"OnE GooD ReaSon"

Give me one good reason, why I should stay with you. Our love is like an hour glass and its running out of time. How could you go and do this to me, when you know its messing with my mind? I was there when you needed me, so why cant you see.... I know you say that you love me baby.... But, your friends. They come before me....

I cant explain, Ho all the pleasure it was one day, has all managed to turn into pain..... Love is out of season, then be on your way, cause my eyes are tired of crying, so what are we gonna do? Just please, give me one good reason, why I should still wait for you..... I am tired of trying to please you, when you dont, you just dont appreciate me......

"Ladies' Night" The Valentine's Special Event

Valentine's Day Tip:

Ladies!!, this Valentine's surprise him with a spa treatment - at home. Plan a night of a delicious take-home dinner; wine (or sparkling grapejuice); plus an apres-dinner massage in a warm, candle-lit room. Use slow circular motions w/warmed Sexual massage oil. He'll be putty in your hands. Happy Valentine's!!

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7 Tips For Getting Over An EX

Getting over your ex is rarely a quick and easy process, and it’s often complicated by all the things that the two of you still have in common, like friends, favorite hangouts, etc.. One of the toughest parts about trying to get over an ex is that your mind will hardly let you think about anything else...especially if you really liked the girl. It’s never easy, but if you follow these 7 tips for getting over your ex, you can forget the past, focus on your future and be back in the saddle in no time.


1. Avoid the places she hangs out at
Don't go to all your old favorite places or where she hangs out at. The whole point right now is getting over her, so visiting old places where you used to go will only remind you of her, not to mention her friends might be there and could certainly make you feel unwelcome. It’s a small price to pay for peace of mind.


2. Exercise and stay active
Exercising and staying active can create a better self-image, lead to more confidence and is scientifically proven to make people happier. Getting in shape is also a good way to boost your self-esteem, improve your mood and alleviate depression, and the distraction will help keep your mind off your recent breakup. And don’t forget: The gym is also a great place to meet new women.


3. Get rid of items that remind you of her
After a break up, it's important that you get rid of all the things that remind you of your ex as soon as possible because these little reminders can keep you trapped in the clutches of heartbreak. Throw away all of the Christmas and birthday gifts she gave you, photos of the two of you and love letters that she wrote you. The sooner you get all that junk out of your home the sooner you’ll get over her emotionally.


4. Hang out with your friends
Now that you’re single, this is the perfect time to reconnect with the buddies you left behind while you were in that committed relationship with a girlfriend who was always greedy for all of your attention. Not only will it be fun, but it will also be therapeutic because interacting with your people who care about you is one of the most effective forms of therapy.



5. Avoid contacting her
This is probably the most important thing you should do when getting over an ex, and as hard is may be go to without seeing and hearing from her, you're going to need to grit your teeth and struggle through it. Even if she gave you the old line about trying to stay friends, forget it. Don't call her, email her, text her or contact her in any way. If you work or go to school with her, try to avoid her whenever possible. Furthermore, avoid people who you know would share personal details of your conversations with them with your ex.


6. Remember the bad times with her
When you find yourself missing your ex in a weak moment, one of the best tricks to help you stick to your resolve is to make a list of all the reasons she was not the one for you. Write down what happened and how it made you feel, being clear about the things you never want to feel again. Then tell yourself, "This is the reality of what it was like with her, so why would I want to go back and torture myself again with this woman?"

7. Enjoy your newfound freedom
After a breakup, don't underestimate the importance of taking the time to learn more about yourself, how to recognize bad relationship signs, how you relate to others and the problems you need to work on. A breakup can signify a new beginning, so keep yourself busy and treat your breakup as if you just got out of jail. Exercise this newfound freedom by meeting new people or doing things that your ex didn't approve of (within reason).

Stay out until three in the morning, hop on a plane to Vegas with your best friend, or just sit on your couch and watch football all day. Take pleasure in all of those things that you couldn’t do as a boyfriend. Take the opportunity after a breakup to explore new interests and activities as you begin looking forward to finding the woman of your dreams.

Single Fathers and Dating

Single fathers and dating. Now, I personally wasn't so much craving for the attention of a Woman or companionship. I specifically was craving the want, love, passion, desire, romance and companionship of one woman, and one woman in particular. The Woman, was the mother of my son. That is the only person that I wanted in my life and wanted to give all of my love to.......

Most single fathers crave for the companionship of female company even more than single guys and having someone to share with, to laugh with, and to trust again. Although there's a void in your heart now that aches to be filled, prepare yourself and your kids before you become a dating single parent with the following steps:


1. Make taking care of yourself a priority
Doing this shows self-respect and it's a reflection of your personal boundaries.


2. Widen Your Circle of Friends
Make an effort to establish deeper friendships. Deeper relationships can enrich your life, and new friends will also introduce you to their friends, who might become great companions.


3. Get out of the house regularly
When your children are accustomed to your going out occasionally, and being a dating single parent won't seem like such a shock to them.


4. Be observant of relationships around you
As a dating single parent, you must pay attention to the relationships around you. Doing so can help you identify not only the type of woman you are looking for-but also the type of woman you're not.


5. Talk with your kids about dating
Take time to talk with your kids about your desire to date. Be honest with their questions and clue them in to your intentions. Make sure they know that you are looking for the right woman for you, not a replacement mother for your children.

"Telling Your Child That You've Met Someone"

"Telling Your Child That You have met Someone"



Meeting someone when you’re a single parent is tough, but telling your child that you have met a new woman can be even harder. Along with your child’s fear of being replaced, you’ll also have to deal with his/her fear of potentially having an evil stepmother. Such fears are, from an adult’s perspective, unfounded, but to your child, they are completely legitimate and need to be addressed. So, how do you tell your child that you’ve met someone? Here are some suggestions.

When it comes to single parents and dating, the best thing is to be honest with your children upfront. Being a single father, the best time to tell them that you have met a new woman would ideally be after sufficient time has passed and you feel that they’ve completely adjusted to you not being with their mother. During the conversation, ask your child how he/she feels about you dating as a single dad and the fact you’ve met a new woman. Telling your child how you actually met your new woman and some of her characteristics upfront will prepare your child and make it emotionally easier for the time when they do meet the new woman in your life.

Once you have their blessing, remember--the most important step for a single father dating again is to remind your child that he/she is, and will always be, the most important person in your life and that no woman is going to come into your life and take you away from them. Give them that respect and chances are they will be happy for you......

The Rules Of Bringing Food In To SeX

Sex & Relationships..The Perils (and Rules) of Mixing Food and Sex
.By: John Prester.In the movies, there's little sexier than a naked woman armed with a bottle of chocolate syrup and a come-hither smile. But in reality, mixing food with sex usually ends with an argument over who has to clean up the mess, hours of chafing, and a permanent antipathy for the edible in question.

It doesn't have to be that. By following a few simple rules, you can avoid the worst of the wurst. Or strawberries, or dripped honey, or Brussels sprouts...


Rule 1: Check on your partner's food allergies. You'd be surprised how easy it is to forget this the cardinal rule of sexual experimentation ("Thou shalt not do anything that causes one of you to swell up and die.") And remember that food allergies often include even inhaling the tiniest bit of a trigger substance, so rubbing but not ingesting isn't always an acceptable substitute.

Rule 2: Don't break out the fancy sheets. Or, if you're doing it in the living room, roll away the antique Persian rug. Or, if you insist on incorporating furniture into your sex play, cover the couch (or whatever) with a plastic sheet and throw a comfortable but inexpensive blanket over that. The ideal place to have food-based sex would be the bathtub, but many people have a problem with eating next to toilets. Go figure.

Rule 3: Make sure she's into it. For some reason, nothing wilts someone's sex drive like overcooked asparagus faster than some dude popping up suddenly at their front door with a goofy grin and a jar of chunky peanut butter.

Rule 4: Some foods are messier than others. Licking honey off each other sounds like a great idea on the way to the bedroom, but it doesn't enhance the post-coital glow if you're literally stuck to each other in sensitive places. And orange marmalade may really key in to your mutual Paddington Bear fetish, but you won't be singing a happy tune when you're digging bits of zest out of the headboard a week later. Plan as much for the clean-up as you are for the fun, if not more.

Rule 5: Some foods are sexier than others. You're not going to do much for anyone's libido with a jar of marinated mushrooms. (Unless you're a real freak, in which case, have at it!) In general, go with sweet over savory, and room temperature, cool or cold (but not frostbite cold) over, say, a steaming-hot pot roast. Leave anything that you'd normally eat with a fork and knife back in the dining room.

Rule No. 6: Have fun! I know, I know, every list of bullshit rules ends with "Have fun!" but this time I really mean it. Honest.
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Guys Tips to Stay Fresh

#Guy Tip: Keep your t-shirts looking fresh and new. Your t-shirts are doing double duty. They are a go-to casual item and look great under a formal shirt. Too often it's easy to overlook that they are turning yellow, fading, or stretching. A well dressed man is a sexy man.

Keeping The Excitement

Sometimes we all need a little help to keep our relationship fresh and exciting, even if we have found the love of our life. Daily routines and other demands on our time keep us running through the treadmill of life. Can keep you running in place and not even realizing how much time has gone by or how much time has really been lost. Before we know it, our relationship may be pushed to the back burner.


If this describes what has happened to your relationship, know that you are not alone. Even those of us in the best relationships need to keep finding ways to reconnect with our loved ones. Once you make it a goal to reconnect with your guy/girl, you will find it easier and easier to do every day. The trick is to get started. The rewards are immeasurable.


Here are some simple, but powerfully effective ideas to transform and revitalize your relationship.


1. Leave a thank you note on her pillow. Thank her for the delicious dinner she made that evening. Tell her how much you are looking forward to cuddling with her later. Tell her how much you loved talking with her over dinner.


2. Commit to spending time alone. Ask him out on a date once a week. Whether that is dinner out at your favorite restaurant; a walk through a nearby park; or a movie night in, the point is to have time alone to refresh your relationship. Turn off all cell phones and keep the focus on the two of you. Everyone needs time together without distractions to allow good conversation and other bonding to take place.


3. Go on an adventure. Do something you have never done before. Take horseback riding, scuba, or skating lessons. Go on a balloon ride (they are surprisingly exciting and calming at the same time). Adventures are the ultimate in bonding experiences. It gives you a feeling of team spirit; gives you something in common to talk about; and raises your endorphin levels.

Are You Dating A Cheater?

There is no such thing as a crystal ball when it comes to knowing whether or not your new guy (or girl) will cheat on you. However, there are some tell-tale signs that indicate (s)he is more likely to cheat than the average person.


Most cheaters are unlikely to sacrifice their wants to satisfy someone else's. If your guy doesn't see the value in respecting other people's wishes, he won't respect yours in the long run. Does he wait forever before he returns his friends calls, if he returns them at all? Is he constantly on the outs with any of his siblings? Are his co-workers all crazy and he is the only sane one in his office, according to him?


If your guy does not treat those around him well, you can bet he will start treating you the same way once the newness of your relationship fades. He disrespects those around him because he doesn't see the value of a good relationship. Loyalty is not his thing. And that makes him more likely to cheat.


Whenever your girl has a free moment (with or without you), she is on facebook or her blackberry checking messages. Checking her messages with you there is not only just plain rude, but it may also be an indication you are not enough for her. She may be craving constant reassurance from other people that she is popular and well-liked. Her need to feel wanted may be more important than staying loyal to you, so she could use cheating as a way to further satisfy her need.


If your guy is relentlessly doubting your feelings for him, often asking you to reassure him of your feelings, that is also a sign of trouble. It may seem flattering at first. Who doesn't love to be needed? But it could indicate he is low on self-esteem. Just like over-using social networking, needing continual reassurance from you has the same repercussions. He may use cheating as a way to get more reassurance that he is a desirable, great guy.


When it comes to dating, many people are looking for monogamous relationships and are honest in their intentions. However, if you are having doubts about the person you are dating, look for these subtle clues. They may help you avoid future heartache.

How To Argue With A Man & Get SomeWhere

It's hard to argue with anyone and guarantee a win. But there are ways to increase your chances of getting what you want if the person you are arguing with is a man, be it your boyfriend or spouse.




It's commonly said that men withdraw and shut out their partners when they are under stress. That's especially true if the stress comes from arguing with their spouses or girlfriends.




Now there is a study to prove this is the case. A study by USC researchers reveal that stressed men looking at angry faces had diminished activity in the areas of the brain responsible for empathy. In other words, men, under stress, have a hard time understanding others' feelings.

What does that mean for their partners? Women can't assume their spouse or boyfriend really understands how they are feeling at the time of the argument. That's hard for women to comprehend, because, according to the same study, women are the polar opposite. Under stress, women tend to have an increased ability to have empathy and understand another's feelings.

So what's a girl to do? As a Man, I can tell you, both sexes are completely different and as far as mind set and response and response time and emotion and emotional response. But, I can give you a little insight on how to have a conversation where the stress levels may get a little high or to even have an argument with a Man and feel like you are going to actually get somewhere..... So,Is she doomed whenever she gets into an argument with her partner? There are some steps she can take to increase the likelihood she'll be listened to better. We don't like feeling trapped, boxed in, or cornered with yelling and screaming, and constant badgering......

(Of course both genders have the obligation to argue in an adult, rational, responsible manner, so men can follow these guidelines too.)


Always argue in a respectful manner. If the person you are arguing with is your spouse or boyfriend, they are worth the effort. Remember how much you love your spouse or boyfriend no matter how annoyed you are at the moment by their viewpoint.

Keep your emotions in check. It sounds silly to say ... you're in an argument, you're angry, you're going to get emotional. True. But if you are crying or shouting, it's harder to state your case effectively. Give your spouse or boyfriend reasons why you believe your opinion is correct. Back up what you say with cold, hard facts. You will notice it's easier to stay calm if you do so. You are so busy thinking about the facts that will persuade him of your point, that you have less time to concentrate on your emotions.

Be proud of how you argue. Constantly remind yourself to behave in a manner that will make you proud of yourself.


If an agreement or compromise can't be made at the time of the argument, call a time out. Let each other have some time to de-stress and process what has been said. When you re-unite, you will probably be better able to understand each other's point of view.

Get Back To The Sexiness

Couples in long-term relationships often take each other for granted. Although our partners mean the world to us, sometimes we can get bogged down in the everyday pressures of life and may ignore their sexy side. How and why this happens can be a mystery to us. How can someone we thought to be the sexiest person walking on the face of the earth slowly turn into more of a friend than a lover?


Actually, this stage of a relationship is normal. When two people are in a long-term relationship, living life side by side and facing the challenges it brings, they are bound to become comfortable with each other. This level of comfort is a good thing. The trick is to keep (or get) the sexy back. Here's how:

Take a few moments every day to admire his body. Today, and everyday, spend a few moments a day appreciating his physical attributes. Does he have nice buns? Admire them. Give them a rub as you walk by him in the kitchen. Give them a quick kiss as he comes out of the shower. Are his eyes to die for? Shower them with gentle kisses. Spend a few moments looking into them in the morning before you get out of bed.

Give him a massage. Go over every inch of his body. He won't refuse your touch. Drizzle a seductive, gorgeous massage oil on his beautiful back, chest, manly arms, and sexy legs. He's all yours. Admire him. Use soft pressure in slow circular movements and he'll melt to your every wish. Your heart will feel the ultimate, warm connection with him as you rediscover what you have been overlooking lately.

Spontaneously put on your favorite, sexy music in the livingroom and invite him to dance with you so you can watch his body move. You can be guaranteed he'll be watching you too.


Does he love a good movie? Invite him out to dinner and a show so you can snuggle with him in the dark. Then kiss and embrace him in the theatre -- over and over again. You'll love it. He'll love you.


Remind yourself about his sexy personality. Is he reliable? Is he thoughtful of you? Is he kind towards you? Those attributes are sexy. Lucky you to have sexy him.

It's easy to ignore your partner's sexy side once you become life-long friends. But it's oh-so-fun to rediscover and indulge in it.

Happy Valentine's Day!!

"My Valentine"



Would you be my, My Valentine? Everything is so crystal clear, about 3, 4 years I bee with you. It's about to get real in here, cause there's no reason i shouldnt be one with you..... Would you be my valentine? Out of all of the girls in this world, I just wanna be with you.... I need you in my life forever, i'm talking about being my wife.....

This could be for eternity, such a rarity, a beautiful jewel i found. Thats why, i want you in my life here forever. so, ould you, would you be my valentine? Will you be ready when I ask you baby? If you love your woman and wanna keep her. show her that you love her and you really need her. Get down on one knee and show her that you really mean it when you say that you love her.......

And if you love your man, cherish him and treat him like you did way back in the beginning..... My Valentine!!

One On One

Tonight, i'm gonna do something a little different. I'm gonna get you out of the house, cause I know it's been a long week. It's time that we get out. I figure this might be something uou need. so let your hair down and jump in the shower and get ready. I made a reservation to the best place in town. so let's get ready. Put onj your best dress tonight. Put on those heels that I bought you.....

Check your coat and they walk us to our table, they're like, damn, who is she, you're like a star tonight, and you are shining bright...... Girl, I'm so proud to be here with you tonight.

Put on your best dress tonight, we're stepping out, it's all on me and dont you worry about a thing. all eyes are on you. it's time to have some fun, get us some wine, you and me doing that one on one. and we gonna have some fun tonight......

True Love Never Dies

"TRUE LOVE never dies; It is LUST that fades away. LOVE bonds for a lifetime, but LUST just PUSHES away."

Foreplay & AfterPlay

We all heard of "foreplay" correct? How about "AFTERPLAY?" For those who do not know what AFTERPLAY is it describes whatever a couple may do after immediately following love making; most often cuddling, caressing and sharing intimate thoughts. What are your thoughts on "AFTERPLAY?"


How do you feel about ForePlay, AfterPlay? And what do you do to keep it at its best.......

The 3 Strike Rule?

How many times does it take for a person to commit infidelity for you to leave them alone permantley? Is once enough? What about the fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me quote? What about the "3" strikes rule??


I am interested in hearing all opinions and outlooks and experiences......

Improving Your Sex Life

Ways to Improve Your Sex Life

A good sex life takes time and effort to maintain. Although every relationship goes through its sexual ups and downs along with work, bills and other daily stressors, it's easy to see how sex can slip off your relationship radar. Whatever your situation, you must remember that physical intimacy is an important part of maintaining a healthy relationship because it unites partners physically, emotionally and spiritually. So if you feel like you and your partner may be in a sexual rut, here are some key components needed to spark that awesome sex life you have always desired.


1. Create Passion
Men and women alike need to feel the passion and raw emotion that comes with incredible sexual experiences. But to keep the passion, you must be willing to put out the effort. Sex isn't a race, so take time to explore your partner and make sure that you are connecting on a more intimate level. Use anticipation as an aphrodisiac. Tell her what you want to do with each section of her exposed skin. Instead of tearing her clothes off, take your time, explore her body and use different types of foreplay. Take the time to explore and play with her body to find out what kind of touch sends her down the road into incredible sex.





2. Be Spontaneous
There is no limit to the number of ways to have sex, so use your imagination and come up with as many new positions as you desire. Don't be afraid to mix things up in bed. Furthermore, there is no rule that says that you have to have sex at 8:00pm every Wednesday--so, change up your normal routine. There is nothing that can turn a woman on more than taking sex out of the bedroom and into other areas, and simply changing locations can dramatically improve your love life.

The same old place leads to the same old patterns, so explore some new erogenous areas like the kitchen, living room, etc... Also, don't be afraid of new positions or trying out a new toy. To spice things up further, stepping out of the role of being "yourself" and role playing can be a fun way to give each other permission to behave differently. This may be awkward at first, but give it an honest try. You might just like it.




3. Be Open About Your Needs
After being in a relationship for a while you may think you know how to please your partner in every way, but this is rarely true. If you or your partner's needs aren't being met between the sheets, it's time to have a conversation about it. There is always something you haven't tried, and there is bound to be something one of you always does that could be done differently. Being open and honest with each other about your fantasies and desires can bring the passion to a whole new level. If you don't communicate, you'll never know or be able to get her "there."


4. Be Responsible
Practicing safe and responsible sex is also a key to happy sex life. Letting your partner know that you are prepared for the occasion, wherever it should arise, can also create the element of excitement and evoke thoughts of desire. This also shows that you love and respect your partner enough to make sure she stays healthy.

Meeting Her Friends

Meeting Her Friends

A woman’s friends have a huge impact on how she will perceive you. Most of her girlfriends will give you a fair shot, so it’s crucial that you stay on their good side.

It says a lot when your girlfriend wants to take you around her friends, so make a good impression. What she tells her girlfriends is very important to your relationship. One of the best ways to get your girlfriend's friends to like you is to engage in a good conversation. If her friends ask you a question, communicate clearly and make a good conversation out of it.

If you know you're meeting one or more of her friends for the first time, wearing something casual will make them feel comfortable around you. Even if she has a really attractive friend, don't stare. Remember, her friends are watching your every move, and while the girl you're starring at isn't looking, her other friends might be, and maybe even your girlfriend. Flirting with her friends is a sure way to get yourself dumped.

When you are around her friends, be very smitten to your girlfriend. They will love it. Doing things like paying for her food and complimenting her are things that can make a woman feel warm inside. Her friends will take notice and will have good things to say about you when you leave.

5 Things That Women Get Insecure About

Everyone at one point or another has concerns or may feel insecure about something one day or another...... But here is 5 things that make a woman feel insecure.....

Things Women Are Insecure About

When it comes to dating, most women have a few insecurities and they tend to worry about very different things than men. Your actions can make a big difference on how secure she'll feel when she's with you. Here are 5 things women worry about when it comes to dating or being in a relationship.


1. She thinks you might not call her after a date
The first step to building a woman's trust is to following through with what you promise her. So if you say you are going to call her on Thursday, call her Thursday. If you say Friday, do it. If that's not your style, though, or you'd like to keep a little mystery, don't be definite about when you'll be calling. It's better than breaking a promise and at least she won't be waiting by the phone on a certain day.


2. She thinks you just want to have sex with her
It's a hard line to walk: If you make a move too soon, she'll think that's all you want. If you wait too long, she'll think you're just interested in her friendship. So the best way to work this is to just be sincere. If you are genuinely interested in pursuing a relationship with her, let her know. From there, she'll give you the signals to let you know when she's ready to get romantic with you.


3. She thinks you're dating other women
As long as you are honest about it, casually dating more than one woman at the same time is perfectly acceptable-- just don't lie about it. Keep in mind that once you both become intimate or the relationship turns serious, she might assume you are her's exclusively.


4. She thinks you're not that interested
At times, even the most confident woman sometimes needs a little reassurance that you're interested in her and that she still has it. You could let her know how special she is to you by complimenting her or sending her flowers. Find ways to make your woman feel special through a romantic gesture like calling her in the middle of the day for no reason at all. If you both have been in a relationship for a while, you need to work extra hard to reassure her that you still find her attractive. Flirting with other women in front of her can also make her feel insecure. Remember, when you're with her, devote all your attention to her.


5. She thinks you're cheating on her
If you haven't given her a reason to feel that you're cheating on her and she continues to accuse you of it, discuss the issue with her and let her know that you are committed and have no intention of straying. Believe it or not, lots of women have a lot of performance anxiety in the bedroom. If you're sex life is going well be sure to let her know it. If not, however, be sure to address the issue in the most sensitive manner possible.

Yes, the world of dating is harsh. But if you genuinely care about her, with a little foresight and sincerity, you can make her feel more secure about your relationship and about herself and boost her ego.

Dealing With An Alpha Female

The alpha female has a great ability to make men chase her. The alpha female's talents are special, and consequently, chasing her could be your biggest dating challenge ever.

The alpha female is a dominant and assertive woman and a natural leader. Achievement is the focus of her life and most relationships are secondary. She is intelligent, driven, physically fit, and confident. The alpha female is a woman who is on top of her dating game and can smell fear in a man. She practices making herself look good and doesn't make it easy for you to pick her up.

The alpha female is a busy woman, or at least she is very good at making you believe that she is. She likes to have you at her beck and call and wants you to work around her schedule. The alpha female is used to having men pursue her and give in to her every demand and always has several men on the go, keeping her options open.

On dates with an alpha female, don't be surprised if roses and candy don't impress her. An alpha female's expectations are higher than most women, so you will have to be a little more original to get her attention. You never know what she will say, so be ready for verbal altercations. You normally don't have to worry about who should pay for a date with this type of woman. She will usually go dutch because in her mind, if you never treat her, she'll never owe you anything. An alpha female might not call you back very often and she may date other men, but if she decides that she wants you, she will show you strong signs that she is interested to encourage you to keep pursuing her.