"Original"

Look for what has not been seen before. Say what has not been said before.

Seek to experience life in new and original ways. Today is a new day, so fill it with new substance.

If you’re thinking the same thought over and over again, do something useful with that thought and then let it go. Make space for some real, original thoughts and experiences that are more than mere repeats.

Time always moves forward, so move forward with it. Use time to learn, to grow, to enjoy and achieve in ways you’ve never done before.

Pleasantly surprise yourself with how flexible and adaptable you can be. Delight yourself with new discoveries as the days and years unfold.

This day is a one-of-a-kind original, so live it in an original way. Life is renewed in every moment, and you can choose to be constantly fresh and renewed as well.....

Be Original. Be Unique. Be Creative. Be Evasive. Be Decisive. Be Decrative. Make a Difference. Be YourSelf. Original is Swagger. Be You!!


Follow J Rag @jragmusic via Twitter @ http://www.twitter.com/jragmusic

It's Worth All The Trouble

Life is a lot of trouble. And life is worth all the trouble.

The best things can often be the most difficult things. So instead of running or hiding from the difficulties, courageously work through them.

Life is filled with great and valuable opportunities. The most valuable of those opportunities are the ones that ask the most of you.

When the frustrations come, be thankful for the chance to learn from them. When the disappointments come, be grateful for the opportunity to reaffirm and recommit to what’s most important.

Life’s many troubles will come and go. As they do, the positive possibilities grow more numerous and magnificent.

Embrace each day along with whatever it brings. And use it to add more joy to life no matter what.

Unexpected

Something unexpected will happen today, and tomorrow, and every day. You can worry about what it might be, and fight against it when it comes, or you can accept it and deal with it in a positive way.

You cannot escape from life’s uncertainty, and you really wouldn’t want to. Although that uncertainty can bring pain, it can also bring great joy and powerful new positive possibilities.

What you can do is choose to grow stronger with each twist and turn. What you can do is learn, adapt, create, innovate and successfully adjust to life as it changes from day to day.

Uncertainty can sometimes be very disruptive and inconvenient and challenging. Fortunately, you have the skills to meet those challenges, and to move your life forward no matter what may come.

Though you can’t know for sure what will happen in the future, you can know for sure that there’s always a way to make the best of it. There’s always a way to remain true to your most treasured values, and to live your life according to your highest vision.

Life is not always predictable, but that’s no reason to fret. Because in that unpredictability, you’ll always find valuable and meaningful new positive opportunities.


Follow J Rag @jragmusic on Twitter @ http://www.twitter.com/jragmusic

Made To Make A Difference

Doing only what is easy and convenient, comfortable and free of challenge, doesn’t get you very far. Chasing after something for nothing ends up getting you nothing of real value.

In order to experience true fulfillment in any undertaking, you must invest yourself in it. It is your active participation and contribution to life that makes it so good to live.

If you continually take the easy way out, avoiding effort, challenge and commitment, you’ll end up being very disappointed. You are made to make a difference, so embrace every opportunity to do so.

You are here to participate, not just to observe. The true joy you feel will come not from meaningless possessions or empty pleasures, but from creating and expressing and experiencing the goodness of life in your own unique way.

Don’t waste your precious time in a fruitless attempt to get something for nothing. In every moment there are plenty of opportunities to create real value that flows from the authentic beauty of who you are.

Your deepest desires and your most difficult problems are challenging you to make a positive difference. Do yourself a big favor, accept the challenge, make the effort, and create the true fulfillment that is your destiny.


"The Official J Rag Music Page" @ http://www.reverbnation.com/jrag

Push YourSelf Forward

There are plenty of obstacles that can stand in your way. Don’t be one of them.

Your own thoughts, assumptions and fears can hold you back just as surely as a solid brick wall. And yet, just as you created those self-imposed obstacles, you can let them go.

Instead of fighting against yourself, use the amazing power of your thoughts to more fully enable yourself. Instead of constructing elaborate excuses for avoiding your dreams, just go ahead and let yourself live those dreams.

Yes, life is difficult and challenging, and requires great effort and commitment on your part. Instead of adding to the difficulty with your own negativity, you can choose to enthusiastically transform that difficulty into profound fulfillment.

Remind yourself what a privilege it is to be alive, and to be able to make a difference. Then, focus your awareness on the positive possibilities and do what you do best.

Use your thoughts not to hold yourself back, but to push yourself positively and lovingly forward. Aim the power of your thoughts in a positive, fulfilling direction and your whole life will go in that direction too......

2012 MindScApe Entertainment(R). All Rights Reserved. (c)J Rag Publishing(ASCAP).

A Greater Success

You don’t have to be famous to be important. You don’t have to be a celebrity to be successful.

You don’t have to live in opulent luxury to be rich. You don’t have to be irresponsible to be free.

You don’t have to be outrageous to be creative. You don’t have to be abusive to be impressive.

You can be quietly humble and still be amazingly effective. You can be kind and considerate and still have great influence.

Just because people don’t fall at your feet and worship you, doesn’t mean you are a failure. Quiet success is just as sweet as loud, flamboyant success, and usually much more real.

Success is what you choose for it to be, not what everyone else says it must be. Live your life in each moment in a way that truly fulfills you and brings value to your world, for that is the greatest success.

A Greater Success

You don’t have to be famous to be important. You don’t have to be a celebrity to be successful.

You don’t have to live in opulent luxury to be rich. You don’t have to be irresponsible to be free.

You don’t have to be outrageous to be creative. You don’t have to be abusive to be impressive.

You can be quietly humble and still be amazingly effective. You can be kind and considerate and still have great influence.

Just because people don’t fall at your feet and worship you, doesn’t mean you are a failure. Quiet success is just as sweet as loud, flamboyant success, and usually much more real.

Success is what you choose for it to be, not what everyone else says it must be. Live your life in each moment in a way that truly fulfills you and brings value to your world, for that is the greatest success.

Keep it Grown & Sexy

There should never be a time, where its not ok to Keep It Sexy.... Keep that shit hot between you and your girl.... Always!! Tonight when you get home from work, steal a moment of sexiness with your Dude. Or Girl for that matter...... Throw him up against the wall and kiss him forcefully..... Let your lips explore do the Talkin' & Walkin'....... You decide where and for how long.........

Tomorrow morning, call him/her from the shower & ask him/her to grab you a towel. (S)he'll love what (s)he sees as you stand with beads of water streaming down your body. You may have to be late for work.......

Tonight, spontaneously invite him out for dinner. Wear your sexiest outfit with nothing underneath. During dinner, seductively smile, whispering your secret to him. He'll love being your guy....

Take excitement to the max. Strip the duvet off your bed, lay it on the living room floor or in front of the fireplace. When (s)he comes home, be ready wearing only your fragrance & a fluffy blanket.....

"Can A ThreeSome Ruin Your Relationship?"

Can a 3Some ruin your Relationship? People would obviously have different opinions on that.....

Can A Threesome Ruin Your Relationship?

If you ask men what their ultimate fantasy is, chances are they will likely respond that it is making love with two women. Almost every man who has the opportunity to have a three-way love-making experience will take it, but what are the chances that taking it to the next level can actually ruin your relationship?

Let's face it--men who make love to two women are revered by their male counterparts. It gives a man a feeling of accomplishment and achievement, making him feel like the ultimate alpha male. But have you ever considered the consequences of three-way lovemaking for both you and your partner?

For any self-respecting woman who is in love, sharing her boyfriend with another woman can be a traumatic experience that can trigger all kinds of negative emotions for her ranging from jealousy and embarrassment to possessiveness.

Think about it--asking your woman to have a three-way means that you are confessing your desire to make love to another woman. Just the thought of that will not only give her a sense of doubt, but mistrust will creep in and she will think you are cheating and are not satisfied by her.

Still not convinced a three-way could ruin your relationship? While you might be excited at the idea of being with two women at the same time, would something switch in your view of your girlfriend if she asked you for a threesome with another man?

Imagine how hard it would be to return to a normal relationship once you've seen your lady in bed with another guy. Even if you're in to that sort of thing now, how willing would you be to make her your wife and have some kids after watching her get it on with some random stranger, or even worse--one of your buddies?

When it comes to threesomes, they're never a good idea unless you have an open relationship with some chick you see no real future with. If you're in a very loving, secure and serious relationship, this type of fantasy should stay just that--a fantasy.......

~~ Joe "J Rag" Rago

Sexual

Show up to His place wearing Stilettos, A Fur Full Length Coat or Trench Coat & Sexual Perfume or his favorite fragrance and nothing else.....

Spray a little bit of your Sexual Perfume or favorite scent on to his bath towel and in his bathroom and after he takes a shower and dries himself off, he will think of you!!

Send him an email that sais only.... "Misbehave with Me"

Tell him he has something on his lip and go slowly to lick it off for him....

Mail him your Lingerie scented with your favorite perfume and tell him you will be by to pick it up later......

Put on your lip gloss in front of him. He will love your lips and watching your mouth slightly open while stroking them with the lip gloss... A turn on major...

Nibble on his lips slowly and slightly but only one at a time. Each part has its own nerve endings and its a major turn on....

take a day..... to both call in sick and spend the entire day in bed with each other... taking the time to please each other over and over throughout the entire day.... Treat each other...

Take Over With A Kiss

Want to really electrify him (her) with your kisses? Here's how.

Want to really electrify him with your kisses? Bring it to the next level. Once you amp up your kissing skills, he'll never want to let you go. 5 Reasons Kissing Is Good For You

(These tips work equally well for both men and women!)

1.Pay Attention to the Kiss. That means consciously focus and concentrate on each aspect of the kiss. Tune into the softness and warmth of his lips; feel your partner's body against yours; listen to the almost inaudible moans. Once you allow yourself to relax and immerse yourself in the waves of signals your partner is sending, you will naturally and automatically be more sensual and inviting with your kiss.

2.Mix it Up. Gently break away from the kiss to steal little moments of passion-infusers. Stare deeply into his eyes before returning to your kiss. Nibble your partner's lip or bite his neck with different levels of intensity. (Always make it gentle enough for pleasure.) Let your own moan of pleasure escape before you give him more. 10 Surprising Facts About Kissing

3.Touch with sensuality. Nothing makes a kiss more sultry than playfully exploring where he'll feel the most pleasure. The obviously sexy areas are good, but it's even more passion-inducing if you are creative and unexpected.
Some suggestions: Gently run your fingers through his hair. Hold onto it with a soft tug before letting go. Run your fingers over his scalp in a circular motion. (Practice in your own hair. You will find out how sexy this feels and why it will make you a better kisser.) Rub his back. Lightly let your hands travel up and down his spine. Caress your partner's cheek, chin, and neck as you kiss.


Make your kiss a passionate, sultry trademark and you will leave him yearning for more of the irresistible, sexy you.

Is She Interested? Is He?

Flirt Tip:

Is (s)he interested in you? If his/her feet are pointed towards you while either sitting or standing, it means they want to stick around and find out more about delectable you. If they are pointing away from you? (S)he may be looking for a quick get away.

Dealing With A Flirt

So you met a woman who seemed like that "special" lady who constantly flirted with you. You started developing feelings for her and considered that maybe she was "the one". However, when you decided to pursue something further with her, something changed. She suddenly withdrew from you and didn't seem the least bit interested in any kind of romantic relationship with you, saying "Oh, I thought we were just friends." Face it--you fell victim to the Tease.

The Tease is a master of manipulation. Some of the reasons these manipulative women engage in this ‘teasing‘ behavior is because it gives them wanted attention, an ego boost by impressing other women and assurance that they could in fact have certain men if they wanted.

Others use teasing as a means of filling a void of some kind, getting another guy's attention or to even get revenge on a guy who scorned them.Whatever the reason, these devious women are experts at spotting male vulnerabilities and will flaunt their femininity and their sexuality to get what they want from men and have no intention of being with them.

No man wants to play the fool. Here are the top 10 signs that she's just a tease so you can recognize this from the get go and walk-away:

1. She has many male friends who call her frequently. She keeps many unsuspecting men by her side, and they all cater to her every whim.




2. She has generally no or very few female friends as other women are competition to her.





3. She doesn’t talk about her personal life and constantly makes herself unavailable.




4. She never comments on how attractive you are. She’s not sincerely attracted to you, she’s just entertaining herself.




5. She keeps conversations constricted to things going on in the moment and will not give you any clues that she wants to be more (e.g., asking you out to dinner or to the movies.)




6. She takes your number instead of giving you hers – She’s doesn’t want you calling her, and has no intentions on calling you.




7. She is not open to being touched. She pulls away when you make attempts at physical contact.


8. She has a hard time focusing on you and plays lots of mind games. Her eyes usually wonder when another guy passes by.


9 . She craves attention and is usually wrapped in shape-revealing clothing with lots of cleavage showing.


10. She is an extremely high maintenance woman, both financially and emotionally, needs many things to be happy, namely lots of money and material goods.

Making The First Move

Making The First Move

Although there are aggressive women out there, most women women shy away from being the initiators in dating. Most women like to put men up to the challenge of how they'll go about approaching them, by not making the first move and allowing the man to step up to the plate. Women want to be pursued and desired by men, so ultimately you must have enough courage to make the first move.



Over the years, society has taught women to play hard to get for fear of being considered easy. When it comes to dating, there's no doubt that making the first move is nerve-wracking, but you must realize that women want their guys to take chances i.e., asking them out, planning the evening, kissing them when they least expect it, etc... Although going out on a limb and risking rejection is frustrating, you'll get nowhere fast if you refuse to take the initiative and make something happen. What women want is to get physical with you, and they expect that you know when to make your move.

The key to making the first move on a girl is getting in the mindset first. You want the first move to appear comfortable yet spontaneous, and with the right preparation you can! You cannot make a move on a girl from five feet away, so get your confidence up, move closer and wait for a comfortable break in the conversation with her. How do you know she’s ready? You can’t be 100 percent sure, but you can get pretty close if you just pay attention. A woman will let you know she is open to being pursued, and if she doesn't say it out loud, she might just say it by simply using body language. She will be flirting more with you and will do things like moving closer to you and leaning toward you as you speak, showing some skin, playing with her hair or touching you both accidentally and on purpose.

If she likes you, she’ll ultimately create the moment. When you are reasonably sure she’s ready, put on the moves by wrapping your arm around her shoulders. Talk about nice thoughts with her while you do this and keep her calm. If she is talking to you intimately for a while and the two of you cuddle, take her hands in yours, draw her close to you and gently kiss her on the lips.

Some women will let you take charge when they're ready. You can start by kissing her neck and gently nibbling on her lower lip. Explore her neck and face with yours and note her reactions. Let things move along slowly and build at their own pace and don't go for the goods until you've spent some time earning them! Remember, the confident man who has a proper build-up and uses good form will probably sweep her off her feet; however, the guy who is rude during conversation and immediately pulls out a condom will probably go home alone. Women control the speed of the relationship, and in most cases they decide after meeting a guy how far they are willing to go with him. So if she asks you to go some place more private (like your place) make sure you're ready.

Each woman is different, so I recommend that you carefully observe your date's actions and body language to make sure she'll be receptive to your advances. Even though you may feel sure she is sending all the signals, the last thing you want to do is scare her away by coming on too aggressively (e.g., shoving your tongue down her throat.)

If she tells you that she has an early-morning meeting, or has some relatives staying at her place, she is probably telling you that this isn’t the right time. If she is not ready and backs away, don’t get upset and let the night turn to waste. Just continue to have fun and try to make that first move again at another time.

It Is Never OK To Date Your Friends' Ex....

I give the different outlooks, opinions, and circumstances.... But I must note that I personally believe, there's so many other people in the world. It is better to not go that route and avoid what could become a friend ending situation or very uncomfortable.....

"We don't own people; we just share our time with them."

One of the eternal questions that plague men all over the world is, what are the rules about dating your friend’s ex? Is there some kind of man code that says that once a woman has been claimed by a member of your pack there is no way another can ever date her down the road? Is there a time frame from when they dated that makes her totally off limits to you? Let’s say they dated for six months. Does that mean you need to wait around another six until you can do anything? Until he has another girlfriend? And what happens if this is your best friend’s girlfriend? What are the rules then?

Let’s set the scenario: Your friend is dating an amazing girl. (And I’m talking about a real friend here, not a friend of a friend, a work friend or someone you see around who goes to all the same events as you.) The whole time your friend was dating this great woman, you always made sure to tell your buddy how lucky he was to have a woman like her. Every time you hung out with them in a group you guys really got along with each other. She was so cool. And all you kept thinking was, “Why can’t I meet somebody like her?”

Can You Date Your Friend's Ex?
But now you’re in a predicament -- they’ve broken up. To make things worse, she was the one who broke things off with your friend. Maybe he called you and told you; maybe you saw her out and, in the middle of another great conversation, she brought it up. So what do you do at this point? Is is OK to call her? Or maybe she’s started calling you.

Now that she’s single, you’re really thinking about this woman a lot. You start to develop feelings for her. You guys talk with each other and she tells you she’s starting to have feelings for you, too. At the same time, your friend still talks about her and wonders if he did something wrong to ruin the relationship.

Now you’re in one of the biggest predicaments of your entire social life. You really want to start dating your friend's ex, and she wants to go out with you. You want to start seeing her, and you have a very strong feeling that you two are really going to hit it off. What do you do in this situation?



RELATED VIDEO: How To Date Your Friend's ExHow To Handle Your Friend's Ex
There are a lot of guys out there who truly feel that once they've dated a woman she is off limits to all of his friends -- no matter how long it’s been since they broke up. This is ridiculous thinking. We don’t own people; we just share our time with them. It’s your job to make the relationship that you have with her a great experience, and when that relationship comes to an end, you need to let her go. You had your time together and hopefully you created some great memories, but now it’s not your place to try to change and control anyone’s future or the way they want to live their lives.

I am somebody who truly believes that people are not possessions. I don’t care if it’s a casual acquaintance, I don’t care if it’s your best friend in the whole world, and I don’t care who broke up with whom. If I break up with someone -- and I have broken up and been broken up with a lot -- I have no problem with any of my friends dating my ex, falling in love with her and even marrying her. A great relationship, and great chemistry between two people, can be rare to come by.

If you’re feeling a connection with someone, I firmly believe that you need to take every potential opportunity for finding a great person to be with. And if you’re the bystander, if you’re fuming because your friend is dating your ex who broke up with you, you need to realize that people are not your possessions. You may have shared something special with her in the past -- and that’s something to cherish -- but now it’s time to give your friend and your ex the freedom to do what they want without you in the picture......


What To Do
So, if you have feelings for your best friend’s ex, here is what you need to do. First you need to confirm your feelings with her. Sit down with her, clear the air and tell her exactly how you feel. You know she feels the same way about you as you do about her. Make sure you are both on the same page with each other. Then you need to make sure you are both on the same page about your friend. Tell her, “We need to talk about how to approach this situation with my friend. I don’t want to lose his friendship, but I certainly don’t want it to stop me from acting on my feelings for you.”

You need to talk this out with her. Both of you know your friend well, from different points of view, and together you will be able to come up with an honest way of telling him so that he will not be angry or hurt. Once you’ve had that conversation with your friend’s ex, you’ll need to sit down with him. Depending on how close you are, this can be one of the toughest things in the world -- you need to have “the talk.”

Breaking The News To Your Friend
When you sit down with him, be truthful and tell him what your friendship with him means to you. For most men, really communicating that to another guy is the hardest part, but you need to get that out there and let him know that you respect him. Then you’ll need to ask him how he would feel if you started dating his ex. You really need to be honest and tell him everything. You need to tell him how you feel and whether you’re serious about her. He may be fine with it. He may have to sit and think about it. He may be upset and say, “F*ck you. Absolutely not.” He may not want to see you for a while. In time, though, he is going to understand.

He’s not with her anymore, so give him his space if he needs it. He is out there dating, having fun and sleeping with other women. Eventually, he is going to get over it. Amazing women with whom you have incredible chemistry don't come around that often. You have every right and you owe it to yourself to pursue a relationship with her.

Depending on how close your friendship is, this may be one of the toughest situations of your life. You’ll need to display complete and total honesty with yourself and ask yourself how serious you are about it (it’s OK if you don’t know yet, but you need to be honest). You need to be honest with this new woman in your life and with your friend. This is going to be a tough lesson, but a valuable one. Your ability to have difficult conversations with two people you care about, knowing that those conversations won’t be safe or easy, will demonstrate what sort of a man you are........

Be Ready For Round Two

This summary is not available. Please click here to view the post.

Become More Social

"You need to start taking the necessary steps to become a more social person."

You need to go out and meet women every single day. So what if your lifestyle isn't conducive to meeting women every day? Or maybe you can meet them, but talking to them is not your strong point? You need to find something -- a book, find a coach or a mentor -- who can guide you in the right direction.

You need to start taking the necessary steps to become a more social person. If you have a fear or an anxiety when you talk to women, you need to find ways to overcome those anxieties. Resolutions are great, but you've got to break them down and take all the necessary steps to make the resolution happens for you. Sure, most guys want to make a lot more money, most guys want to lose a little weight, and I know a ton of you guys want to get laid more and meet more women. But the only way to do any of that stuff is to take the small steps toward your goal.

In my 15 years of coaching men, I've always emphasized the small steps. If a guy is painfully shy, of course he's going to always ask (or his resolution is always going to be) how to meet more women or get more dates. But in order to stop being shy, you've got to start opening up and talking to everybody. You've got to start saying hello to people on the street. You've got to start engaging women in conversation. You've got to go up and approach women. You've got to start asking them out. And, yes, you've got to start getting rejected and being OK with it, because all of this is what gets you more dates. So, look at your dating resolutions and ask yourself this question: What small steps do I need to take in order to get that big resolution accomplished?

You've got a clean slate this year. The problem is, all your past problems are also coming into the new year with you. Those didn't stay behind. Your attitude, your learned behaviors, your past experiences -- everything about you is coming into the new year with you. It's time to take the small steps in order to get your resolutions handled......

A Resolution

"Most resolutions, especially dating resolutions, are unrealistic because you're not looking at the core of what you need to work on."

Well, the clock has finally turned. It's 2012. Can you believe it? We're now in the teens of the new millennium, the roaring tens, whatever you want to call it.

And at the beginning of every year, you're resolution-based. That's what we do. You utter a ton of drunken resolutions on New Year's Eve to your buddies, saying, "This year is going to be the best year! This year I'm going to get laid more! This year I'm going to work harder! This year I'm going to make more money! This year I'm going to meet more women! This is the year I'm going to meet somebody special!"

You play the game of "this year": "This year it's going to happen," and This year I can finally become the man I've always wanted to be!"

Here's the question: When it comes down to dating, are these resolutions realistic? Let's look at the reality of your life. Let's take a look back to last year, when the clock struck 2011.

What were your resolutions like? Did you play a lot of "this year"? Did you promise yourself that you would pursue more women? Did you promise yourself that you would be more outgoing? Did you promise yourself you would approach women and ask them out more often? Did you promise yourself all of these things, including working out, making more money and eating healthier?

Were you able to make good on any of your resolutions? Forget about just the dating resolution -- were you able to make good on any resolutions at all? Most people get overwhelmed because theirs are just unrealistic.

For instance, you're a guy who doesn't get a lot of dates. So all of a sudden on New Year's, your resolution is to have one date per week. Last year you went on three dates. Are you realistically going to increase from 3 to 52? You don't even look at the percentages. Most resolutions, especially dating resolutions, are unrealistic because you're not looking at the core of what you need to work on. You're not looking at the reasons behind why you're not meeting women and getting the dates. And all you're doing is trying to fill yourself up with hot air and hoopla.

Look, positive self-talk is fantastic. It's empowering. But, unfortunately, a lot of times it's just not realistic. Most people don't understand the small steps that are necessary to get these goals accomplished. If you want to go out there and date 40 new women this year, or you want to get a girlfriend this year, you've got to find a way to go out there and actually meet women every single day. They just won't magically appear. If you're not great at conversation, if you're not great at talking to women, nothing is magically going to change for you.

So, if you're serious about making these resolutions come to life, you need to take a look at what your dating resolution is, and then you need to figure out what steps you are going to take in order to get there........

"The Kiss"

"A kiss to a woman is like foreplay, and it can be like magic if you do it right."

The big moment. It's the end of the evening, and you've had a great time together. Now it's time for the big kiss. So what do you do? How do you do it?

Well, you think to yourself, "I'm just going to grab her by the arms, turn her around and give her this big kiss!" You've seen it in all those romantic movies, the ones where the guy really goes for it and gets the girl. Maybe you've even watched the show Millionaire Matchmaker, where Patti the matchmaker tells the guys to go out, wow the girl and then make out with her at the end of the first date.

Well, that doesn't work in real life because it's not about the kiss. In reality, it's about how you tease her. Women are all about teasing. The more you tease and create anticipation from the beginning, the better it will be for you down the road.

I look at women as giant clitorises. If you know anything about the clit at all, you know that you don't want to just ram your hand down her pants and go for the clit really hard right away because the clit's too sensitive.

What you want to do is massage the clit, you want to work your way around, above, below the clit. You want to take 20, 25 minutes to warm her up before you even get to the clit in the first place. A kiss to a woman is like foreplay, and it can be like magic if you do it right.



RELATED VIDEO: How To Make The First Kiss
The first kiss is always so much fun -- maybe even one of the most fun parts of the dating process, as long as you don't get anxious over it.

Now, pay attention because you've got to remember this word: anticipation. If you're on a date and the two of you are having a good time, really hitting it off, she is going to be anticipating that first kiss anyway. You don't need to chase after the kiss.

Personally, I never go in for the kiss until the second date. I want her to go home thinking about the kiss. I want her to wonder what it's like to kiss me in between dates. Then I want her to anticipate the kiss the next time she sees me.

I want her to think, "This guy is going to kiss me soon!" I want to keep her on her toes the whole time, and when I do kiss her, I want to show her who's in complete control.....

"What These Ladies Want From You"

Tell Me What They Want?