For real, a Woman's Shoe Game has got to be up to par. My Man Shoe game is dope and always Fresh and clean and on top..... So I love it when a woman has her legs right, and looking sexy and her shoes are there to just highlight the rest.....
I like a woman who can put on her sexy fit dress, sexy heels and still remember that when wearing make-up.....less sometimes can be so much more.... They look better without all of the cake......
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Saturday, February 11, 2012
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Saturday, January 28, 2012
"It's All About You"
It's all about you tonight. lay down and let me rub your back. its your time girl, to be pampered. the oils are out now, and they're warmed up for you..... It's all about you tonight!!
Thursday, January 26, 2012
Guys Tips to Stay Fresh
#Guy Tip: Keep your t-shirts looking fresh and new. Your t-shirts are doing double duty. They are a go-to casual item and look great under a formal shirt. Too often it's easy to overlook that they are turning yellow, fading, or stretching. A well dressed man is a sexy man.
Friday, January 20, 2012
Keeping The Excitement
Sometimes we all need a little help to keep our relationship fresh and exciting, even if we have found the love of our life. Daily routines and other demands on our time keep us running through the treadmill of life. Can keep you running in place and not even realizing how much time has gone by or how much time has really been lost. Before we know it, our relationship may be pushed to the back burner.
If this describes what has happened to your relationship, know that you are not alone. Even those of us in the best relationships need to keep finding ways to reconnect with our loved ones. Once you make it a goal to reconnect with your guy/girl, you will find it easier and easier to do every day. The trick is to get started. The rewards are immeasurable.
Here are some simple, but powerfully effective ideas to transform and revitalize your relationship.
1. Leave a thank you note on her pillow. Thank her for the delicious dinner she made that evening. Tell her how much you are looking forward to cuddling with her later. Tell her how much you loved talking with her over dinner.
2. Commit to spending time alone. Ask him out on a date once a week. Whether that is dinner out at your favorite restaurant; a walk through a nearby park; or a movie night in, the point is to have time alone to refresh your relationship. Turn off all cell phones and keep the focus on the two of you. Everyone needs time together without distractions to allow good conversation and other bonding to take place.
3. Go on an adventure. Do something you have never done before. Take horseback riding, scuba, or skating lessons. Go on a balloon ride (they are surprisingly exciting and calming at the same time). Adventures are the ultimate in bonding experiences. It gives you a feeling of team spirit; gives you something in common to talk about; and raises your endorphin levels.
If this describes what has happened to your relationship, know that you are not alone. Even those of us in the best relationships need to keep finding ways to reconnect with our loved ones. Once you make it a goal to reconnect with your guy/girl, you will find it easier and easier to do every day. The trick is to get started. The rewards are immeasurable.
Here are some simple, but powerfully effective ideas to transform and revitalize your relationship.
1. Leave a thank you note on her pillow. Thank her for the delicious dinner she made that evening. Tell her how much you are looking forward to cuddling with her later. Tell her how much you loved talking with her over dinner.
2. Commit to spending time alone. Ask him out on a date once a week. Whether that is dinner out at your favorite restaurant; a walk through a nearby park; or a movie night in, the point is to have time alone to refresh your relationship. Turn off all cell phones and keep the focus on the two of you. Everyone needs time together without distractions to allow good conversation and other bonding to take place.
3. Go on an adventure. Do something you have never done before. Take horseback riding, scuba, or skating lessons. Go on a balloon ride (they are surprisingly exciting and calming at the same time). Adventures are the ultimate in bonding experiences. It gives you a feeling of team spirit; gives you something in common to talk about; and raises your endorphin levels.
Are You Dating A Cheater?
There is no such thing as a crystal ball when it comes to knowing whether or not your new guy (or girl) will cheat on you. However, there are some tell-tale signs that indicate (s)he is more likely to cheat than the average person.
Most cheaters are unlikely to sacrifice their wants to satisfy someone else's. If your guy doesn't see the value in respecting other people's wishes, he won't respect yours in the long run. Does he wait forever before he returns his friends calls, if he returns them at all? Is he constantly on the outs with any of his siblings? Are his co-workers all crazy and he is the only sane one in his office, according to him?
If your guy does not treat those around him well, you can bet he will start treating you the same way once the newness of your relationship fades. He disrespects those around him because he doesn't see the value of a good relationship. Loyalty is not his thing. And that makes him more likely to cheat.
Whenever your girl has a free moment (with or without you), she is on facebook or her blackberry checking messages. Checking her messages with you there is not only just plain rude, but it may also be an indication you are not enough for her. She may be craving constant reassurance from other people that she is popular and well-liked. Her need to feel wanted may be more important than staying loyal to you, so she could use cheating as a way to further satisfy her need.
If your guy is relentlessly doubting your feelings for him, often asking you to reassure him of your feelings, that is also a sign of trouble. It may seem flattering at first. Who doesn't love to be needed? But it could indicate he is low on self-esteem. Just like over-using social networking, needing continual reassurance from you has the same repercussions. He may use cheating as a way to get more reassurance that he is a desirable, great guy.
When it comes to dating, many people are looking for monogamous relationships and are honest in their intentions. However, if you are having doubts about the person you are dating, look for these subtle clues. They may help you avoid future heartache.
Most cheaters are unlikely to sacrifice their wants to satisfy someone else's. If your guy doesn't see the value in respecting other people's wishes, he won't respect yours in the long run. Does he wait forever before he returns his friends calls, if he returns them at all? Is he constantly on the outs with any of his siblings? Are his co-workers all crazy and he is the only sane one in his office, according to him?
If your guy does not treat those around him well, you can bet he will start treating you the same way once the newness of your relationship fades. He disrespects those around him because he doesn't see the value of a good relationship. Loyalty is not his thing. And that makes him more likely to cheat.
Whenever your girl has a free moment (with or without you), she is on facebook or her blackberry checking messages. Checking her messages with you there is not only just plain rude, but it may also be an indication you are not enough for her. She may be craving constant reassurance from other people that she is popular and well-liked. Her need to feel wanted may be more important than staying loyal to you, so she could use cheating as a way to further satisfy her need.
If your guy is relentlessly doubting your feelings for him, often asking you to reassure him of your feelings, that is also a sign of trouble. It may seem flattering at first. Who doesn't love to be needed? But it could indicate he is low on self-esteem. Just like over-using social networking, needing continual reassurance from you has the same repercussions. He may use cheating as a way to get more reassurance that he is a desirable, great guy.
When it comes to dating, many people are looking for monogamous relationships and are honest in their intentions. However, if you are having doubts about the person you are dating, look for these subtle clues. They may help you avoid future heartache.
Body Language That Flirts & Is Attractive
It is always good to be flirty to attract a Man. But to attract the right kind of man, the flirting is important and must be done with class...... Body Language Flirts.....
You’re ready for a night out with your single friends. You’re feeling good. Your hair flows with body, your fragrance says, “I’m sexyliscious” and your outfit flatters your figure. But you still wonder what else you could do to attract that hot guy. Here are some strategies that will lure him in:
When with your friends, avoid standing in a closed circle. Looking super engrossed in your conversation sends the message “Keep away. I’m not interested.” Keep your shoulders opened outwards towards the crowd. Look at your friends, but don’t forget to occasionally check out the crowd. These physical signs send the message that you’re okay with being approached and that anyone wishing to start a conversation with you is welcome.
Keep yourself positioned near the center of the room. You will get more exposure and look like you enjoy being approached and with people. Standing near the exit gives you exposure to those guys that are leaving. Those are the guys that won’t take the time to talk to you if their friends are coaxing them to move on to the next party location.
Don’t look super involved with your drink. You will look nervous and insecure. Instead, in between drinks, use your hands and relaxed body gestures, when talking to your friend. It shows you are confident, relaxed, have energy. In short, it makes you have flirt appeal.
When sitting down, dangle your shoe off your toes, and slowly cross your legs. These gestures look irresistibly inviting, flirty, and seductive. You’re also saying: “I’m here to stay for a while.” And that means he’s going to feel comfortable approaching you because you’re unlikely to leave in a hurry if he heads your way.
Smile, smile, smile. Smiling is flirty. It makes you look ultra-friendly. That means he'll approach you more readily because he will think that even if he is not your type, you will let him down easily. Smiling also makes him feel like you are safe to start a conversation with, because even if he stumbles, you would be happy to pick up where he left off.
You’re ready for a night out with your single friends. You’re feeling good. Your hair flows with body, your fragrance says, “I’m sexyliscious” and your outfit flatters your figure. But you still wonder what else you could do to attract that hot guy. Here are some strategies that will lure him in:
When with your friends, avoid standing in a closed circle. Looking super engrossed in your conversation sends the message “Keep away. I’m not interested.” Keep your shoulders opened outwards towards the crowd. Look at your friends, but don’t forget to occasionally check out the crowd. These physical signs send the message that you’re okay with being approached and that anyone wishing to start a conversation with you is welcome.
Keep yourself positioned near the center of the room. You will get more exposure and look like you enjoy being approached and with people. Standing near the exit gives you exposure to those guys that are leaving. Those are the guys that won’t take the time to talk to you if their friends are coaxing them to move on to the next party location.
Don’t look super involved with your drink. You will look nervous and insecure. Instead, in between drinks, use your hands and relaxed body gestures, when talking to your friend. It shows you are confident, relaxed, have energy. In short, it makes you have flirt appeal.
When sitting down, dangle your shoe off your toes, and slowly cross your legs. These gestures look irresistibly inviting, flirty, and seductive. You’re also saying: “I’m here to stay for a while.” And that means he’s going to feel comfortable approaching you because you’re unlikely to leave in a hurry if he heads your way.
Smile, smile, smile. Smiling is flirty. It makes you look ultra-friendly. That means he'll approach you more readily because he will think that even if he is not your type, you will let him down easily. Smiling also makes him feel like you are safe to start a conversation with, because even if he stumbles, you would be happy to pick up where he left off.
Get Back To The Sexiness
Couples in long-term relationships often take each other for granted. Although our partners mean the world to us, sometimes we can get bogged down in the everyday pressures of life and may ignore their sexy side. How and why this happens can be a mystery to us. How can someone we thought to be the sexiest person walking on the face of the earth slowly turn into more of a friend than a lover?
Actually, this stage of a relationship is normal. When two people are in a long-term relationship, living life side by side and facing the challenges it brings, they are bound to become comfortable with each other. This level of comfort is a good thing. The trick is to keep (or get) the sexy back. Here's how:
Take a few moments every day to admire his body. Today, and everyday, spend a few moments a day appreciating his physical attributes. Does he have nice buns? Admire them. Give them a rub as you walk by him in the kitchen. Give them a quick kiss as he comes out of the shower. Are his eyes to die for? Shower them with gentle kisses. Spend a few moments looking into them in the morning before you get out of bed.
Give him a massage. Go over every inch of his body. He won't refuse your touch. Drizzle a seductive, gorgeous massage oil on his beautiful back, chest, manly arms, and sexy legs. He's all yours. Admire him. Use soft pressure in slow circular movements and he'll melt to your every wish. Your heart will feel the ultimate, warm connection with him as you rediscover what you have been overlooking lately.
Spontaneously put on your favorite, sexy music in the livingroom and invite him to dance with you so you can watch his body move. You can be guaranteed he'll be watching you too.
Does he love a good movie? Invite him out to dinner and a show so you can snuggle with him in the dark. Then kiss and embrace him in the theatre -- over and over again. You'll love it. He'll love you.
Remind yourself about his sexy personality. Is he reliable? Is he thoughtful of you? Is he kind towards you? Those attributes are sexy. Lucky you to have sexy him.
It's easy to ignore your partner's sexy side once you become life-long friends. But it's oh-so-fun to rediscover and indulge in it.
Monday, January 9, 2012
US Marshalls assist Columbian Drug Ring
The US Marshalls assist Drug Traffic and Money Laundering.......
......DEA helped Colombian drug trafficker launder cash, new report revealed........
Undercover agents with the U.S. Drug Enforcement Agency, working with their Mexican counterparts, helped transfer millions of dollars in drug cash and even escorted a shipment of cocaine via Dallas to Spain. The covert activities were undertaken as part of an operation to infiltrate and prosecute a major Colombian-Mexican narco-trafficking organization moving cocaine from Colombia to Mexico and the United States.
The undercover operation, detailed in Mexican government documents obtained by the New York Times, first came to light via a Monday dispatch by Times reporter Ginger Thompson.
The documents "describe American counternarcotics agents, Mexican law enforcement officials and a Colombian informant working undercover together over several months in 2007," Thompson reported. "Together, they conducted numerous wire transfers of tens of thousands of dollars at a time, smuggled millions of dollars in bulk cash—and escorted at least one large shipment of cocaine from Ecuador to Dallas to Madrid."
The documents "show that in 2007 the authorities infiltrated" the operations of an accused major Colombian cocaine trafficker, named Harold Mauricio Poveda-Ortega, Thompson wrote. Poveda-Ortega, also known as the Rabbit, "was considered the principal cocaine supplier to the Mexican drug cartel leader Arturo Beltran Leyva."
Leyva was killed in 2008 in a shootout with Mexican naval forces. Poveda-Ortega was arrested in Mexico City in November 2010.
The Mexican government documents include testimony from a DEA special agent "who oversaw a covert money laundering investigation" into Poveda-Ortega, Thompson reported. The documents form part of the file supporting a Mexican Foreign Ministry extradition order for Poveda-Ortega from last May 2011.
Harold Mauricio Poveda-Ortega, a suspected Colombian cocaine trafficker, was arrested in Mexico in 2010. (El P …
Undercover agents with the U.S. Drug Enforcement Agency, working with their Mexican counterparts, helped transfer millions of dollars in drug cash and even escorted a shipment of cocaine via Dallas to Spain. The covert activities were undertaken as part of an operation to infiltrate and prosecute a major Colombian-Mexican narco-trafficking organization moving cocaine from Colombia to Mexico and the United States.
The undercover operation, detailed in Mexican government documents obtained by the New York Times, first came to light via a Monday dispatch by Times reporter Ginger Thompson.
The documents "describe American counternarcotics agents, Mexican law enforcement officials and a Colombian informant working undercover together over several months in 2007," Thompson reported. "Together, they conducted numerous wire transfers of tens of thousands of dollars at a time, smuggled millions of dollars in bulk cash—and escorted at least one large shipment of cocaine from Ecuador to Dallas to Madrid."
The documents "show that in 2007 the authorities infiltrated" the operations of an accused major Colombian cocaine trafficker, named Harold Mauricio Poveda-Ortega, Thompson wrote. Poveda-Ortega, also known as the Rabbit, "was considered the principal cocaine supplier to the Mexican drug cartel leader Arturo Beltran Leyva."
Leyva was killed in 2008 in a shootout with Mexican naval forces. Poveda-Ortega was arrested in Mexico City in November 2010.
The Mexican government documents include testimony from a DEA special agent "who oversaw a covert money laundering investigation" into Poveda-Ortega, Thompson reported. The documents form part of the file supporting a Mexican Foreign Ministry extradition order for Poveda-Ortega from last May 2011.
The United States, however, has declined to indicate whether Poveda-Ortega was extradited to the United States, Thompson writes. A Justice Department spokeswoman Laura Sweeney similarly told Yahoo News Monday that the department is "not in a position to comment on the specific matter."
The Drug Enforcement Agency defended the undercover operation in a written statement given to Thompson. "Transnational organized groups can be defeated only by transnational law enforcement cooperation," the agency wrote. "Such cooperation requires that law enforcement agencies — often from multiple countries — coordinate their activities, while at the same time always acting within their respective laws and authorities."
Former DEA agent Robert Mazur, who posed as a money launderer in a similar undercover DEA investigation targeting the banks supporting the Medellin drug cartel, said such undercover operations are necessary and legitimate. Covert drug stings are critical, he says, in lining up evidence to successfully prosecute the top command and control figures of organized crime cartels.
"This is a law enforcement technique that has been used for decades," Mazur told Yahoo News in a telephone interview Monday. "If we were to embrace the concept that these undercover money laundering operations shouldn't be conducted because in a small way, they for a brief period of time create a short term benefit for the criminal, we would be doing criminal organizations around the world the greatest favor they could get. We would be closing door to one of the most effective methods available to attack what law enforcement calls the command and control of these global organizations."
The organizations targeted in these intricate DEA stings "are not people selling dime bags of crack on the street, but people trying to create terrorists states around the world," continued Mazur (Mazur, who retired from the DEA in 1998, has recounted his experience infiltrating the BCCI bank accused of money laundering for the Colombian drug cartel, in a book, The Infiltrator.)
Mazur also disputed any comparison between the undercover DEA case exposed by the Times Monday and the recent controversy over "Fast and Furious," the Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco and Firearms (ATF) program that allegedly put guns in the hands of Mexican drug gangs.
"I would never agree in any circumstances say it's worthwhile to put 2,000 weapons in the hands of criminals," he said. "Each of these operations needs to be professionally managed and individually scrutinized. This one, from what I read, is very common place, and I don't see anything in there that disturbs me in the least."
Recent DEA undercover operations have led to the apprehension and successful prosecution of two major global arms traffickers, including the Russian-born, so-called "merchant of death" Viktor Bout, who was convicted in November on four counts of selling anti-aircraft guns and other weapons to Colombia's FARC rebels; and the Syrian-born "Prince of Marbella," Monzer al-Kassar, who was sentenced by a New York court in 2009 to 30 years in prison.
......DEA helped Colombian drug trafficker launder cash, new report revealed........
Undercover agents with the U.S. Drug Enforcement Agency, working with their Mexican counterparts, helped transfer millions of dollars in drug cash and even escorted a shipment of cocaine via Dallas to Spain. The covert activities were undertaken as part of an operation to infiltrate and prosecute a major Colombian-Mexican narco-trafficking organization moving cocaine from Colombia to Mexico and the United States.
The undercover operation, detailed in Mexican government documents obtained by the New York Times, first came to light via a Monday dispatch by Times reporter Ginger Thompson.
The documents "describe American counternarcotics agents, Mexican law enforcement officials and a Colombian informant working undercover together over several months in 2007," Thompson reported. "Together, they conducted numerous wire transfers of tens of thousands of dollars at a time, smuggled millions of dollars in bulk cash—and escorted at least one large shipment of cocaine from Ecuador to Dallas to Madrid."
The documents "show that in 2007 the authorities infiltrated" the operations of an accused major Colombian cocaine trafficker, named Harold Mauricio Poveda-Ortega, Thompson wrote. Poveda-Ortega, also known as the Rabbit, "was considered the principal cocaine supplier to the Mexican drug cartel leader Arturo Beltran Leyva."
Leyva was killed in 2008 in a shootout with Mexican naval forces. Poveda-Ortega was arrested in Mexico City in November 2010.
The Mexican government documents include testimony from a DEA special agent "who oversaw a covert money laundering investigation" into Poveda-Ortega, Thompson reported. The documents form part of the file supporting a Mexican Foreign Ministry extradition order for Poveda-Ortega from last May 2011.
Harold Mauricio Poveda-Ortega, a suspected Colombian cocaine trafficker, was arrested in Mexico in 2010. (El P …
Undercover agents with the U.S. Drug Enforcement Agency, working with their Mexican counterparts, helped transfer millions of dollars in drug cash and even escorted a shipment of cocaine via Dallas to Spain. The covert activities were undertaken as part of an operation to infiltrate and prosecute a major Colombian-Mexican narco-trafficking organization moving cocaine from Colombia to Mexico and the United States.
The undercover operation, detailed in Mexican government documents obtained by the New York Times, first came to light via a Monday dispatch by Times reporter Ginger Thompson.
The documents "describe American counternarcotics agents, Mexican law enforcement officials and a Colombian informant working undercover together over several months in 2007," Thompson reported. "Together, they conducted numerous wire transfers of tens of thousands of dollars at a time, smuggled millions of dollars in bulk cash—and escorted at least one large shipment of cocaine from Ecuador to Dallas to Madrid."
The documents "show that in 2007 the authorities infiltrated" the operations of an accused major Colombian cocaine trafficker, named Harold Mauricio Poveda-Ortega, Thompson wrote. Poveda-Ortega, also known as the Rabbit, "was considered the principal cocaine supplier to the Mexican drug cartel leader Arturo Beltran Leyva."
Leyva was killed in 2008 in a shootout with Mexican naval forces. Poveda-Ortega was arrested in Mexico City in November 2010.
The Mexican government documents include testimony from a DEA special agent "who oversaw a covert money laundering investigation" into Poveda-Ortega, Thompson reported. The documents form part of the file supporting a Mexican Foreign Ministry extradition order for Poveda-Ortega from last May 2011.
The United States, however, has declined to indicate whether Poveda-Ortega was extradited to the United States, Thompson writes. A Justice Department spokeswoman Laura Sweeney similarly told Yahoo News Monday that the department is "not in a position to comment on the specific matter."
The Drug Enforcement Agency defended the undercover operation in a written statement given to Thompson. "Transnational organized groups can be defeated only by transnational law enforcement cooperation," the agency wrote. "Such cooperation requires that law enforcement agencies — often from multiple countries — coordinate their activities, while at the same time always acting within their respective laws and authorities."
Former DEA agent Robert Mazur, who posed as a money launderer in a similar undercover DEA investigation targeting the banks supporting the Medellin drug cartel, said such undercover operations are necessary and legitimate. Covert drug stings are critical, he says, in lining up evidence to successfully prosecute the top command and control figures of organized crime cartels.
"This is a law enforcement technique that has been used for decades," Mazur told Yahoo News in a telephone interview Monday. "If we were to embrace the concept that these undercover money laundering operations shouldn't be conducted because in a small way, they for a brief period of time create a short term benefit for the criminal, we would be doing criminal organizations around the world the greatest favor they could get. We would be closing door to one of the most effective methods available to attack what law enforcement calls the command and control of these global organizations."
The organizations targeted in these intricate DEA stings "are not people selling dime bags of crack on the street, but people trying to create terrorists states around the world," continued Mazur (Mazur, who retired from the DEA in 1998, has recounted his experience infiltrating the BCCI bank accused of money laundering for the Colombian drug cartel, in a book, The Infiltrator.)
Mazur also disputed any comparison between the undercover DEA case exposed by the Times Monday and the recent controversy over "Fast and Furious," the Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco and Firearms (ATF) program that allegedly put guns in the hands of Mexican drug gangs.
"I would never agree in any circumstances say it's worthwhile to put 2,000 weapons in the hands of criminals," he said. "Each of these operations needs to be professionally managed and individually scrutinized. This one, from what I read, is very common place, and I don't see anything in there that disturbs me in the least."
Recent DEA undercover operations have led to the apprehension and successful prosecution of two major global arms traffickers, including the Russian-born, so-called "merchant of death" Viktor Bout, who was convicted in November on four counts of selling anti-aircraft guns and other weapons to Colombia's FARC rebels; and the Syrian-born "Prince of Marbella," Monzer al-Kassar, who was sentenced by a New York court in 2009 to 30 years in prison.
Happy Valentine's Day!!
"My Valentine"
Would you be my, My Valentine? Everything is so crystal clear, about 3, 4 years I bee with you. It's about to get real in here, cause there's no reason i shouldnt be one with you..... Would you be my valentine? Out of all of the girls in this world, I just wanna be with you.... I need you in my life forever, i'm talking about being my wife.....
This could be for eternity, such a rarity, a beautiful jewel i found. Thats why, i want you in my life here forever. so, ould you, would you be my valentine? Will you be ready when I ask you baby? If you love your woman and wanna keep her. show her that you love her and you really need her. Get down on one knee and show her that you really mean it when you say that you love her.......
And if you love your man, cherish him and treat him like you did way back in the beginning..... My Valentine!!
Would you be my, My Valentine? Everything is so crystal clear, about 3, 4 years I bee with you. It's about to get real in here, cause there's no reason i shouldnt be one with you..... Would you be my valentine? Out of all of the girls in this world, I just wanna be with you.... I need you in my life forever, i'm talking about being my wife.....
This could be for eternity, such a rarity, a beautiful jewel i found. Thats why, i want you in my life here forever. so, ould you, would you be my valentine? Will you be ready when I ask you baby? If you love your woman and wanna keep her. show her that you love her and you really need her. Get down on one knee and show her that you really mean it when you say that you love her.......
And if you love your man, cherish him and treat him like you did way back in the beginning..... My Valentine!!
True Love Never Dies
"TRUE LOVE never dies; It is LUST that fades away. LOVE bonds for a lifetime, but LUST just PUSHES away."
Foreplay & AfterPlay
We all heard of "foreplay" correct? How about "AFTERPLAY?" For those who do not know what AFTERPLAY is it describes whatever a couple may do after immediately following love making; most often cuddling, caressing and sharing intimate thoughts. What are your thoughts on "AFTERPLAY?"
How do you feel about ForePlay, AfterPlay? And what do you do to keep it at its best.......
The 3 Strike Rule?
How many times does it take for a person to commit infidelity for you to leave them alone permantley? Is once enough? What about the fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me quote? What about the "3" strikes rule??
I am interested in hearing all opinions and outlooks and experiences......
I am interested in hearing all opinions and outlooks and experiences......
Improving Your Sex Life
Ways to Improve Your Sex Life
A good sex life takes time and effort to maintain. Although every relationship goes through its sexual ups and downs along with work, bills and other daily stressors, it's easy to see how sex can slip off your relationship radar. Whatever your situation, you must remember that physical intimacy is an important part of maintaining a healthy relationship because it unites partners physically, emotionally and spiritually. So if you feel like you and your partner may be in a sexual rut, here are some key components needed to spark that awesome sex life you have always desired.
1. Create Passion
Men and women alike need to feel the passion and raw emotion that comes with incredible sexual experiences. But to keep the passion, you must be willing to put out the effort. Sex isn't a race, so take time to explore your partner and make sure that you are connecting on a more intimate level. Use anticipation as an aphrodisiac. Tell her what you want to do with each section of her exposed skin. Instead of tearing her clothes off, take your time, explore her body and use different types of foreplay. Take the time to explore and play with her body to find out what kind of touch sends her down the road into incredible sex.
2. Be Spontaneous
There is no limit to the number of ways to have sex, so use your imagination and come up with as many new positions as you desire. Don't be afraid to mix things up in bed. Furthermore, there is no rule that says that you have to have sex at 8:00pm every Wednesday--so, change up your normal routine. There is nothing that can turn a woman on more than taking sex out of the bedroom and into other areas, and simply changing locations can dramatically improve your love life.
The same old place leads to the same old patterns, so explore some new erogenous areas like the kitchen, living room, etc... Also, don't be afraid of new positions or trying out a new toy. To spice things up further, stepping out of the role of being "yourself" and role playing can be a fun way to give each other permission to behave differently. This may be awkward at first, but give it an honest try. You might just like it.
3. Be Open About Your Needs
After being in a relationship for a while you may think you know how to please your partner in every way, but this is rarely true. If you or your partner's needs aren't being met between the sheets, it's time to have a conversation about it. There is always something you haven't tried, and there is bound to be something one of you always does that could be done differently. Being open and honest with each other about your fantasies and desires can bring the passion to a whole new level. If you don't communicate, you'll never know or be able to get her "there."
4. Be Responsible
Practicing safe and responsible sex is also a key to happy sex life. Letting your partner know that you are prepared for the occasion, wherever it should arise, can also create the element of excitement and evoke thoughts of desire. This also shows that you love and respect your partner enough to make sure she stays healthy.
A good sex life takes time and effort to maintain. Although every relationship goes through its sexual ups and downs along with work, bills and other daily stressors, it's easy to see how sex can slip off your relationship radar. Whatever your situation, you must remember that physical intimacy is an important part of maintaining a healthy relationship because it unites partners physically, emotionally and spiritually. So if you feel like you and your partner may be in a sexual rut, here are some key components needed to spark that awesome sex life you have always desired.
1. Create Passion
Men and women alike need to feel the passion and raw emotion that comes with incredible sexual experiences. But to keep the passion, you must be willing to put out the effort. Sex isn't a race, so take time to explore your partner and make sure that you are connecting on a more intimate level. Use anticipation as an aphrodisiac. Tell her what you want to do with each section of her exposed skin. Instead of tearing her clothes off, take your time, explore her body and use different types of foreplay. Take the time to explore and play with her body to find out what kind of touch sends her down the road into incredible sex.
2. Be Spontaneous
There is no limit to the number of ways to have sex, so use your imagination and come up with as many new positions as you desire. Don't be afraid to mix things up in bed. Furthermore, there is no rule that says that you have to have sex at 8:00pm every Wednesday--so, change up your normal routine. There is nothing that can turn a woman on more than taking sex out of the bedroom and into other areas, and simply changing locations can dramatically improve your love life.
The same old place leads to the same old patterns, so explore some new erogenous areas like the kitchen, living room, etc... Also, don't be afraid of new positions or trying out a new toy. To spice things up further, stepping out of the role of being "yourself" and role playing can be a fun way to give each other permission to behave differently. This may be awkward at first, but give it an honest try. You might just like it.
3. Be Open About Your Needs
After being in a relationship for a while you may think you know how to please your partner in every way, but this is rarely true. If you or your partner's needs aren't being met between the sheets, it's time to have a conversation about it. There is always something you haven't tried, and there is bound to be something one of you always does that could be done differently. Being open and honest with each other about your fantasies and desires can bring the passion to a whole new level. If you don't communicate, you'll never know or be able to get her "there."
4. Be Responsible
Practicing safe and responsible sex is also a key to happy sex life. Letting your partner know that you are prepared for the occasion, wherever it should arise, can also create the element of excitement and evoke thoughts of desire. This also shows that you love and respect your partner enough to make sure she stays healthy.
5 Things That Women Get Insecure About
Everyone at one point or another has concerns or may feel insecure about something one day or another...... But here is 5 things that make a woman feel insecure.....
Things Women Are Insecure About
When it comes to dating, most women have a few insecurities and they tend to worry about very different things than men. Your actions can make a big difference on how secure she'll feel when she's with you. Here are 5 things women worry about when it comes to dating or being in a relationship.
1. She thinks you might not call her after a date
The first step to building a woman's trust is to following through with what you promise her. So if you say you are going to call her on Thursday, call her Thursday. If you say Friday, do it. If that's not your style, though, or you'd like to keep a little mystery, don't be definite about when you'll be calling. It's better than breaking a promise and at least she won't be waiting by the phone on a certain day.
2. She thinks you just want to have sex with her
It's a hard line to walk: If you make a move too soon, she'll think that's all you want. If you wait too long, she'll think you're just interested in her friendship. So the best way to work this is to just be sincere. If you are genuinely interested in pursuing a relationship with her, let her know. From there, she'll give you the signals to let you know when she's ready to get romantic with you.
3. She thinks you're dating other women
As long as you are honest about it, casually dating more than one woman at the same time is perfectly acceptable-- just don't lie about it. Keep in mind that once you both become intimate or the relationship turns serious, she might assume you are her's exclusively.
4. She thinks you're not that interested
At times, even the most confident woman sometimes needs a little reassurance that you're interested in her and that she still has it. You could let her know how special she is to you by complimenting her or sending her flowers. Find ways to make your woman feel special through a romantic gesture like calling her in the middle of the day for no reason at all. If you both have been in a relationship for a while, you need to work extra hard to reassure her that you still find her attractive. Flirting with other women in front of her can also make her feel insecure. Remember, when you're with her, devote all your attention to her.
5. She thinks you're cheating on her
If you haven't given her a reason to feel that you're cheating on her and she continues to accuse you of it, discuss the issue with her and let her know that you are committed and have no intention of straying. Believe it or not, lots of women have a lot of performance anxiety in the bedroom. If you're sex life is going well be sure to let her know it. If not, however, be sure to address the issue in the most sensitive manner possible.
Yes, the world of dating is harsh. But if you genuinely care about her, with a little foresight and sincerity, you can make her feel more secure about your relationship and about herself and boost her ego.
Things Women Are Insecure About
When it comes to dating, most women have a few insecurities and they tend to worry about very different things than men. Your actions can make a big difference on how secure she'll feel when she's with you. Here are 5 things women worry about when it comes to dating or being in a relationship.
1. She thinks you might not call her after a date
The first step to building a woman's trust is to following through with what you promise her. So if you say you are going to call her on Thursday, call her Thursday. If you say Friday, do it. If that's not your style, though, or you'd like to keep a little mystery, don't be definite about when you'll be calling. It's better than breaking a promise and at least she won't be waiting by the phone on a certain day.
2. She thinks you just want to have sex with her
It's a hard line to walk: If you make a move too soon, she'll think that's all you want. If you wait too long, she'll think you're just interested in her friendship. So the best way to work this is to just be sincere. If you are genuinely interested in pursuing a relationship with her, let her know. From there, she'll give you the signals to let you know when she's ready to get romantic with you.
3. She thinks you're dating other women
As long as you are honest about it, casually dating more than one woman at the same time is perfectly acceptable-- just don't lie about it. Keep in mind that once you both become intimate or the relationship turns serious, she might assume you are her's exclusively.
4. She thinks you're not that interested
At times, even the most confident woman sometimes needs a little reassurance that you're interested in her and that she still has it. You could let her know how special she is to you by complimenting her or sending her flowers. Find ways to make your woman feel special through a romantic gesture like calling her in the middle of the day for no reason at all. If you both have been in a relationship for a while, you need to work extra hard to reassure her that you still find her attractive. Flirting with other women in front of her can also make her feel insecure. Remember, when you're with her, devote all your attention to her.
5. She thinks you're cheating on her
If you haven't given her a reason to feel that you're cheating on her and she continues to accuse you of it, discuss the issue with her and let her know that you are committed and have no intention of straying. Believe it or not, lots of women have a lot of performance anxiety in the bedroom. If you're sex life is going well be sure to let her know it. If not, however, be sure to address the issue in the most sensitive manner possible.
Yes, the world of dating is harsh. But if you genuinely care about her, with a little foresight and sincerity, you can make her feel more secure about your relationship and about herself and boost her ego.
Sexy Things To Do With Your Man
Sexy Things To Do With Your Guy by Joe "J Rag" Rago
Sometimes we take our relationships for granted, even our relationship with that sexy, love of our life. To keep the spice in a relationship, it takes a little planning but the rewards lead to a better bond in all areas of your partnership.
Here are some passion-inducing, fun things to do with your guy:
Take a sexy dance class together. The tango is perfect. Yes, it hit its peak in popularity in the 1920’s and 1950‘s; but don’t let that scare you away. It’s the best kept secret. Our parent’s generation never told us about the tango because they think we’re too innocent to do it. It’s the dance of passion and nothing is more intimate than rubbing your body up against his. He’ll have to wait until you get home to act on it, and that will make him all the more passionate. Yum.
Stay in bed all morning. Clear your schedule in advance and make a date with your guy. Read, have breakfast, talk. You’ll never know what will happen next.
French kiss. Sometimes we forget to do it in our day to day lives. When he’s sitting on the couch, crawl into his lap wearing a sexy outfit, and start exploring his lips with yours. Keep going until you’re locked into the best French kiss you have ever given a guy. It’s surprising how fast things heat up with this simple kiss.
Put a perfumed love note in his computer bag before he goes to work. Make sure it’s pink so he’s reminded of how feminine you are and make sure the perfume is sexy. He’ll be thinking of you every time he smells the scent. He’ll work extra fast to get back to you extra early.
Plan a massage night. Only thing is, to get one you have to give one.
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Thursday, January 5, 2012
Sexy Things To Do For Your Guy
Sexy Things To Do With Your Guy, But just the same, as easily could pertain to the other way around. So just remember to always be concious when in a Relationship. It is very Gratifying to both Partners.....
Sometimes we take our relationships for granted, even our relationship with that sexy, love of our life. To keep the spice in a relationship, it takes a little planning but the rewards lead to a better bond in all areas of your partnership.
Here are some passion-inducing, fun things to do with your guy:
Take a sexy dance class together. The tango is perfect. Yes, it hit its peak in popularity in the 1920’s and 1950‘s; but don’t let that scare you away. It’s the best kept secret. Our parent’s generation never told us about the tango because they think we’re too innocent to do it. It’s the dance of passion and nothing is more intimate than rubbing your body up against his. He’ll have to wait until you get home to act on it, and that will make him all the more passionate. Yum.
Stay in bed all morning. Clear your schedule in advance and make a date with your guy. Read, have breakfast, talk. You’ll never know what will happen next.
French kiss. Sometimes we forget to do it in our day to day lives. When he’s sitting on the couch, crawl into his lap wearing a sexy outfit, and start exploring his lips with yours. Keep going until you’re locked into the best French kiss you have ever given a guy. It’s surprising how fast things heat up with this simple kiss.
Put a perfumed love note in his computer bag before he goes to work. Make sure it’s pink so he’s reminded of how feminine you are and make sure the perfume is sexy. He’ll be thinking of you every time he smells the scent. He’ll work extra fast to get back to you extra early.
Plan a massage night. Only thing is, to get one you have to give one.
Sometimes we take our relationships for granted, even our relationship with that sexy, love of our life. To keep the spice in a relationship, it takes a little planning but the rewards lead to a better bond in all areas of your partnership.
Here are some passion-inducing, fun things to do with your guy:
Take a sexy dance class together. The tango is perfect. Yes, it hit its peak in popularity in the 1920’s and 1950‘s; but don’t let that scare you away. It’s the best kept secret. Our parent’s generation never told us about the tango because they think we’re too innocent to do it. It’s the dance of passion and nothing is more intimate than rubbing your body up against his. He’ll have to wait until you get home to act on it, and that will make him all the more passionate. Yum.
Stay in bed all morning. Clear your schedule in advance and make a date with your guy. Read, have breakfast, talk. You’ll never know what will happen next.
French kiss. Sometimes we forget to do it in our day to day lives. When he’s sitting on the couch, crawl into his lap wearing a sexy outfit, and start exploring his lips with yours. Keep going until you’re locked into the best French kiss you have ever given a guy. It’s surprising how fast things heat up with this simple kiss.
Put a perfumed love note in his computer bag before he goes to work. Make sure it’s pink so he’s reminded of how feminine you are and make sure the perfume is sexy. He’ll be thinking of you every time he smells the scent. He’ll work extra fast to get back to you extra early.
Plan a massage night. Only thing is, to get one you have to give one.
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