that's what I feel for you

I've never felt, oh
Our love can be perfect
And that's what I feel for you
And don't you forget that
That you're more than worth it
And that's what I feel for you

I feel like Ali when he shook up the world
And like Prince felt when he wrote 'The Most Beautiful Girl'
Baby, your love is like a song I love to sing
And that's what I feel for you

That's what I feel for you
That's what I feel for you

"Integrity"


She don't really drink much so she say
But by the way she was putting in the Malibu Reds away
She was either 'bout that life
Tryna front but tryna get right
Or maybe she work hard, everyday, at her job
And she feel like she deserve to turn up tonight
Either way, miss lady bad as a Toblerone sugar rush
I drew her near, whispered in her ear
"I think that I'm developing a little crush"
She said "Nice try, but every short skirt that done walked by has successfully caught your eye
No thanks but I'm sure that you're a nice guy"
Damn, I had no reply, cause she was right
Newly single so I've been a little thirsty
She was more than just a booty in a skirt she
Walked a way I caught up to her in a hurry
I said "Can I at least know your name before your dead me"
She turned around and said "My name's integrity"
Integrity, can you answer this for me

Baby where do you wanna go?
I'll do what you say
She puttin' it to the top
She said take me all the way
Matter of fact I'll meet you there
Woah, now I'm feelin' love

Oh Integrity
I think that I need you and me babe
And me babe
Integrity, damn

"One More Drink For The Lady"

You look like you just got off of work
And if I may assume, babe
You work hard but you don't get what you're worth
Am I right?
Let me take another guess
You're a little stressed and I bet your feet hurt
No I don't read minds, babe
I just know what it looks like
When a woman works all night tryna get her thing right

Don't know where you've been
And I don't know what you've been through
But something's tellin' me you
You deserve a drink or two

Let me get one more for the lady
Let me get one more for the lady
Let me get one more for the lady
Let me get one more for the lady
(Whatever she wants)
Let me get one more for the lady
Let me get one more for the lady
(Whatever she wants)


See I was thinkin', over in the corner while I was drinkin'
See you've probably been lookin' for way more out a weekend
Than freakin' and watchin' the Sun fly so high
But you feel so nasty and don't know why
You tried all the things that you weren't gon' try
Like kiss body parts if it wasn't on a guy
But your girl's in the bed and it wasn't undivided
And wasn't no ambition, and everybody wishin'
We'd have did this shit way back then, why we didn't?
Even if you went too far, it's forgiven
You were high when you did it, everybody was trippin'
Promised you'd forget it, but everybody didn't
You're like, this ass doesn't land in the air, body mitten
And I don't just be lookin' on everybody's kitten
But you get in the room and my dick in the room
Make your forget about all the chicks in the room, like that


Ain't gon' lie to you, baby
Wish I could take you somewhere, my bride
Ain't gon' lie to you, baby
Get all in your mind and see what's inside it
Ain't gon' lie to you
I want you, how could I not with a booty so fat?
I don't wanna get on your nerves and test your patience
I ain't tryna do that, no
Ain't gon' lie to you, baby
I would love the opportunity to rub your feet
Ain't gon' lie to you, baby
If you with it, I got somebody sexy you should meet
Ain't gon' lie to you
You had a long night, I'm just tryna help you end it right
So if I may be so bold, can I get you one more to go?

"Make It Easy For Me To Take It Easy"

Do you love me for me though?
The real me not my fly alter-ego?
I know I'm never not fly,
But if I ever was, would you still ride?

If it's early in the morning and my breath stink
Would you still roll over kissing on me like it ain't?
If I didn't have millions in the bank,
I'm talking cardboard box and a fish tank
Better yet a fish bowl,
and if the fame got old
If the cameras didn't flash when I walk through
If I wasn't makin' them bands when I walk through
Is it where I lost you?
Or is you holding me down?
You never let 'em bring me down
All the haters in the world right now
Would you add to the stress
Or would you make it easy

For me to take it easy
That's what I'm lookin' for,
Baby let me know would you make it easy?
(Easy for me to chill, easy for us to feel)
Easy to take it easy
That's what I'm looking for,
Baby let me know, eh

Uh girl I know what I need
Se appeal, intelligence, positive energy
When the drama comes, she become serenity
Lady when I need a lady, freak when I need a freak
Shawty ride like me like I ride the beat
Everything bout her quality
Why I send her and her girls to Dubai for bout a week
Just a little reward for, for when she hold me down
Never let 'em bring me down
All the haters in the world right now
You're the one that I'm lookin' for to make it easy

Baby, girl
For me to take it easy
That's what I'm lookin' for,
Baby let me know would you make it easy?
(Easy for me to chill, easy for us to feel)
Easy to take it easy
That's what I'm looking for,
Baby let me know, eh

Where you at? Ey?
Shawty where you at?
Baby girl, we got bags to pack
We got trips to take, if you cool with that
Show me that you got my back
Let me see that you got my back
Then we'll get into all that
Said we'll get into all that
You have to make it easy
For me to take it easy
That's what I'm lookin' for,
Baby let me know would you make it easy?
(Easy for me to chill, easy for us to feel)
Easy to take it easy
That's what I'm looking for,
Baby let me know, ooh oh ooh oh
Ooh oh ooh oh oh
(Easy for me to chill, easy for us to feel)
Easy to take it easy
That's what I'm looking for,
Baby let me know, eh eh

Tuesday, April 14, 2015

"Falling For SomeOne"


When you start falling for somebody and you can't stop thinking about when you're going to see them again, I love that. Women are beautiful. They deserve to be cherished and respected...

Monday, April 13, 2015

"EveryDay Life Lessons"

1.In life you’ll realize there is a purpose for everyone you meet. Some will test you, some will use you, and some will teach you. But most importantly, some will bring out the best in you.

2.Keep people in your life who truly love you, motivate you, encourage you, enhance you, and make you happy. If you know people who do none of these things, let them go.

"72 Relationship Quotes"

3.Love is not about sex, going on fancy dates, or showing off. It’s about being with a person who makes you happy in a way nobody else can.
4.Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring – all of which have the potential to turn a life around. Read The 5 Love Languages.
5.The most beautiful thing is to see a person you love smiling. And even more beautiful is knowing that you are the reason behind it.
6.Choose your relationships wisely. It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company.
7.Being alone does not mean you are lonely, and being lonely does not mean you are alone.
8.Fall in love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely.
9.Love means giving someone the chance to hurt you, but trusting them not to.
10.You know you’ve found true love when you catch yourself falling in love with the same person over and over again.
11.Don’t wait for the right person to come into your life. Rather, be the right person to come to someone’s life.
12.The one who is meant for you encourages you to be your best, but still loves and accepts you at your worst.
13.Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.
14.Some relationships are like glass. It’s better to leave it broken, than to hurt yourself more by trying to put it back together.
15.Just because one person doesn’t seem to care for you, doesn’t mean you should forget about everyone else who does.
16.Someone else doesn’t have to be wrong for you to be right.
17.It is okay to be angry. It is never okay to be cruel.
18.Never do something permanently foolish just because you are temporarily upset.
19.Silence is often the loudest cry. Pay attention to those you care about.
20.We don’t always need advice. Sometimes all we need is a hand to hold, an ear to listen, and a heart to understand.
21.It’s not so much what you say that counts, it’ how you make people feel.
22.A silent hug means a thousand words to the unhappy heart.
23.Don’t mess with someone’s feelings just because you’re unsure of yours.
24.True happiness comes from within, not from someone else. Don’t make the mistake of waiting on someone or something to come along and make you happy.
25.Don’t choose the one who is beautiful to the world, choose the one who makes your world beautiful.
26.If you feel like your ship is sinking, it might be a good time to throw out the stuff that’s been weighing it down. Let go of people who bring you down, and surround yourself with those who bring out the best in you.
27.Just because it didn’t last forever, doesn’t mean it wasn’t worth your while.
28.Say what you mean and mean what you say. Don’t expect others to read your mind, and don’t play games with their heads and hearts. Don’t tell half-truths and expect people to trust you when the full truth comes out. Half-truths are no better than lies. And don’t ignore someone you care about, because lack of concern hurts more than angry words.
29.Lies help no one in the long run. So… 1) Don’t say “I love you” if you don’t mean it. 2) Don’t say “I understand” if you have no clue. 3) Don’t say “I’m sorry” if you’re not. 4) Be honest with yourself and your loved ones.
30.Tell the truth, or eventually someone will tell it for you. Read The Four Agreements.
31.Good relationships don’t just happen; they take time, patience and two people who truly want to work to be together.
32.Falling in love is not a choice. To stay in love is.
33.Love doesn’t hurt. Lying, cheating and screwing with people’s feelings and emotions hurts.
34.When it comes to relationships, remaining faithful is never an option but a priority. Loyalty is everything.
35.A great relationship is about two things: First, appreciating the similarities, and second, respecting the differences.
36.Jealousy is the art of counting someone else blessings instead of your own. Don’t waste your time on jealousy. The only person you’re competing against is yourself.
37.Do not become possessive. The purpose of a relationship is to complement each other, grow together, and achieve your common goals as a couple. At the same time, you must each maintain your individual identity as a human being.
38.Don’t ever change just to impress someone. Change because it makes you a better person and leads you to a better future.
39.Give, but don’t allow yourself to be used. Listen to others, but don’t lose your own voice.
40.Don’t look for someone who will solve all your problems; look for someone who will face them with you.
41.You don’t really need someone to complete you. You only need someone to accept you completely.
42.Speak when you are very angry, and you’ll make the best speech you’ll ever regret.
43.Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness. Let it go.
44.As we grow up, we realize it becomes less important to have more friends and more important to have real ones.
45.Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.
46.Respect is earned, honesty is appreciated, trust is gained, and loyalty is returned.
47.Never waste a moment, it may be the last with someone you love.
48.If you love someone, tell them. Forget about the rules or the fear of looking ridiculous. What is really ridiculous is passing up on an opportunity to tell someone that your heart is invested in them.
49.Nobody gets through life without losing someone they love, someone they need, or something they thought was meant to be. But it is these losses that make us stronger and eventually move us toward future opportunities.
50.Never stop doing little things for others. Sometimes those little things occupy the biggest part of their hearts.
51.The best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments you spend smiling with someone who matters to you.
52.A real person is not perfect, and a perfect person is not real.
53.To the world, you might be just one person. But to one person, you might be the world.
54.Just because you have a past with someone, doesn’t mean you should have a future with them.
55.No relationship is a waste of time. The wrong ones teach you the lessons that prepare you for the right ones.
56.The first to apologize is the bravest. The first to forgive is the strongest. The first to move forward is the happiest.
57.If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.
58.Characterize people by their actions and you will never be fooled by their words.
59.When the pain of holding on is worse than the pain of letting go, it is time to let go.
60.If a friend is in trouble, don’t bother them by asking if there is anything you can do. Think of something appropriate and do it.
61.Sometimes it is better to be kind than to be right. We do not always need an intelligent mind that speaks, just a patient heart that listens.
62.Be the friend that you want to have.
63.There are times when family are like strangers, and strangers are like family. Both sets of people are priceless.
64.In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don’t bring up the past.
65.Instead of judging people by their past, stand by them and help repair their future.
66.Don’t try to be everything to everyone. Be everything to someone.
67.Let us remember that we can’t force anyone to love us. We can’t beg someone to stay when they want to leave and be with someone else. This is what love is all about. However, the end of love is not the end of life. It should be the beginning of understanding that love leaves for a reason, but never leaves without a lesson.
68.When things fall apart, consider the possibility that life knocked it down on purpose. Not to bully you, or to punish you, but to prompt you to build something that better suits your personality and your purpose. Sometimes things fall apart so better things can fall together. Read The Road Less Traveled.
69.Everyone wants a perfect ending. But over the years I’ve learned that some of the best poems don’t rhyme, and many great stories don’t have a clear beginning, middle, or end. Life is about not knowing, embracing change, and taking a moment and making the best of it without knowing what’s going to happen next.
70.In human relationships, distance is not measured in miles but in affection. Two people can be right next to each other, yet miles apart. So stay in touch with those who truly matter to you. Not because it’s convenient, but because they’re worth the extra effort.
71.Never neglect the people who are most important to you simply because you think they will always be there. Because one morning you might wake up and realize you lost the moon while counting the stars.
72.True love isn’t about being inseparable; it’s about two people being true to each other even when they are separated.
73.True friendship and true love do sustain the tests of distance and time.
74.When someone gives you their time, they are giving you a portion of their life that they will never get back. It’s one of the most precious gifts you can receive. Don’t waste it.
75.Good relationships are not just about the good times you share; they’re also about the obstacles you go through together, and the fact that you still say “I love you” in the end.

Tuesday, April 7, 2015

"Don't Miss Out On Exectly What You Been Looking For"

"Sometimes People aren't ready to be in a relationship because they are not in a place in their life where they feel they are ready to give someone all of the time, attention, and love that the person needs or deserves.

It doesn't always have to be something wrong. Like there's gotta be something wrong because on paper everything seems too right. Or because there's someone else they are still stuck on...

Maybe up until now, maybe this person just wanted to be honest with themself, which is being honest to you as well. And when you get to that point where you know what you want. Fight for what you want. Stand up for what you want...

If not it will slip right through your hands and into someone else's... You just may miss out on exactly what you always wanted by letting it get away from you....

And if you let it go without ever giving it a chance then you gotta face living with regret..."

~ J Rag

Saturday, March 31, 2012

Why We Get On Each Others Nerves

Men love women. They do. But that doesn’t mean women don’t drive them crazy. Even after oceans of ink have been spilled about how the two sexes can better understand and accept each other, women still find ways to annoy men — and vice versa. Here are the top five ways she’s making you crazy right now. Ladies, are you guilty of any of these irritating behaviors?

1. Game-playing/manufacturing drama. There are lots of ways to create drama and excitement in a relationship, but men aren’t usually fans — unless said excitement involves clothing removal. “Asking too much too soon about his past relationships” is one way women drive men nuts and create drama, says Dr. Linda R. Young, Ph.D., a psychologist and relationship coach who blogs for Psychology Today. Making him late by taking too long to get ready is another. Getting irrationally jealous over platonic friends or running hot, then cold with no explanation are just a few more.

Whether the drama is minor or significant, men would rather skip it. “I think these [behaviors] exist because men and women don’t have the skills to live beyond the ‘game-playing’ they learned as adolescents, which is perpetuated by the media,” explains Marni Battista, expert dating coach and founder of DatingWithDignity.com. “It takes an entire toolkit of advanced skills to create truly win-win situations in relationships. A person who doesn’t have these skills will always go to those old ‘default’ tendencies to fill the void.” And thus, drama is Born......

Ask yourself: Have I recently thrown either an object or a tantrum? If the answer is “yes,” you might be a drama queen. Take it down a notch by talking to your partner about why you’re feeling so angry and exactly what you need to feel calmer in the relationship. If you’re the one dealing with a drama queen, tell her you’re happy to discuss problems like an adult but you’re not interested in entertaining a whole restaurant with her shenanigans. If she doesn’t calm down, tell her to audition for a reality show and leave you alone.

2. Expecting the man to pay for everything. Most men don’t mind picking up the check early on in a courtship, but after a few dates, it’s nice for a woman to offer to contribute financially — especially if exclusivity has been established. Men like to be generous, but they don’t like to be taken for suckers, especially if the woman they’re seeing has a good job. As a corollary to this one, “Men are often put off by women trying to get a sense early on about what he does for a living and how much he earns,” says Dr. Seth Meyers, a Los Angeles-based psychologist and author of Dr. Seth’s Love Prescription. Men are people, too. If they feel they’re being sized up for more shallow, resume-type qualities, they’ll be annoyed.

3. “Wanting to know ‘where the relationship is going’ before he’s ready to say, or before he knows himself,” is a big one, according to Dr. Young. Dating is supposed to be a chance to get to know another person. It’s not a guarantee of finding a certain kind of relationship, and women who treat it this way drive men nuts. It’s almost as if the woman is selling herself short — after all, you can’t help but ask why a lady would want some kind of commitment from someone she doesn’t really know yet. Why is her “audition process” so short? Likewise, “Men often get bothered with women asking or talking about their beliefs about marriage and children early in the dating process,” observes Meyers. It puts too much pressure on what should be the fun part of getting to know someone when the end goal is the only thing a woman wants to focus on.

If the relationship isn’t likely to blossom into something steady and he’s upfront about that, a man wants the woman to hear what he’s saying and take him at face value. “Men are frustrated by women who don’t really believe them when they say, ‘I’m not in a place to have a relationship, but I really like hanging out with you,’” says Battista. “A man will give this ‘disclaimer’ and then be irritated when the woman finds she can’t change him, then begins to get angry that he hasn’t met her expectations.” If a woman wants to know how a man really feels and then gets hysterical after an honest response, it’s enough to — you guessed it — drive him crazy.

4. Being controlling. “Correcting him on little details when he’s got the big picture right,” adds Dr. Young, is another thing that drives men bonkers. It’s often true that women are better at multitasking, but that doesn’t mean they have to run every detail of the show. A man will get frustrated if a woman asks him to do something then won’t give him a chance to do it his way. The real show-stopper is when she then claims she “has to do everything around here!” If this situation sounds familiar, how can you improve it?

“If you want to put a stop to people’s annoying behavior, you first have to make them aware of it,” says Marc Muchnick, Ph.D., author of No More Regrets! 30 Ways to Greater Happiness and Meaning in Your Life. “Often, people don’t realize that what they are doing is bugging you, so when you tell them, it may come as a surprise.” So tell your significant other that she has to trust you if she doesn’t want to plan every meal, vacation and weekend you spend together, guys. Then do a good job with the task — in your own way, of course — and she just might back off.

5. Not getting enough “guy time.” In ancient cultures, men often spent most of their time with other men while the women socialized with each other. That, as we all know, has changed. And it’s hard for some men to accept. They want their guy time, and it’s rough when women don’t respect that. As long as “guys’ night out” isn’t a code for regularly losing thousands of dollars gambling or paying for strippers, men deserve to have time with their male friends. Deciding exactly how much time is appropriate should be left up to each couple. Remind her that time spent away from each other means the time you do have together will be that much richer — especially with funny stories about the ridiculous thing your buddy Paulie did last weekend. The key is, be reasonable. If you want more guy time than gal time, maybe having a wife or a girlfriend isn’t in the cards for you.