Capricorns are always after newness and novelty in the bedroom and detests sameness. You do not particularly like being submissive in the bedroom, but you find that sex is something they want done right, and wants a lover who can take them to great sexual heights...
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Tuesday, April 7, 2015
"Don't Miss Out On Exectly What You Been Looking For"
"Sometimes People aren't ready to be in a relationship because they are not in a place in their life where they feel they are ready to give someone all of the time, attention, and love that the person needs or deserves.
It doesn't always have to be something wrong. Like there's gotta be something wrong because on paper everything seems too right. Or because there's someone else they are still stuck on...
Maybe up until now, maybe this person just wanted to be honest with themself, which is being honest to you as well. And when you get to that point where you know what you want. Fight for what you want. Stand up for what you want...
If not it will slip right through your hands and into someone else's... You just may miss out on exactly what you always wanted by letting it get away from you....
And if you let it go without ever giving it a chance then you gotta face living with regret..."
~ J Rag
It doesn't always have to be something wrong. Like there's gotta be something wrong because on paper everything seems too right. Or because there's someone else they are still stuck on...
Maybe up until now, maybe this person just wanted to be honest with themself, which is being honest to you as well. And when you get to that point where you know what you want. Fight for what you want. Stand up for what you want...
If not it will slip right through your hands and into someone else's... You just may miss out on exactly what you always wanted by letting it get away from you....
And if you let it go without ever giving it a chance then you gotta face living with regret..."
~ J Rag
Monday, April 23, 2012
Keep it Grown & Sexy
There should never be a time, where its not ok to Keep It Sexy.... Keep that shit hot between you and your girl.... Always!! Tonight when you get home from work, steal a moment of sexiness with your Dude. Or Girl for that matter...... Throw him up against the wall and kiss him forcefully..... Let your lips explore do the Talkin' & Walkin'....... You decide where and for how long.........
Tomorrow morning, call him/her from the shower & ask him/her to grab you a towel. (S)he'll love what (s)he sees as you stand with beads of water streaming down your body. You may have to be late for work.......
Tonight, spontaneously invite him out for dinner. Wear your sexiest outfit with nothing underneath. During dinner, seductively smile, whispering your secret to him. He'll love being your guy....
Take excitement to the max. Strip the duvet off your bed, lay it on the living room floor or in front of the fireplace. When (s)he comes home, be ready wearing only your fragrance & a fluffy blanket.....
Tomorrow morning, call him/her from the shower & ask him/her to grab you a towel. (S)he'll love what (s)he sees as you stand with beads of water streaming down your body. You may have to be late for work.......
Tonight, spontaneously invite him out for dinner. Wear your sexiest outfit with nothing underneath. During dinner, seductively smile, whispering your secret to him. He'll love being your guy....
Take excitement to the max. Strip the duvet off your bed, lay it on the living room floor or in front of the fireplace. When (s)he comes home, be ready wearing only your fragrance & a fluffy blanket.....
Saturday, April 21, 2012
To The Next Level
Take excitement to the max. Strip the duvet off your bed, lay it on the living room floor or in front of the fireplace. When (s)he comes home, be ready wearing only your fragrance & a fluffy blanket.......
Tuesday, January 31, 2012
7 Tips For Getting Over An EX
Getting over your ex is rarely a quick and easy process, and it’s often complicated by all the things that the two of you still have in common, like friends, favorite hangouts, etc.. One of the toughest parts about trying to get over an ex is that your mind will hardly let you think about anything else...especially if you really liked the girl. It’s never easy, but if you follow these 7 tips for getting over your ex, you can forget the past, focus on your future and be back in the saddle in no time.
1. Avoid the places she hangs out at
Don't go to all your old favorite places or where she hangs out at. The whole point right now is getting over her, so visiting old places where you used to go will only remind you of her, not to mention her friends might be there and could certainly make you feel unwelcome. It’s a small price to pay for peace of mind.
2. Exercise and stay active
Exercising and staying active can create a better self-image, lead to more confidence and is scientifically proven to make people happier. Getting in shape is also a good way to boost your self-esteem, improve your mood and alleviate depression, and the distraction will help keep your mind off your recent breakup. And don’t forget: The gym is also a great place to meet new women.
3. Get rid of items that remind you of her
After a break up, it's important that you get rid of all the things that remind you of your ex as soon as possible because these little reminders can keep you trapped in the clutches of heartbreak. Throw away all of the Christmas and birthday gifts she gave you, photos of the two of you and love letters that she wrote you. The sooner you get all that junk out of your home the sooner you’ll get over her emotionally.
4. Hang out with your friends
Now that you’re single, this is the perfect time to reconnect with the buddies you left behind while you were in that committed relationship with a girlfriend who was always greedy for all of your attention. Not only will it be fun, but it will also be therapeutic because interacting with your people who care about you is one of the most effective forms of therapy.
5. Avoid contacting her
This is probably the most important thing you should do when getting over an ex, and as hard is may be go to without seeing and hearing from her, you're going to need to grit your teeth and struggle through it. Even if she gave you the old line about trying to stay friends, forget it. Don't call her, email her, text her or contact her in any way. If you work or go to school with her, try to avoid her whenever possible. Furthermore, avoid people who you know would share personal details of your conversations with them with your ex.
6. Remember the bad times with her
When you find yourself missing your ex in a weak moment, one of the best tricks to help you stick to your resolve is to make a list of all the reasons she was not the one for you. Write down what happened and how it made you feel, being clear about the things you never want to feel again. Then tell yourself, "This is the reality of what it was like with her, so why would I want to go back and torture myself again with this woman?"
7. Enjoy your newfound freedom
After a breakup, don't underestimate the importance of taking the time to learn more about yourself, how to recognize bad relationship signs, how you relate to others and the problems you need to work on. A breakup can signify a new beginning, so keep yourself busy and treat your breakup as if you just got out of jail. Exercise this newfound freedom by meeting new people or doing things that your ex didn't approve of (within reason).
Stay out until three in the morning, hop on a plane to Vegas with your best friend, or just sit on your couch and watch football all day. Take pleasure in all of those things that you couldn’t do as a boyfriend. Take the opportunity after a breakup to explore new interests and activities as you begin looking forward to finding the woman of your dreams.
1. Avoid the places she hangs out at
Don't go to all your old favorite places or where she hangs out at. The whole point right now is getting over her, so visiting old places where you used to go will only remind you of her, not to mention her friends might be there and could certainly make you feel unwelcome. It’s a small price to pay for peace of mind.
2. Exercise and stay active
Exercising and staying active can create a better self-image, lead to more confidence and is scientifically proven to make people happier. Getting in shape is also a good way to boost your self-esteem, improve your mood and alleviate depression, and the distraction will help keep your mind off your recent breakup. And don’t forget: The gym is also a great place to meet new women.
3. Get rid of items that remind you of her
After a break up, it's important that you get rid of all the things that remind you of your ex as soon as possible because these little reminders can keep you trapped in the clutches of heartbreak. Throw away all of the Christmas and birthday gifts she gave you, photos of the two of you and love letters that she wrote you. The sooner you get all that junk out of your home the sooner you’ll get over her emotionally.
4. Hang out with your friends
Now that you’re single, this is the perfect time to reconnect with the buddies you left behind while you were in that committed relationship with a girlfriend who was always greedy for all of your attention. Not only will it be fun, but it will also be therapeutic because interacting with your people who care about you is one of the most effective forms of therapy.
5. Avoid contacting her
This is probably the most important thing you should do when getting over an ex, and as hard is may be go to without seeing and hearing from her, you're going to need to grit your teeth and struggle through it. Even if she gave you the old line about trying to stay friends, forget it. Don't call her, email her, text her or contact her in any way. If you work or go to school with her, try to avoid her whenever possible. Furthermore, avoid people who you know would share personal details of your conversations with them with your ex.
6. Remember the bad times with her
When you find yourself missing your ex in a weak moment, one of the best tricks to help you stick to your resolve is to make a list of all the reasons she was not the one for you. Write down what happened and how it made you feel, being clear about the things you never want to feel again. Then tell yourself, "This is the reality of what it was like with her, so why would I want to go back and torture myself again with this woman?"
7. Enjoy your newfound freedom
After a breakup, don't underestimate the importance of taking the time to learn more about yourself, how to recognize bad relationship signs, how you relate to others and the problems you need to work on. A breakup can signify a new beginning, so keep yourself busy and treat your breakup as if you just got out of jail. Exercise this newfound freedom by meeting new people or doing things that your ex didn't approve of (within reason).
Stay out until three in the morning, hop on a plane to Vegas with your best friend, or just sit on your couch and watch football all day. Take pleasure in all of those things that you couldn’t do as a boyfriend. Take the opportunity after a breakup to explore new interests and activities as you begin looking forward to finding the woman of your dreams.
"Telling Your Child That You've Met Someone"
"Telling Your Child That You have met Someone"
Meeting someone when you’re a single parent is tough, but telling your child that you have met a new woman can be even harder. Along with your child’s fear of being replaced, you’ll also have to deal with his/her fear of potentially having an evil stepmother. Such fears are, from an adult’s perspective, unfounded, but to your child, they are completely legitimate and need to be addressed. So, how do you tell your child that you’ve met someone? Here are some suggestions.
When it comes to single parents and dating, the best thing is to be honest with your children upfront. Being a single father, the best time to tell them that you have met a new woman would ideally be after sufficient time has passed and you feel that they’ve completely adjusted to you not being with their mother. During the conversation, ask your child how he/she feels about you dating as a single dad and the fact you’ve met a new woman. Telling your child how you actually met your new woman and some of her characteristics upfront will prepare your child and make it emotionally easier for the time when they do meet the new woman in your life.
Once you have their blessing, remember--the most important step for a single father dating again is to remind your child that he/she is, and will always be, the most important person in your life and that no woman is going to come into your life and take you away from them. Give them that respect and chances are they will be happy for you......
Meeting someone when you’re a single parent is tough, but telling your child that you have met a new woman can be even harder. Along with your child’s fear of being replaced, you’ll also have to deal with his/her fear of potentially having an evil stepmother. Such fears are, from an adult’s perspective, unfounded, but to your child, they are completely legitimate and need to be addressed. So, how do you tell your child that you’ve met someone? Here are some suggestions.
When it comes to single parents and dating, the best thing is to be honest with your children upfront. Being a single father, the best time to tell them that you have met a new woman would ideally be after sufficient time has passed and you feel that they’ve completely adjusted to you not being with their mother. During the conversation, ask your child how he/she feels about you dating as a single dad and the fact you’ve met a new woman. Telling your child how you actually met your new woman and some of her characteristics upfront will prepare your child and make it emotionally easier for the time when they do meet the new woman in your life.
Once you have their blessing, remember--the most important step for a single father dating again is to remind your child that he/she is, and will always be, the most important person in your life and that no woman is going to come into your life and take you away from them. Give them that respect and chances are they will be happy for you......
The Rules Of Bringing Food In To SeX
Sex & Relationships..The Perils (and Rules) of Mixing Food and Sex
.By: John Prester.In the movies, there's little sexier than a naked woman armed with a bottle of chocolate syrup and a come-hither smile. But in reality, mixing food with sex usually ends with an argument over who has to clean up the mess, hours of chafing, and a permanent antipathy for the edible in question.
It doesn't have to be that. By following a few simple rules, you can avoid the worst of the wurst. Or strawberries, or dripped honey, or Brussels sprouts...
Rule 1: Check on your partner's food allergies. You'd be surprised how easy it is to forget this the cardinal rule of sexual experimentation ("Thou shalt not do anything that causes one of you to swell up and die.") And remember that food allergies often include even inhaling the tiniest bit of a trigger substance, so rubbing but not ingesting isn't always an acceptable substitute.
Rule 2: Don't break out the fancy sheets. Or, if you're doing it in the living room, roll away the antique Persian rug. Or, if you insist on incorporating furniture into your sex play, cover the couch (or whatever) with a plastic sheet and throw a comfortable but inexpensive blanket over that. The ideal place to have food-based sex would be the bathtub, but many people have a problem with eating next to toilets. Go figure.
Rule 3: Make sure she's into it. For some reason, nothing wilts someone's sex drive like overcooked asparagus faster than some dude popping up suddenly at their front door with a goofy grin and a jar of chunky peanut butter.
Rule 4: Some foods are messier than others. Licking honey off each other sounds like a great idea on the way to the bedroom, but it doesn't enhance the post-coital glow if you're literally stuck to each other in sensitive places. And orange marmalade may really key in to your mutual Paddington Bear fetish, but you won't be singing a happy tune when you're digging bits of zest out of the headboard a week later. Plan as much for the clean-up as you are for the fun, if not more.
Rule 5: Some foods are sexier than others. You're not going to do much for anyone's libido with a jar of marinated mushrooms. (Unless you're a real freak, in which case, have at it!) In general, go with sweet over savory, and room temperature, cool or cold (but not frostbite cold) over, say, a steaming-hot pot roast. Leave anything that you'd normally eat with a fork and knife back in the dining room.
Rule No. 6: Have fun! I know, I know, every list of bullshit rules ends with "Have fun!" but this time I really mean it. Honest.
......
.By: John Prester.In the movies, there's little sexier than a naked woman armed with a bottle of chocolate syrup and a come-hither smile. But in reality, mixing food with sex usually ends with an argument over who has to clean up the mess, hours of chafing, and a permanent antipathy for the edible in question.
It doesn't have to be that. By following a few simple rules, you can avoid the worst of the wurst. Or strawberries, or dripped honey, or Brussels sprouts...
Rule 1: Check on your partner's food allergies. You'd be surprised how easy it is to forget this the cardinal rule of sexual experimentation ("Thou shalt not do anything that causes one of you to swell up and die.") And remember that food allergies often include even inhaling the tiniest bit of a trigger substance, so rubbing but not ingesting isn't always an acceptable substitute.
Rule 2: Don't break out the fancy sheets. Or, if you're doing it in the living room, roll away the antique Persian rug. Or, if you insist on incorporating furniture into your sex play, cover the couch (or whatever) with a plastic sheet and throw a comfortable but inexpensive blanket over that. The ideal place to have food-based sex would be the bathtub, but many people have a problem with eating next to toilets. Go figure.
Rule 3: Make sure she's into it. For some reason, nothing wilts someone's sex drive like overcooked asparagus faster than some dude popping up suddenly at their front door with a goofy grin and a jar of chunky peanut butter.
Rule 4: Some foods are messier than others. Licking honey off each other sounds like a great idea on the way to the bedroom, but it doesn't enhance the post-coital glow if you're literally stuck to each other in sensitive places. And orange marmalade may really key in to your mutual Paddington Bear fetish, but you won't be singing a happy tune when you're digging bits of zest out of the headboard a week later. Plan as much for the clean-up as you are for the fun, if not more.
Rule 5: Some foods are sexier than others. You're not going to do much for anyone's libido with a jar of marinated mushrooms. (Unless you're a real freak, in which case, have at it!) In general, go with sweet over savory, and room temperature, cool or cold (but not frostbite cold) over, say, a steaming-hot pot roast. Leave anything that you'd normally eat with a fork and knife back in the dining room.
Rule No. 6: Have fun! I know, I know, every list of bullshit rules ends with "Have fun!" but this time I really mean it. Honest.
......
Saturday, January 28, 2012
"It's All About You"
It's all about you tonight. lay down and let me rub your back. its your time girl, to be pampered. the oils are out now, and they're warmed up for you..... It's all about you tonight!!
Thursday, January 26, 2012
Guys Tips to Stay Fresh
#Guy Tip: Keep your t-shirts looking fresh and new. Your t-shirts are doing double duty. They are a go-to casual item and look great under a formal shirt. Too often it's easy to overlook that they are turning yellow, fading, or stretching. A well dressed man is a sexy man.
Monday, January 9, 2012
True Love Never Dies
"TRUE LOVE never dies; It is LUST that fades away. LOVE bonds for a lifetime, but LUST just PUSHES away."
Foreplay & AfterPlay
We all heard of "foreplay" correct? How about "AFTERPLAY?" For those who do not know what AFTERPLAY is it describes whatever a couple may do after immediately following love making; most often cuddling, caressing and sharing intimate thoughts. What are your thoughts on "AFTERPLAY?"
How do you feel about ForePlay, AfterPlay? And what do you do to keep it at its best.......
Improving Your Sex Life
Ways to Improve Your Sex Life
A good sex life takes time and effort to maintain. Although every relationship goes through its sexual ups and downs along with work, bills and other daily stressors, it's easy to see how sex can slip off your relationship radar. Whatever your situation, you must remember that physical intimacy is an important part of maintaining a healthy relationship because it unites partners physically, emotionally and spiritually. So if you feel like you and your partner may be in a sexual rut, here are some key components needed to spark that awesome sex life you have always desired.
1. Create Passion
Men and women alike need to feel the passion and raw emotion that comes with incredible sexual experiences. But to keep the passion, you must be willing to put out the effort. Sex isn't a race, so take time to explore your partner and make sure that you are connecting on a more intimate level. Use anticipation as an aphrodisiac. Tell her what you want to do with each section of her exposed skin. Instead of tearing her clothes off, take your time, explore her body and use different types of foreplay. Take the time to explore and play with her body to find out what kind of touch sends her down the road into incredible sex.
2. Be Spontaneous
There is no limit to the number of ways to have sex, so use your imagination and come up with as many new positions as you desire. Don't be afraid to mix things up in bed. Furthermore, there is no rule that says that you have to have sex at 8:00pm every Wednesday--so, change up your normal routine. There is nothing that can turn a woman on more than taking sex out of the bedroom and into other areas, and simply changing locations can dramatically improve your love life.
The same old place leads to the same old patterns, so explore some new erogenous areas like the kitchen, living room, etc... Also, don't be afraid of new positions or trying out a new toy. To spice things up further, stepping out of the role of being "yourself" and role playing can be a fun way to give each other permission to behave differently. This may be awkward at first, but give it an honest try. You might just like it.
3. Be Open About Your Needs
After being in a relationship for a while you may think you know how to please your partner in every way, but this is rarely true. If you or your partner's needs aren't being met between the sheets, it's time to have a conversation about it. There is always something you haven't tried, and there is bound to be something one of you always does that could be done differently. Being open and honest with each other about your fantasies and desires can bring the passion to a whole new level. If you don't communicate, you'll never know or be able to get her "there."
4. Be Responsible
Practicing safe and responsible sex is also a key to happy sex life. Letting your partner know that you are prepared for the occasion, wherever it should arise, can also create the element of excitement and evoke thoughts of desire. This also shows that you love and respect your partner enough to make sure she stays healthy.
A good sex life takes time and effort to maintain. Although every relationship goes through its sexual ups and downs along with work, bills and other daily stressors, it's easy to see how sex can slip off your relationship radar. Whatever your situation, you must remember that physical intimacy is an important part of maintaining a healthy relationship because it unites partners physically, emotionally and spiritually. So if you feel like you and your partner may be in a sexual rut, here are some key components needed to spark that awesome sex life you have always desired.
1. Create Passion
Men and women alike need to feel the passion and raw emotion that comes with incredible sexual experiences. But to keep the passion, you must be willing to put out the effort. Sex isn't a race, so take time to explore your partner and make sure that you are connecting on a more intimate level. Use anticipation as an aphrodisiac. Tell her what you want to do with each section of her exposed skin. Instead of tearing her clothes off, take your time, explore her body and use different types of foreplay. Take the time to explore and play with her body to find out what kind of touch sends her down the road into incredible sex.
2. Be Spontaneous
There is no limit to the number of ways to have sex, so use your imagination and come up with as many new positions as you desire. Don't be afraid to mix things up in bed. Furthermore, there is no rule that says that you have to have sex at 8:00pm every Wednesday--so, change up your normal routine. There is nothing that can turn a woman on more than taking sex out of the bedroom and into other areas, and simply changing locations can dramatically improve your love life.
The same old place leads to the same old patterns, so explore some new erogenous areas like the kitchen, living room, etc... Also, don't be afraid of new positions or trying out a new toy. To spice things up further, stepping out of the role of being "yourself" and role playing can be a fun way to give each other permission to behave differently. This may be awkward at first, but give it an honest try. You might just like it.
3. Be Open About Your Needs
After being in a relationship for a while you may think you know how to please your partner in every way, but this is rarely true. If you or your partner's needs aren't being met between the sheets, it's time to have a conversation about it. There is always something you haven't tried, and there is bound to be something one of you always does that could be done differently. Being open and honest with each other about your fantasies and desires can bring the passion to a whole new level. If you don't communicate, you'll never know or be able to get her "there."
4. Be Responsible
Practicing safe and responsible sex is also a key to happy sex life. Letting your partner know that you are prepared for the occasion, wherever it should arise, can also create the element of excitement and evoke thoughts of desire. This also shows that you love and respect your partner enough to make sure she stays healthy.
Meeting Her Friends
Meeting Her Friends
A woman’s friends have a huge impact on how she will perceive you. Most of her girlfriends will give you a fair shot, so it’s crucial that you stay on their good side.
It says a lot when your girlfriend wants to take you around her friends, so make a good impression. What she tells her girlfriends is very important to your relationship. One of the best ways to get your girlfriend's friends to like you is to engage in a good conversation. If her friends ask you a question, communicate clearly and make a good conversation out of it.
If you know you're meeting one or more of her friends for the first time, wearing something casual will make them feel comfortable around you. Even if she has a really attractive friend, don't stare. Remember, her friends are watching your every move, and while the girl you're starring at isn't looking, her other friends might be, and maybe even your girlfriend. Flirting with her friends is a sure way to get yourself dumped.
When you are around her friends, be very smitten to your girlfriend. They will love it. Doing things like paying for her food and complimenting her are things that can make a woman feel warm inside. Her friends will take notice and will have good things to say about you when you leave.
A woman’s friends have a huge impact on how she will perceive you. Most of her girlfriends will give you a fair shot, so it’s crucial that you stay on their good side.
It says a lot when your girlfriend wants to take you around her friends, so make a good impression. What she tells her girlfriends is very important to your relationship. One of the best ways to get your girlfriend's friends to like you is to engage in a good conversation. If her friends ask you a question, communicate clearly and make a good conversation out of it.
If you know you're meeting one or more of her friends for the first time, wearing something casual will make them feel comfortable around you. Even if she has a really attractive friend, don't stare. Remember, her friends are watching your every move, and while the girl you're starring at isn't looking, her other friends might be, and maybe even your girlfriend. Flirting with her friends is a sure way to get yourself dumped.
When you are around her friends, be very smitten to your girlfriend. They will love it. Doing things like paying for her food and complimenting her are things that can make a woman feel warm inside. Her friends will take notice and will have good things to say about you when you leave.
5 Things That Women Get Insecure About
Everyone at one point or another has concerns or may feel insecure about something one day or another...... But here is 5 things that make a woman feel insecure.....
Things Women Are Insecure About
When it comes to dating, most women have a few insecurities and they tend to worry about very different things than men. Your actions can make a big difference on how secure she'll feel when she's with you. Here are 5 things women worry about when it comes to dating or being in a relationship.
1. She thinks you might not call her after a date
The first step to building a woman's trust is to following through with what you promise her. So if you say you are going to call her on Thursday, call her Thursday. If you say Friday, do it. If that's not your style, though, or you'd like to keep a little mystery, don't be definite about when you'll be calling. It's better than breaking a promise and at least she won't be waiting by the phone on a certain day.
2. She thinks you just want to have sex with her
It's a hard line to walk: If you make a move too soon, she'll think that's all you want. If you wait too long, she'll think you're just interested in her friendship. So the best way to work this is to just be sincere. If you are genuinely interested in pursuing a relationship with her, let her know. From there, she'll give you the signals to let you know when she's ready to get romantic with you.
3. She thinks you're dating other women
As long as you are honest about it, casually dating more than one woman at the same time is perfectly acceptable-- just don't lie about it. Keep in mind that once you both become intimate or the relationship turns serious, she might assume you are her's exclusively.
4. She thinks you're not that interested
At times, even the most confident woman sometimes needs a little reassurance that you're interested in her and that she still has it. You could let her know how special she is to you by complimenting her or sending her flowers. Find ways to make your woman feel special through a romantic gesture like calling her in the middle of the day for no reason at all. If you both have been in a relationship for a while, you need to work extra hard to reassure her that you still find her attractive. Flirting with other women in front of her can also make her feel insecure. Remember, when you're with her, devote all your attention to her.
5. She thinks you're cheating on her
If you haven't given her a reason to feel that you're cheating on her and she continues to accuse you of it, discuss the issue with her and let her know that you are committed and have no intention of straying. Believe it or not, lots of women have a lot of performance anxiety in the bedroom. If you're sex life is going well be sure to let her know it. If not, however, be sure to address the issue in the most sensitive manner possible.
Yes, the world of dating is harsh. But if you genuinely care about her, with a little foresight and sincerity, you can make her feel more secure about your relationship and about herself and boost her ego.
Things Women Are Insecure About
When it comes to dating, most women have a few insecurities and they tend to worry about very different things than men. Your actions can make a big difference on how secure she'll feel when she's with you. Here are 5 things women worry about when it comes to dating or being in a relationship.
1. She thinks you might not call her after a date
The first step to building a woman's trust is to following through with what you promise her. So if you say you are going to call her on Thursday, call her Thursday. If you say Friday, do it. If that's not your style, though, or you'd like to keep a little mystery, don't be definite about when you'll be calling. It's better than breaking a promise and at least she won't be waiting by the phone on a certain day.
2. She thinks you just want to have sex with her
It's a hard line to walk: If you make a move too soon, she'll think that's all you want. If you wait too long, she'll think you're just interested in her friendship. So the best way to work this is to just be sincere. If you are genuinely interested in pursuing a relationship with her, let her know. From there, she'll give you the signals to let you know when she's ready to get romantic with you.
3. She thinks you're dating other women
As long as you are honest about it, casually dating more than one woman at the same time is perfectly acceptable-- just don't lie about it. Keep in mind that once you both become intimate or the relationship turns serious, she might assume you are her's exclusively.
4. She thinks you're not that interested
At times, even the most confident woman sometimes needs a little reassurance that you're interested in her and that she still has it. You could let her know how special she is to you by complimenting her or sending her flowers. Find ways to make your woman feel special through a romantic gesture like calling her in the middle of the day for no reason at all. If you both have been in a relationship for a while, you need to work extra hard to reassure her that you still find her attractive. Flirting with other women in front of her can also make her feel insecure. Remember, when you're with her, devote all your attention to her.
5. She thinks you're cheating on her
If you haven't given her a reason to feel that you're cheating on her and she continues to accuse you of it, discuss the issue with her and let her know that you are committed and have no intention of straying. Believe it or not, lots of women have a lot of performance anxiety in the bedroom. If you're sex life is going well be sure to let her know it. If not, however, be sure to address the issue in the most sensitive manner possible.
Yes, the world of dating is harsh. But if you genuinely care about her, with a little foresight and sincerity, you can make her feel more secure about your relationship and about herself and boost her ego.
Sexy Things To Do With Your Man
Sexy Things To Do With Your Guy by Joe "J Rag" Rago
Sometimes we take our relationships for granted, even our relationship with that sexy, love of our life. To keep the spice in a relationship, it takes a little planning but the rewards lead to a better bond in all areas of your partnership.
Here are some passion-inducing, fun things to do with your guy:
Take a sexy dance class together. The tango is perfect. Yes, it hit its peak in popularity in the 1920’s and 1950‘s; but don’t let that scare you away. It’s the best kept secret. Our parent’s generation never told us about the tango because they think we’re too innocent to do it. It’s the dance of passion and nothing is more intimate than rubbing your body up against his. He’ll have to wait until you get home to act on it, and that will make him all the more passionate. Yum.
Stay in bed all morning. Clear your schedule in advance and make a date with your guy. Read, have breakfast, talk. You’ll never know what will happen next.
French kiss. Sometimes we forget to do it in our day to day lives. When he’s sitting on the couch, crawl into his lap wearing a sexy outfit, and start exploring his lips with yours. Keep going until you’re locked into the best French kiss you have ever given a guy. It’s surprising how fast things heat up with this simple kiss.
Put a perfumed love note in his computer bag before he goes to work. Make sure it’s pink so he’s reminded of how feminine you are and make sure the perfume is sexy. He’ll be thinking of you every time he smells the scent. He’ll work extra fast to get back to you extra early.
Plan a massage night. Only thing is, to get one you have to give one.
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Thursday, January 5, 2012
Sexy Things To Do For Your Guy
Sexy Things To Do With Your Guy, But just the same, as easily could pertain to the other way around. So just remember to always be concious when in a Relationship. It is very Gratifying to both Partners.....
Sometimes we take our relationships for granted, even our relationship with that sexy, love of our life. To keep the spice in a relationship, it takes a little planning but the rewards lead to a better bond in all areas of your partnership.
Here are some passion-inducing, fun things to do with your guy:
Take a sexy dance class together. The tango is perfect. Yes, it hit its peak in popularity in the 1920’s and 1950‘s; but don’t let that scare you away. It’s the best kept secret. Our parent’s generation never told us about the tango because they think we’re too innocent to do it. It’s the dance of passion and nothing is more intimate than rubbing your body up against his. He’ll have to wait until you get home to act on it, and that will make him all the more passionate. Yum.
Stay in bed all morning. Clear your schedule in advance and make a date with your guy. Read, have breakfast, talk. You’ll never know what will happen next.
French kiss. Sometimes we forget to do it in our day to day lives. When he’s sitting on the couch, crawl into his lap wearing a sexy outfit, and start exploring his lips with yours. Keep going until you’re locked into the best French kiss you have ever given a guy. It’s surprising how fast things heat up with this simple kiss.
Put a perfumed love note in his computer bag before he goes to work. Make sure it’s pink so he’s reminded of how feminine you are and make sure the perfume is sexy. He’ll be thinking of you every time he smells the scent. He’ll work extra fast to get back to you extra early.
Plan a massage night. Only thing is, to get one you have to give one.
Sometimes we take our relationships for granted, even our relationship with that sexy, love of our life. To keep the spice in a relationship, it takes a little planning but the rewards lead to a better bond in all areas of your partnership.
Here are some passion-inducing, fun things to do with your guy:
Take a sexy dance class together. The tango is perfect. Yes, it hit its peak in popularity in the 1920’s and 1950‘s; but don’t let that scare you away. It’s the best kept secret. Our parent’s generation never told us about the tango because they think we’re too innocent to do it. It’s the dance of passion and nothing is more intimate than rubbing your body up against his. He’ll have to wait until you get home to act on it, and that will make him all the more passionate. Yum.
Stay in bed all morning. Clear your schedule in advance and make a date with your guy. Read, have breakfast, talk. You’ll never know what will happen next.
French kiss. Sometimes we forget to do it in our day to day lives. When he’s sitting on the couch, crawl into his lap wearing a sexy outfit, and start exploring his lips with yours. Keep going until you’re locked into the best French kiss you have ever given a guy. It’s surprising how fast things heat up with this simple kiss.
Put a perfumed love note in his computer bag before he goes to work. Make sure it’s pink so he’s reminded of how feminine you are and make sure the perfume is sexy. He’ll be thinking of you every time he smells the scent. He’ll work extra fast to get back to you extra early.
Plan a massage night. Only thing is, to get one you have to give one.
How To Buy Lingerie That She Will Love & Wear Over Again
It is important, that if you step out to a Store to purchase your woman Lingerie, that you don't assume going right to the Freaky, Raunchy, Fetish, type section, because that can ultimately go in a few directions and very bad is most of them..... Go for something you feel she will like. That will make her feel sexy and confident. You really do not want to scare her or intimidate her in any way. Elegant, Classy, & Sexy Pieces and Lingerie is the best and most intimate way to go.....
How To Buy Lingerie That She Will Love (And Wear Again And Again)
After fragrance, lingerie is the second most popular gift for Christmas.
Women love to receive gifts of luxury for Christmas. After all, if they need a blender or vacuum, it's considered a necessity and they can buy what they need without guilt at any time of the year.
But fragrance and lingerie seems to whisper, "I love you" the moment she opens the package. They are decadent gifts that she may not so readily indulge in for herself.
Here is part 1 of 2: a guide for men on how to buy lingerie. Part 2 on buying fragrance is coming in the near future.
Buying lingerie for your lady is intimidating for two reasons. The first one is obvious -- it can be uncomfortable to walk into what seems like a ladies’ only store. Lingerie stores are often pink, frilly places with only lady customers inside being served by (usually) youngish women.
The second reason buying lingerie for her is intimidating? Lingerie you have purchased in the past has often ended up collecting dust in a drawer.
In reality, there is no need to fear the idea of walking into a lingerie store. The sales ladies are used to helping men find something perfect for their special someone. You may be the only male in the store at that moment, but lingerie sales peak before holidays such as Christmas and Valentine’s mainly because of thoughtful guys like you -- guys who are trying to do something nice for the woman they love. In fact, men make 20% of all lingerie purchases throughout the year.
So how do you buy lingerie that makes her feel both comfortable and beautiful?
It’s not as hard as it sounds. A little research will get you (and ultimately her) what she really wants.
Start by looking in her closet. What size is she? Write down the sizes for her current lingerie, bras, dress pants or jeans, and tops. This information will immensely help the sales lady find the correct size and shorten your shopping time. (Don’t make the classic mistake of eyeing the sales women and telling her your wife is about her size or just a little bigger. There are a lot of sizes out there and being off by one or two makes the outfit unwearable.)
Go for something comfortable. No one wants to wear scratchy, itchy fabric against their skin -- not even, as hard as this may be to comprehend, not even if it means a guaranteed night of bliss with you. Rub the fabric against your inner wrist (this part of your skin is sensitive so it will give you a good reading). If it’s scratchy, move on.
Yes, yes, we know comfort usually means flannel or some other matronly fabric. Not exactly a turn on. However, believe it or not, there are some sexy, beautiful pieces that feel great on. You just have to spend a little extra time looking for them and make sure you are politely firm with the sales lady when you make this a requirement. Remember, you want your lady to actually wear the lingerie, correct?
Look for something she will feel beautiful wearing. If she feels beautiful, she’ll automatically feel sexy and you have got what you want, one happy, sexy woman. To do this, refer back to what you saw in her closet. What does she usually buy for herself now? Take it one or two steps beyond. Any more and she may not have the courage to put it on. For instance, if she only wears plain cotton bras and panties, go for something close to that style, but with a beautiful colour, flirty ruffle, and/or a sexy animal print pattern. Avoid anything with strategic cut outs in both the bra and panties. You get the point.
Lingerie is a special, intimate gift that says, “I love you and think you are beautiful.” Make sure you do the research first so you feel more comfortable while you are shopping and she feels comfortable, flattered, and very sexy when she’s wearing it.
How To Buy Lingerie That She Will Love (And Wear Again And Again)
After fragrance, lingerie is the second most popular gift for Christmas.
Women love to receive gifts of luxury for Christmas. After all, if they need a blender or vacuum, it's considered a necessity and they can buy what they need without guilt at any time of the year.
But fragrance and lingerie seems to whisper, "I love you" the moment she opens the package. They are decadent gifts that she may not so readily indulge in for herself.
Here is part 1 of 2: a guide for men on how to buy lingerie. Part 2 on buying fragrance is coming in the near future.
Buying lingerie for your lady is intimidating for two reasons. The first one is obvious -- it can be uncomfortable to walk into what seems like a ladies’ only store. Lingerie stores are often pink, frilly places with only lady customers inside being served by (usually) youngish women.
The second reason buying lingerie for her is intimidating? Lingerie you have purchased in the past has often ended up collecting dust in a drawer.
In reality, there is no need to fear the idea of walking into a lingerie store. The sales ladies are used to helping men find something perfect for their special someone. You may be the only male in the store at that moment, but lingerie sales peak before holidays such as Christmas and Valentine’s mainly because of thoughtful guys like you -- guys who are trying to do something nice for the woman they love. In fact, men make 20% of all lingerie purchases throughout the year.
So how do you buy lingerie that makes her feel both comfortable and beautiful?
It’s not as hard as it sounds. A little research will get you (and ultimately her) what she really wants.
Start by looking in her closet. What size is she? Write down the sizes for her current lingerie, bras, dress pants or jeans, and tops. This information will immensely help the sales lady find the correct size and shorten your shopping time. (Don’t make the classic mistake of eyeing the sales women and telling her your wife is about her size or just a little bigger. There are a lot of sizes out there and being off by one or two makes the outfit unwearable.)
Go for something comfortable. No one wants to wear scratchy, itchy fabric against their skin -- not even, as hard as this may be to comprehend, not even if it means a guaranteed night of bliss with you. Rub the fabric against your inner wrist (this part of your skin is sensitive so it will give you a good reading). If it’s scratchy, move on.
Yes, yes, we know comfort usually means flannel or some other matronly fabric. Not exactly a turn on. However, believe it or not, there are some sexy, beautiful pieces that feel great on. You just have to spend a little extra time looking for them and make sure you are politely firm with the sales lady when you make this a requirement. Remember, you want your lady to actually wear the lingerie, correct?
Look for something she will feel beautiful wearing. If she feels beautiful, she’ll automatically feel sexy and you have got what you want, one happy, sexy woman. To do this, refer back to what you saw in her closet. What does she usually buy for herself now? Take it one or two steps beyond. Any more and she may not have the courage to put it on. For instance, if she only wears plain cotton bras and panties, go for something close to that style, but with a beautiful colour, flirty ruffle, and/or a sexy animal print pattern. Avoid anything with strategic cut outs in both the bra and panties. You get the point.
Lingerie is a special, intimate gift that says, “I love you and think you are beautiful.” Make sure you do the research first so you feel more comfortable while you are shopping and she feels comfortable, flattered, and very sexy when she’s wearing it.
Friday, December 30, 2011
"My Valentine"
Celebrate Valentine's Day with J Rag @ The Theatre in Madison Square Garden, New York City, NY with Special Guests Keith Sweat, Dru HiLL, Jagged Edge, Case, Carl Thomas, Joe, & Donnell Jones..........
MindScApe Entertainment(R). All Rights Reserved. (c)J Rag Publishing(ASCAP).
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Thursday, December 29, 2011
5 Signs Of Relationship Problems
There are times in all romantic relationships when things don't run smoothly and can be difficult to understand--even in the most ideal of circumstances. Although relationships have their ups and downs, there are things you can both do that can minimize problems. Below are five of the most common relationship problems along with solutions that can help you have a better relationship.
1. Communication
The foundation and relative success of every relationship you maintain in life is built on communication; however, it is also the most common relationship problem. All relationship problems stem from poor communication skills, but if you want your relationship to work, you need to learn how to talk and listen properly to your partner.
It's no secret--men and women have very different communication styles; however, most men don't realize that a woman's idea of communication means actually listening to what she has to say and understanding her, as well as relate to her problems without judging her or providing unwanted advice. So, block off an hour or two for quality time with her and make the effort after a long day to discuss work, friends, your relationship, etc..
2. Sex
Their comes a time in any sexual relationship when you may feel you are not getting what you want or that you are not satisfying your woman. Even couples who love each other can be incompatible sexually. Compounding these problems is the fact that men and women alike are sorely lacking in sex education and sexual self-awareness.
If sitting down together and having a talk session about improving your sex life is too difficult, you may find that it is easier for you to show your partner what you want done differently or guide your partner during lovemaking. You may even find that your partner might have suggestions of her own. If you keep an open mind and attitude, you can avoid offending her and actually improve both of your styles and skills in the bedroom.
3. Not prioritizing your relationship
You can schedule time for sports, eating and going out with the fellas, don't you? So why should scheduling quality time with your woman be any different? Schedule time together on the calendar just as you would any other important event in your life and keep her interested in the relationship by doing things like making gestures of appreciation, compliment her, contacting her throughout the day, and showing genuine interest in her.
4. Trust
Trust is an essential part of any relationship. Ask yourself if there are certain behaviors or unresolved issues that are causing you and your partner not to trust each other? You and your partner can resolve trust issues by making a sincere effort to be open and truthful with each other, letting go of past grievances and doing simple things like being consistent, calling when you say you will, respecting each others boundaries and not overreacting when things go wrong.
5. Moving too fast
Some couples can go from casual to serious very quickly because they have so much in common or because of great sex. Some people move so quickly in new relationships that they become blinded by what they believe is true love or they're simply tired of being alone and would rather be with anyone to feel loved.
Whatever the reason, some relationships get way too serious way too fast and if you find yourself in such a situation, you might start looking for ways to take it down a notch. Doing things like group dating, avoiding spending the night at her place or inviting her to spend the night at yours and making post-date plans will keep you from spending all of your free time with her will make things feel a little less serious--at least for the time being.
1. Communication
The foundation and relative success of every relationship you maintain in life is built on communication; however, it is also the most common relationship problem. All relationship problems stem from poor communication skills, but if you want your relationship to work, you need to learn how to talk and listen properly to your partner.
It's no secret--men and women have very different communication styles; however, most men don't realize that a woman's idea of communication means actually listening to what she has to say and understanding her, as well as relate to her problems without judging her or providing unwanted advice. So, block off an hour or two for quality time with her and make the effort after a long day to discuss work, friends, your relationship, etc..
2. Sex
Their comes a time in any sexual relationship when you may feel you are not getting what you want or that you are not satisfying your woman. Even couples who love each other can be incompatible sexually. Compounding these problems is the fact that men and women alike are sorely lacking in sex education and sexual self-awareness.
If sitting down together and having a talk session about improving your sex life is too difficult, you may find that it is easier for you to show your partner what you want done differently or guide your partner during lovemaking. You may even find that your partner might have suggestions of her own. If you keep an open mind and attitude, you can avoid offending her and actually improve both of your styles and skills in the bedroom.
3. Not prioritizing your relationship
You can schedule time for sports, eating and going out with the fellas, don't you? So why should scheduling quality time with your woman be any different? Schedule time together on the calendar just as you would any other important event in your life and keep her interested in the relationship by doing things like making gestures of appreciation, compliment her, contacting her throughout the day, and showing genuine interest in her.
4. Trust
Trust is an essential part of any relationship. Ask yourself if there are certain behaviors or unresolved issues that are causing you and your partner not to trust each other? You and your partner can resolve trust issues by making a sincere effort to be open and truthful with each other, letting go of past grievances and doing simple things like being consistent, calling when you say you will, respecting each others boundaries and not overreacting when things go wrong.
5. Moving too fast
Some couples can go from casual to serious very quickly because they have so much in common or because of great sex. Some people move so quickly in new relationships that they become blinded by what they believe is true love or they're simply tired of being alone and would rather be with anyone to feel loved.
Whatever the reason, some relationships get way too serious way too fast and if you find yourself in such a situation, you might start looking for ways to take it down a notch. Doing things like group dating, avoiding spending the night at her place or inviting her to spend the night at yours and making post-date plans will keep you from spending all of your free time with her will make things feel a little less serious--at least for the time being.
Understanding Her Body Language
Signs of Negative Body Language
So you finally landed a date with a hot girl you thought you'd never have a chance with; however, you didn't notice that by her backing away from you, using her hand as a subtle barrier to keep you at bay, and fanning the air with her "goodbye" message, her body contradicted every kind word her lips said to you.
Still, you were excited about all the "possibilities" -- until two days later, when you made the promised phone call to her and you heard, "You know, I don't think we really have enough in common to see each other again." Where did that come from? Didn't she say it would be great if you called?
When it comes to understanding a woman, what she's doing is just as important as what she's saying -- sometimes more so. Maybe she didn't consciously know she had reservations about seeing you until much later, but her body knew from the get-go and was letting you know with key rejection signals. And since you weren't reading her completely, you wound up getting blindsided.
Understanding a woman's body language will give you a better idea of what she's really thinking and feeling along with saving you a lot of unnecessary heartache. So, the next time you meet a woman you're interested in, watch for the following 3 physical signs that she's not into you so you'll know when you need to change your approach and move on to someone else.
1. Disinterest
If your date smiles with her mouth but not her eyes and keeps looking away while you speak to her, she's probably not interested and is just trying to be polite and not lead you on. Other signs of disinterest may include her tapping or drumming her fingers, slapping a fake smile on her face without laughing, leaning away from you and just flat out making excuses to leave as soon as possible.
2. She avoids physical proximity
If a woman is attracted to you, she will naturally want to be close to you. However, if a woman keeps you at arm's length at all times, she's defensive, guarded and may also be protecting her personal space, so make sure you don't get too close.
3. Anger
If she flays her hands instantaneously when demonstrating a point or makes sudden motions when emphasizing some matters, your presence is agitating her--in a bad way. If her hands are placed on her hips or she's swinging her foot in your direction, consider that she's actually making a kicking motion towards you--which are both very, very bad signs.
If a woman is displaying these 3 signs, she's just not feeling it and there's really little point in pursuing this cold fish.
So you finally landed a date with a hot girl you thought you'd never have a chance with; however, you didn't notice that by her backing away from you, using her hand as a subtle barrier to keep you at bay, and fanning the air with her "goodbye" message, her body contradicted every kind word her lips said to you.
Still, you were excited about all the "possibilities" -- until two days later, when you made the promised phone call to her and you heard, "You know, I don't think we really have enough in common to see each other again." Where did that come from? Didn't she say it would be great if you called?
When it comes to understanding a woman, what she's doing is just as important as what she's saying -- sometimes more so. Maybe she didn't consciously know she had reservations about seeing you until much later, but her body knew from the get-go and was letting you know with key rejection signals. And since you weren't reading her completely, you wound up getting blindsided.
Understanding a woman's body language will give you a better idea of what she's really thinking and feeling along with saving you a lot of unnecessary heartache. So, the next time you meet a woman you're interested in, watch for the following 3 physical signs that she's not into you so you'll know when you need to change your approach and move on to someone else.
1. Disinterest
If your date smiles with her mouth but not her eyes and keeps looking away while you speak to her, she's probably not interested and is just trying to be polite and not lead you on. Other signs of disinterest may include her tapping or drumming her fingers, slapping a fake smile on her face without laughing, leaning away from you and just flat out making excuses to leave as soon as possible.
2. She avoids physical proximity
If a woman is attracted to you, she will naturally want to be close to you. However, if a woman keeps you at arm's length at all times, she's defensive, guarded and may also be protecting her personal space, so make sure you don't get too close.
3. Anger
If she flays her hands instantaneously when demonstrating a point or makes sudden motions when emphasizing some matters, your presence is agitating her--in a bad way. If her hands are placed on her hips or she's swinging her foot in your direction, consider that she's actually making a kicking motion towards you--which are both very, very bad signs.
If a woman is displaying these 3 signs, she's just not feeling it and there's really little point in pursuing this cold fish.
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